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If someone doesn't have the decency to breakup with you in person they don't deserve your time or energy. If you feel you need closure you could send a quick text saying that she is never welcome to...

It's hard letting go but you seem to have accepted the fact that you didn't work as a couple. You tried being friends but that was too painful. Your only other option is to live your life without...

It sounds like there's two issues here. He withholds sex from you as a form of punishment after you fight. Second, his desire for intimacy has dwindled in general. I believe that any form of...

Rarely do couples in cyclical relationships make it work. She did give it a chance and for whatever reason she was not satisfied. It's hard to let go but you'll meet someone you're more compatible...

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Look up narcissistic personality disorder on the internet. I just read in your statement that he was arrogant and degrading to you. Ironically, the big ego and arrogance is only a false persona in...

Maybe it's just curiosity and the mystery of her life that has piquéd your interest. Just because someone comes up in your thoughts doesn't mean you haven't moved on.

I wouldn't get in touch...

So did you wish him a happy birthday or give him all the space in the world?

Thanks! I'm glad I'm not the only one. Effectively I see your partner as someone that is your best friend and closest companion however the difference is that you are intimate with that person. ...

I totally get what you're saying about having a clear picture of what you want. I want someone that has strong values, respects others, knows what they want in life, takes care of themselves, is...

Sorry, my message was to Talaniman. You don't think it's important to date all different types of people in terms of size, race, interests, hobbies, career, background? I have 'types' too but I...

Thank you for the candid opinion. You raise some good points. I will say that we did not have sex nor oral. It was only touching and I said I think we should hit the brakes. Agree that it's...

I'm very happy with my choices thanks. Isn't that what dating is all about... learning what's important to you and in a partner, learning what you want and don't want. Would you tell someone that...

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This question is to other women. Would you end things with a guy if he had a really small ? I know this sounds shallow and I'm sure people will curse me out but sex in a relationship is very...

It's up to you to break the cycle. I know it's really difficult. I've been in your position before too and kept going back.

The best way to end this rollercoaster of a relationship is to tell...

Read the first sticky on the relationships page. This is a scam DUH

I think that's really common and normal to experience those feelings. I know with my last boyfriend I longed for the friendship and connection we shared after the relationship ended. At first I had...

You're just a child and in ten years when you're actually an adult this will all be totally insignificant. I'm sorry but you have your entire life ahead of you and plenty of relationships in your...

Why would you want to be with someone that clearly doesn't want to be with you? Isn't the entire appeal and attraction toward someone founded on reciprocity. You can't get her back. You have to...

I've dealt with both sides of the coin. I have a guy now that phones but doesn't text. The previous boyfriend texted regularly but didn't call for the first 8-12 months of our relationship. If...

You're much more tolerant than me but I also have a really strong sex drive when I'm in a relationship. I would've bailed after the first month but I also consider sex an important aspect in a...

Sweet gestures are great but they lose their significance and relevance when they're so frequently received. I do not keep track however I don't believe in giving more than I get in return. God...

Thanks for the update. You have a fresh start now and you're only 26. The world is your oyster.

He sounds like an unstable Mable. I would've laughed and said I guess your phone has a mind of it's own or a ghost took a picture of me on your phone. I'd be donezo with this one. He'll end up...

You don't have to get into a relationship. Dating can be casual and fun.

If this was the person you were meant to be with then you would be with that person.

The grieving process is not...

As someone that did the on and off again relationship for a year and a half I think I can offer good insight here.

I was in a very similar situation although I was the one doing the breaking up. ...

It may help you to feel better if you can recognize your part in this. You initially left her to date someone else. Don't fill yourself up with guilt and regret but do consider the possibility that...

I know it's hard to believe this but everything truly does work out the way it is supposed to. Enjoy your birthday and all the birthday wishes you receive. Those are the individuals that love and...

NO! If you run into him smile and say hello but do not engage in conversation. Walk around with your head held high and act as if his actions don't even phase you in the slightest. Sometimes when...

I told him how I felt and am glad I did because I met someone else that strikes my interest. We've gone out three times and I definitely feel more sparks with this guy. It's still really early and...

Another thing... if she happens to hit you up at some point DO NOT RESPOND. I doubt she will but stranger things have happened. I'm here to tell you if you do respond you'll either get a sweet...

Pick up the phone and call him. You seriously have nothing to lose and you'll soon find out if he's interested in going out again.

Just call. People read into the content and frequency of text messages way too often. It's not an indicator or a gauge of your relationship. I'm glad the new guy I'm seeing picks up the phone. ...

I was also told that I have too high of a sex drive before. When people are stressed it kills their libido.

I totally understand your frustration though. I used to become irate when I'd make...

You're taking the right step by ending all communication. I blocked my ex on Match and my cell because it was just too painful. I didn't want to hear from him or know anything about him. I also...

You sound like a very generous, giving person and while females love cards, flowers and gifts in general, there's also a limit. I can already tell from your post that you over extend yourself and I'm...

In all of this we are only hearing about what she wants. What do you want in a relationship? She is calling all the shots here and like others have said, it seems totally unbalanced.

I don't...

You probably won't like this answer but let him go. You guys have had so many ups and downs I think there will be too much resentment and bitterness from both ends to have a successful relationship....

Ok I dated someone that was perfectly content seeing me once a week, twice if lucky. I have a full time career, close friendships, acquaintances and family nearby and that was not enough for me...

So you've heard it from people that know you and people that don't know you. Hanging out less often is not going to help dissolve your feelings. You can give it a shot but don't be surprised if...

Looks like you answered your own question :-) I couldn't handle a friendship with a guy I loved and have found that my desire for one usually stems from having more than platonic feelings for the...

You both seem to be all over the place in terms of your feelings for one another. She wants to screw around. You don't believe in doing that yet you do it anyway (not judging). You want to be with...

Relationships take more than just love and fun times together. I've broken up with someone that I still loved and wanted to be with because there was no future and he couldn't offer me what I...

Sounds like she knows the relationship won't work but she still has feelings and can't let go. Either you're together or you're not. Just talk to her and see where she stands. If she just wants to...

The mind works in mysterious ways. When you're with someone and not happy all you want to do is get out. Then, once you're out you find yourself thinking about and missing the person. Before you...

Sounds like torture to me. Call me weak but I personally can't move on and recover if I'm in touch with someone.

Just pitch the letter. You moved on so why even open that door again. It never works the second or third time around. I've tried with several different guys only to get the same results.

That's always tough moving to a new location where you don't know anyone but that also opens the door to an entirely new world. Chances are you'll meet people in your workplace. I joined a few...

"I know men are completely incapable of being as faithful as a woman can be, and was tired of being handed the short-end of the stick, so to speak)"

First, I'm a woman and would like to dispel...

It's not intentional. He's just messed up. You're not dealing with a full deck of cards here. Plus, addicts tend to be extremely moody, irrational, selfish and narcissistic. Everything you're...