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Nope, going to try to talk it out. I am just scared that she will not want to change and I will not be able to bare it. If I don't budge and she doesn't budge its not going to work, I'm scared that...

I am over the snooped thing. That is MINOR compared to the (core issues) big picture. I was never a fan at someone getting caught at something there not supposed to be doing and then try to divert...

OOps :) might be a little late for the mad thing. I guess I should have asked a little eairlier lol
Its so hard not to be mad. I don't want to give her an ultimatum but don't want to feel like 2nd...

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A little background to set up the question. My wife has a friend that she still talks to on a regular basis, this friend also was her ex boyfriend. She was in an open relationship with him...