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I went through similar situation. It's not easy to let go but the truth is, you'd find yourself much happier if you cut him off completely. Don't let him lead you on and play with your feelings,...

I was in similar situation months ago. My ex of 5 years broke up with me end of last year and soon started seeing another girl. I was heart-broken and devastated. In the beginning I kept contact with...

My ex would give me the best things in the entire world and cared a lot about me. Perhaps it's hard to accept the fact that things are not the same anymore. I loved him and trusted him. I have...

I could rationalize why I stay away from him, yet a part of me still wouldn't let go. Am scared I might have misunderstood him by any chance.

:confused: Hi... I haven't posted for awhile. To recap my story - ex of 5 yrs broke up with me last November and he soon was seeing another girl. We're physically miles apart during the past 3 years...

I have visited this site for awhile. Remained NC for almost 4 months, ever since I changed my mobile number and my ex couldn't contact me. Two weeks ago, he started bombarding me through emails and...

I have a guy friend whom I met in college about 5 years ago and lately we got to know each other more and best buddies. He is kind of a player in terms of relationship but is a great friend and is...

Haven't been around for awhile. Am happy to tell you all that (I think) I'm pretty much moved on from my ex of 5 years who has been a big jerk when he broke up with me. Reason I say so was because...

rol, you're right. I should have just deleted his email in tehe first place. After my last brief reply, he never wrote back. I start to wonder if he emailed me just to check if I'm still around or...

Thanks rol! I replied his email today. Kept it brief and asked about his parents. He told me that they're doing good. He then asked me about my community service trip in Thailand. I had a good time...

Not sure whether it's just a coincidence or something else. My ex emailed me yesterday. I haven't heard from him for more than 2 months, ever since I changed my number. He just dropped a line to see...

Thanks rol! Am trying my best to move on. Have been giving further thoughts and believe perhaps I am somewhat jealous that my ex has moved on so quickly after breaking up with me and is now a new...

Yes, I admit at times I still wonder if my ex would think of me. The last thing he said to me was that he doesn't want me to be out of his life and he would break up with the girl if that is what it...

Not sure if anyone can help me analyze my dreams or I simply need to seek therapy from professionals. For those who followed my threads, it's been almost half a year my ex of five years broke up...

This is exactly what I need to do...

"Dear Ex,

I don't know why I still think about you but I am working hard to learn that I'm better off without you.

You are selfish and short-sighted....

I think we were in similar situation, SouthernBelle. I was also in long distance with my ex. We tried to work things out. Problem was I couldn't move to where he was at the time due to some family...

I completely agree you Southernbelle! And good points made, Jiser! It's been almost half a year since my ex of 5 years broke up with me. I tried to do all things to get over him but it's hard. At...

I have been having the urge to call him and I know it's a BIG MISTAKE if I do it.

Wish I can be more stronger. I really want to know how long it takes to get over with a 5 yrs relationship.

Dragging will only hurt her more later on.

Hi guys, am just writing to vent. Have been thinking a lot about my ex these days. Haven't thought of him for awhile. NC has continued for almost 1 and a half month now, ever since I changed my...

Yes. She's probably not playing any mind game but simply not mature enough to know what she wants to consider your feelings. She need to block her out of your life (at least for some time) to allow...

The lines in this clip are quite inspirational. I cried when I first watched it.

YouTube - First Loves Kate Winslet

Agree everyone above! It's time for you to take control of things, of your happiness, of your life! Deep inside you know well whether the relationship is over or not, but maybe you just want accept...

I'm sorry to say this Applepie, but he doesn't seem to deserve you. Something is missing here. If he still misses you or even have feelings for you, why aren't you guys together now? Why do you...

I am in a very similar situation as you, Southernbelle, and I know how you feel! My ex birthday is coming up in two weeks and mine is just few days before his! For the past many years we always...

Yes Stunning! And agree with you wap. I haven't spoken to my ex for almost a month now, mainly because I changed my number he no longer could (conveniently) contact me. Must say I still think of...

I understand how you're feeling now. You should give yourself time to heal. Don't rush but don't give up with the healing process.

I got out from a five years relationship few months ago and my...

After many months my ex left me and seeing someone else, I still have the hope that he'll come back one day. But as time goes by, I see more clearly that I'm just giving myself false hopes and...

I'm not in the position to tell you whether you should or should not break up, because here are something you should bear in mind:-

1. You are going to break her heart if you break up her, no...

I personally am 100% against cheating! It's a BIG NO NO.

Perhaps because I was once a victim. My ex cheated on me few years ago and I felt devastated. I remember the day I found out, I literally...

I'm sorry to hear what happened. I also had a difficult time getting overwith my ex boyfriend of 5 years who had not been very faithful and yet I still think of him a lot. What I do now is that...

Congrats & Bravo! Am proud of you. You're a very brave girl!

Best of luck to you!

Hi, for those of you who have follow my threads, I'm now in the process of moving on from my ex whom I started dating with since undergrad.

Was just reading the alumni news and learned that there...

Perhaps you should reread what you wrote. You have a husband AND a boyfriend. Do you mean you never broke off with this boyfriend the day when you decided to marry your now-husband?

You should...

*HUGS* You can live without him if you have the will.

Deep inside you know there's no future with him. I agree with Ikoikocomic that he's not going to leave his wife for you. If he could, he...

You're very right, Wildcat! A part of me still dreams that he'll call, tells me he still loves me and get back together! Yet, I also know this is only a wishful thinking and very silly of me to...

Thanks Geoff! Yes, I felt the change of number was done more for myself than to block him out. I felt weak for the past months, always checking my phone to see if I have any missed calls and yet am...

Thanks gals/ guys for your support! Hope this will finally give myself a new start.

Wildcat, just want to let you know that I don't have caller ids on my phone. Yet I admit that a part of me have...

Thanks. It's very strange that I start to miss him a lot today when I went to change my number. For the past weeks I have been doing quite good, haven't thought of him for a while and generally...

Despite many times I have told him to stop contacting me, my ex of 5 years continue to call me about every 2 weeks to check on me. Few days ago he called again, asking how I am doing and wonder if...

I know how you feel as I am going through a similar situation except that my ex is already seeing someone else and yet calls me every two weeks to check on me and tells me that he misses me. It's a...

Yes, don't call her back. If it's important, she'll call you again, write you an email, or try any means to reach you.

Try to froget about it and don't give yourself any false hopes, cause they...

She sounds very like my ex boyfriend who broke up with me few months ago. She sounds very selfish. Probably she still has feelings for you, but she obviously doesn't care for you enough to consider...

Hi guys, as some of you may know, my ex of 5 years broke up with me months ago and managed to stay no contacts for some time now. Though at times I still think about him, I begin to realize maybe I...

Can you forgive her for hurting you? Love yourself more. You deserve better than this. Move on.

Yea, perhaps I lack sleep these days. Family and work made me really stressed out. And weirdly, under these circumstances, I couldn't help myself from thinking about my ex. Really miss the good...

It's been months after my ex and I separated. I no longer cry myself to sleep every night though at times I still feel upset. Have engaged myself into many different activities these day and try new...

Hey UTaustinash, I just made a similar post as I have also slipped with the no contact thing. So I know how you feel. I am too still searching for the answer but can share with you of how I cope it....

I feel very stupid and begin to hate myself for being so weak, for failing to keep up to NC. As I have posted previously, my ex sent me a card on valentine's day with a long message saying many sweet...