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Well getting woman does not seem to be a problem... but holding on to them does! Maybe I'm still not over my long term girlfriend to have another relationship that's why they keep failing. Or maybe...

Well... It was all going good... those who know my story my ex of 4 yrs broke up with me about 5 months ago out of nowhere. I was in complete ruin etc etc... started to feel better about myself after...

Its amazing how low I was at that point. Defintely a life changing experience which I think many people have to go through in order to grow.

Hello everyone - I thought I would share how things are going in my life. Things are going amazingly with this new girl... we are now seeing each other, and we get on so well its great! She's knows...

I went out for a date with that girl on Thursday - as she was txtin me quite a bit and seemed pretty keen! It was absolutely fantastic - we went out for a few drinks, ended up back at her place...

Just thought I'd let you all know how I'm doing.

I'm doing absolutely fantastic! Work is going great, my life is great. I met this girl at the wknd who seems to b amazing - gorgeus, intelligent,...

You guys are right... I am not lowering myself.. once again to that level. I resisted sending her a txt - thanks for knocking some sense into me. That part of my life is over... time to move on!

Maybe I should not care... but if she's been cheating on me then I don't want her to get away with it. Im not saying I'm going to become a crazy slashing tires etc... but the least she deserves is a...

Okay for those who don't know my story my ex (nrly 4 year relationship, she 23 me 25)broke up with me 3 months ago (well techically 3 weeks since she said she does not want to get back together...

I was doing so dam good! Started flirting with girls again, feeling good about myself, I was getting interest from other girls. Then last night I drove past my ex's house - I have to because it's...

Firstly Happy Birthday! I have to say sneeze I'm a little jealous! I think your ex dumped you just before mine but only a week or so maybe and you seem to have no problems getting dates and such. I...

She wants out... whatever reasons she tells you - it won't make sense. It will contradict everything she has said before, you will think she has had a momentarily lack of judgement and has gone...

Thanks for the posts guys much appreciated. I'll try these things. Any other tips are welcome as is anybody else going through a similar thing! Would be nice to know Im not the only one.

Basically I need some tips on how to get my confidence back up. For those who don't know my girlfriend split up with me about 3 months ago now from a nrly 4 yr relationship which came completely...

Well, the ex came around... and as I expected it was horrible... but at least I have some sort of closure now. Basically I told her I will be going travelling for 2 -3 months, then moving to america...

Latest: So its been 3 weeks since I last saw my ex (again) 2.5 months total split time. She txtd me today saying her mum has done the questionairres for me (I needed them for my project) and how...

Don't let yourself get paranoid mate - your making up conversations in your head! Next you know your thinking of other things.. dont go there!! I know how you feel my ex has starting going out...

That's a good way of putting things.. 'she likes being able to pick and chose when to give you time'... puts things in perspective I think - also sounds familiar. I remember this phrase lol.

I don't know if this helps but I share a bed with this girl friend of mine when I stay at hers or sometimes we go away together - nothing happens - we been friends for 8yrs or so now though....

To be honest mate it doesn't make much difference what I or anybody else says because you want to be with her more than anything in the world and nothing people say will make a difference to what you...

I think I've been lying to myself- going around and seeing her completely did raise my hopes and now I feel so bad again.. (2 months after initial breakup). When I left her house she said she would...

You mean in relation to other blokes? - Nope that would be a little weird. Unless your saying I'l never know for sure if she's interested in another bloke unless I did that. True enough I don't know...

Update: So its been a month? Ish since I saw my ex girlfriend last. Well the mum phoned me back I missed the call but she left an answerphone message saying she would be happy to help me with the...

Well guys! Your be happy to hear I resisted on going around to her house. This is very much due to you guys, my friends and family support lol - I'm really glad I did because I honestly thing if I...

I feel for you Sean - I really do - 6 years, I'm going through a similar thing myself at nrly 4 years... At least you know that the reasons she wanted to break things off is because she said she has...

Okay, so its been 3 weeks since the last time I saw my ex and 2 weeks since I sent the last text saying its obvious she does not want us to get back together and that I'm moving on. Her reply was the...

Okay so it's the day of my exam, I had a terrible sleep last night - didn't even think of my exam just thinking how angry and upset that she has not even bothered to message good luck luck. She knows...

Okay, it's the 2 week mark again. 2 weeks after she broke up with me couldn't take it anymore we went for dinner - (saw her). 2 weeks after than, couldn't take it anymore, wrote her a letter, took...

Thanks for your support guys you've been great. I was wandering when you think I should start dating again. I mean how do I know when I'm ready? At the moment I feel rejected and kind of worthless....

Why am I still getting upset every day? I am revising, I am going to gym, going out every night - yet every day I get upset and keep thinking of the little things we used to do together like sing...

Do you mean you think her actions suggest she's after som1 else? I asked her if she was interested in som1 else a while ago in one of our conversations she said no. But who knows? I don't suppose she...

Well guys I should have listened to you all earlier lol. She still had not txted me back about whether meet up - (she was the one who first sugggested it may I add). So 24hrs later I txted her one...

I can't take it anymore - we have been txting over xmas but she is so slow to respond to text messages - the last one she asked me if I wanted to do do somin on sun night (I txted her a while before...

Your so right talaniman! At this moment in time it is all talk. I mean when we see each other she if very touchy feely but in essence all she is doing is agreeing to things I am suggesting. I know...

Isneezefunny - We are not over - she has said that she wants to go to couples counseling - thereby she has not lost hope in our relationship. She said she loves me and will always love me, said she...

I am really finding this hard and need some words of encouragement. My (ex?) girlfriend and I have been txting lots over xmas; although she does take a long time to respond which is really...

Maybe you guys are right, that I am setting myself up for a fall. But maybe she is generally confused, was unhappy in the relationship, loves me more than anything but at the moment can't see a way...

Today after splitting up for about 1 month, not seen/spoken to my ex-gf in 2weeks, I went over to my ex-GF house gave her a enveloped letter saying how I felt and briefly spoke to her for about...

Thanks!

What is that chinese proverb that is about letting someone you love go free - it goes something like 'if you let a bird free, it will come back if it is yours, but it won't if it never was' It is...

Should I confront her about Isneezefunny idea that "when girls say " I need space... I need time," it usually means "I found another guy, and I'm not so sure about you anymore". Usually. I mean she...

I was thinking about putting a photo of the time I know when my girlfriend was happiest under the door on xmas day, on the back saying 'thinking of you'. Is this a bad idea?

For those who don't...

Not sure I agree with you guys on that - people can love someone and not want to be with them because they make them unhappy maybe.

If I ask her friend whether I should move on or hold out is that OK?
Basically for those who do not know my story: (I am 25, she 23) about 3.5 weeks ago my girlfriend of nearly 4 years said she was...

Thanks for the advice confused - what you say makes sense. What worries me is "putting myself first" - because this is the reason she broke up with me I think. I always did what I wanted to do and...

Sounds very cruel to me mafiaangel - it is not her fault she feels the way she feels, I doubt she set out to hurt him.

I told my girlfriend who said she needed more 'time' that we should go no contact, that was on Monday. But there are 2 questions that are driving me mad that if I don't find out I think will always...

Dam friend4u178 - now you have got me worried. Isneezefunny you sound in a very similar situation to me - you can read my post - just search for it. Basically been going out with girlfriend for...

I think you are right guys, but as far as she is concerned there is too much water under the bridge at the moment. As far as I see it, the reason she and anyone splits up with anyone, is because...

Just little things it sounds like- like playing on the computer when she is trying to sleep when she asked me not. Or not listening to her when she rings. Or Not coming over to her in the mornings...