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Thanks for your advice; sorry there are some know it alls on here that are rude and tactless...

My husband and I have 3 kids, one 23 and on his own, one 18 at home and one almost 11. We will be married 25 years in June. We have had a rough marriage, but there have been good times too. In the...

All I know is if I got cheated concerning time with my child because an ex "had" to move 700 miles away when that ex does not have a job outside the home and thinks she/he has to live with family I...

I will be filing for divorce within the next couple of months. For those out there that have done the 50/50 time arrangement with your kid(s) please could you tell me how you did it, what days, etc?...

I apologize, you're right. I had been reading several posts and sounds like I was reading this one but had another one which was similar in my mind too. YOU are not string him along. HE is stringing...

I don't understand the agree/disagree posts on #5. What does "balancer" mean? And the term "reddie" lol! TIA...

Okay, you are being judgemental and doing exactly the same things you are accusing me of. Know the difference between giving judgments as truth or opinions. I do not want sugar-coated...

To finish my comment on agree/disagree: I have heard that this is exactly what is going on from trustworthy sources without him around. And he made it my business when he shared it with me. No I...

No, no, he's not afraid of paying child support-no deadbeat dad here! He wants those kids to stay with him. He's afraid SHE will take the child support money she will be awarded after the divorce...

She is NOT their mother, period. It would be all I could do to keep from marching over there and slapping her right across the face! Doesn't want them to have cell phones because it disrupts HER time...

I am friends with a man (just friends) that has been married for about 20 years. He and his wife have seven children together, ranging from early elementary age to high school age. They lived in the...

I agree. Unless you don't care to ever have a stable relationship or marriage to someone, I would forget this man. He is just stringing you along. And I find it weird that after all those live-in...

Also you said "7 more years until the house is quiet again." Yeah, 7 more years until the kids don't have to be involved in the household strife. But what makes you think that after this the house...

Also wanted to add that even we're under the same roof doesn't mean that our family is not already torn apart and kids hurt and confused. No I'm not proud to admit that. But you also have to look at...

I know that post took a LOT of your time and I appreciate that. Yes, I have thought of waiting the 7years. I have thought of just ignoring him because a missed a spot on the table I just dusted, etc....

I totally agree. I've already decided on counseling for me and possibly the kids. He doesn't want marriage counseling. I've begged him to go to no avail... :(

UPDATE: I carefully prepared a text requesting that he give me some "closure". It was nothing but platonic. He responded right away and said he is so sorry for hurting me abd leading me on but we are...

WOW! He is a self-pleasing control freak! Wants you to get fat together, OMG!! That is ridiculous. He obviously doesn't care about your well-being or he wouldn't make such a statement. He sounds...

NC is SOOOO hard! I know how you feel...

You sound like a carbon copy of me 23 years ago. You have to ask yourself some questions: Is he good to you and the baby?
Does he do nothing but work and then go run around?
You sound like you're...

No one in my family has ever divorced. I totally do not even know how to begin the process. What will it do to my senior in HS and my almost 11 year old? I can't BEAR the thought of not seeing them...

This is very touching, it made me cry, but that's OK because it also made me feel like am "worth" something. Thanks so much... :o

I just want to clarify that no I alone did not initiate the idea of becoming more close/intimate with him, we both did. Yes, I started the big bang theory all over because I told him I loved him, but...

Thank you for this post. I just lost my dad on the 10th, to all of you that have responded I apologize. I overreacted. I just felt like, until now, that everone that responded said it was me that is...

Don't EVEN tell me after 44 years I should know about people "coming" and "going". I've lost more people than most at my age, and permanently, as in death. You're going to P*** me off REAL quick with...

First, I wasn't trying to "kid" myself. I had a very emotional week and blurted it out. I wish I could take back those 3 words. But I can't.
Second, I NEVER said I wanted to cheat with him by...

Been aquiantances with this man for over a year, nothing more. Last week we started texting because I told him we are going through similar situations and I needed someone to talk to. He told me he...