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Seriously sounds all too much trouble than it's worth.

Get someone who enjoys the physical aspect of a relationship as much as the rest of a healthy relationship.

It was only 3 months, so I'd...

The relationship is too young only 1 month old.

Tell him you'll stop stripping if you're still together as a couple after 12 months.

Bingo.

Man I can't stand woman that do this. They can't communicate and they're too scared of what your reaction might be.
Let it go, it will just screw with your mind until you go mad and you will never...

You sound like a salivating puppy dog, and of course she can sense it.


Next she'll tell you later she just wants to be friends.

Yeah, stop texting her. If she was super interested she would...

Why don't you ask him out instead ? It's 2010 !
If you want something just walk up and grab it before someone else does.

It all boils down to chemistry. You mix different people together just like chemicals and you get different reactions. My last girlfriend was also very attractive and claimed the same. "I do...

If you enjoyed the sex why is it stupid ? Life is so short to always be in your head and focused on future expectations. How can you ever enjoy today with such a backlog of how things 'ought to be'...

Eventually if there is no sex most men will bail out, that's just how it is.
I'm 38 and as time moves too far on would probably just do the same.
It never used to be that way, but right now I'd...

Maybe he's just old school and a gentleman. But that's just a quick guess.

Well I agree that it all helps. Good luck anyway living back at your old home town and hope things turn out for the best.

Seriously, I don't think Adam will care. Have your relationship openly or don't have it at all. I don't think this girl cares either-way, but she could change the way she feels about you if you were...

Seriously, this guy is in denial that he's over her.
And is just dying, dying . . . to talk with her.

Sounds like he's spoken to near everyone in town about her too.
I have my doubts about the...

There's your answer, it's your first time !
It'll be great on the third go.. .

Sex for the first time is uncomfortable with anyone unless you are both highly experienced,
Have no inhibitions...

Of course you can marry another guy, don't worry about it.

(NB. If she was in one of those cultures/countries/religions where they are extremely strict and outcast you from society or even stone...

It might be best to fix up your life before taking on board another relationship. You seem to react too hastily and get carried away with your emotions. You initiated the idea of becoming more...

Sounds like after you only made it to second base, he realizes it's going to be too much bother and he's onto the next chick. A lot of guys are like that.

You have to ask yourself if you want...

I'm going to say it's the distance that is putting pressure on the relationship. I'm going to guess that she is starting to think that there is no future together. It's not very full filling only...

Ps, I don't drink and when I go out to see friends at a bar, I take my car and Im always home by about 2am latest so she has nothing to worry about.

That's a good boy. Stay p*ssy whipped.
She's...

.. . He abuses you everyday ?
You should marry him right away, I'm sure you'll have a wonderful life together with an abuser.

He doesn't love you hun, be with a man that loves you.
That's your...

All I'm going to say for now is.. .
If you have erectile dysfunction, haven't had sex for 12 months and sleep on the couch because she says it's cramped in the double bed.. .
How in heavens name...

Okay, well.. . Only you can be the best judge of that.

OK, so you're the first girl he's let stay overnight.
That's clarifies a lot.

Anyway, it sounds good to me. Think positive.
Sounds like you're the first women he actually wants more with. Look...

Are you saying he is gay and you're the first woman he slept with ?
I'm not quite sure what your situation is.

Well, I said 'someone' as in someone special, I never mentioned 'anyone'.

Okay, good question.
". . . every guy I get involved with lately - it's only good between us for a few months." -...

Well, it's obvious you want to get married (to someone).

If you look over the things that you've written can you not see how negative you are and how you are setting up each relationship to fail....

The relationship sounds like it was toxic and from your description
She sounds like she's full of negativity.

I'd leave it, for someone who is positive.

If she really felt exactly as you say, she'd be with you.
She isn't, so move on.

It's easier for the dumper, because he/she has been contemplating leaving for some time already. The dumpee is in shock and starts the grieving process later.

Let it happen if it's meant to, naturally. If you try to force the issue you will kill any chances that you have.

My advice is to just continue what you're doing, enjoying each others company and...

I can tell you that right now if I met the most wonderful, beautiful and loving person I'm not wanting a relationship right now either. Let him finish his courses.

There's no need to rush or...

That's right, it will come when you give up and stop looking.
That's just how it works !

She told you that she's missing passion in the relationship.

If you got back together, for her the same "hole" will eventually rear it's head. That is, if you can't do anything about expressing...

GreenGo >I feel as though it would give me security, (becoming an official couple) knowing that I wouldn't lose her.

Dude, It's been a month. You're insecure and need to let go of that idea of...

What a man thinks of his mistress just depends on the person. He can love them like we can all love many people. Or he can be using them just for sex, companionship or a plethora or reasons.

It's...

Ok. My advice is just leave it be. When you see her again behave the same as you always have.
Don't bring it up unless she makes more moves on you and shows that she wants something more.
Then at...

From the patterns that I am reading she wants YOU to take her back so she can dump you and leave you again. She's looking for validation that "really" you want her back and are just teaching her a...

Dude, after reading that long last post about the towels etc.. . It sounds like you've completely changed the way you write and your language.

You're not going to like my answer but you come off...

If he's come onto the internet to ask what to do about his private life, it's way past the talking stage of sitting down to discuss like partners. She isn't going to talk about it with him, she's...

Excitement, contentment, whatever.
You don't give someone who is bored, contentment.
Contentment comes after excitement.

"My spouse responded that I was being a control freak"

She has started to resent you and is looking back at her past.
The past is all one has to carry with them for solace.
She is undoubtedly...

Seriously, I've been through this mess in my early years.
Even if you get her to leave this guy you will never feel that you can trust her ever. You're being strung along and played because you're...

It sounds like Russel355ml is just her RS.
(Refueling Station).

Eventually this relationship is destined to fail, once she finds
Something else out their to "permanently" take his place.

You...

That's why I recommended a good hard 90 days. ( not a few weeks)
It's a 6 year relationship. There's a lot of dead wood to burn.
It would give you both some time to think what you both want from...

I just wanted to say I missed the part where you said
"I had been dating her on and off for nearly 6 years"

The relationship could also be running it's toll if it's been 6 years "on" and "off"....

Write a very small letter, just a little note and mail it.
____________________________________________
Hi, It has been a little difficult to contact you,
But I just wanted to say 3 things.

1....

She's already slept with another guy. She has tasted other flavors of cake out there. It will never work. You can get her back, but she will use you and leave again for more cake.

If you tell her you risk losing it all.

Swallow your guilt and say nothing if you want it to work stay the same as it is.
She will never feel the same way about you ever again once you open up...

You shouldn't have told her you love her too early.
You probably scared her off.
You should tell her something like that in 12 months when after there's a firm foundation.
Live and learn. She...

Yes. They can be that nice even if not interested. To keep the peace or test the waters. Like Hundalei said "you will never know until you ask" - I'd go NC again for a while and lay low.

Doesn't sound like a legitimate post to me.