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    Question for a friend

    Heyy

    I decided to ask this question about my friends situation because I really was wondering what other people thought. I am going through a similar experience as most of you know so I know...
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    Hey, Its been six months since my boyfriend...

    Hey,

    Its been six months since my boyfriend of 2 yrs dumped me, and I'm still having a hard time letting go and moving on. I'm much better, and everyday I do get a little better but I still am a...
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    Heyy I went through a very similar situation...

    Heyy

    I went through a very similar situation as you. In April my boyfriend dumped me after 2 years- if you go back and read old posts from months ago on this site- you will see mine- they are...
  4. Heyy When I was 17 my ex boyfriend was 22...

    Heyy

    When I was 17 my ex boyfriend was 22 and I had already gotten accepted to the college of my dreams right before I met him. I decided to still go away and to try long distance- we were 3...
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    I found myself in a similar circumstance as you...

    I found myself in a similar circumstance as you not too long ago. I was in a serious 2 year relationship with my boyfriend and he acted similar to yours. He would say cruel things to me, and let his...
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    What should I do?

    I found out something awful and I wonder how to approach the situation. Through an acquaintance (that knew me and my ex) I heard that my ex was in a really bad car accident- his car was totalled and...
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    I'm going through a really difficult breakup...

    I'm going through a really difficult breakup after 2 years with my boyfriend and a really unexpected and awful breakup. It was my first serious boyfriend and I loved him so much, maybe even too much....
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    Thanks chuff for your post. I guess being honest...

    Thanks chuff for your post. I guess being honest with yourself is hard sometimes- I guess I just do not want to admit that I am obsessing still so long after. I feel like no one can say anything to...
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    Thanks for all the ideas- And chuff, this...

    Thanks for all the ideas-

    And chuff, this was the first time I have seen him since like April right after the breakup when I returned his stuff- thanks for your ideas but it's a long process for...
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    Thanks for all your input. I got a lot of ideas....

    Thanks for all your input. I got a lot of ideas. I asked this question- 1- because I'm curious and 2- because I think my ex is trying to get with this girl who is not attractive in the least and I...
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    I saw my ex tonight...

    I went to tgi fridays and it was one that was not the one me and my ex used to go to and it's a little far from his house. I was with my friends and all of sudden I saw his friends and then he walks...
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    I have a question...

    I don't mean this superficially at all because I by no means judge on looks, but I have a question... why do some men cheat down or go out with a girl who is looks wise less than his last girlfriend?...
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    Heyy I have been in shoes much like yours....

    Heyy


    I have been in shoes much like yours. After 2 years my ex dumped me. I begged, pleaded and became so pathetic in my efforts to keep him. Although I never slept with him, if he had come to...
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    hey its hard to start loving yourself...

    hey

    its hard to start loving yourself when your whole life you've depended on others. Like you, my boyfriend dumped me 5 months ago after 2 years together- he was my first everything as well...
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    How to initiate a conversation

    I need a little advice and some opinions on this matter.
    I have been single for almost 5 months now, and although I am enjoying being single and recovering from a very serious relationship and...
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    I know how much it sucks when your ex is the one...

    I know how much it sucks when your ex is the one deciding things and you just have to learn to accept it. My ex boyfriend called me and said the same thing your ex girlfriend did. He told me he was...
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    Skell is def. right. You are doing amazing for...

    Skell is def. right. You are doing amazing for 1.5 months in. I'm 4 months in and I still have these feelings as well. Its funny because I was going to post a question similar to yours today on here!...
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    Heyy I am just starting to let go of my...

    Heyy

    I am just starting to let go of my obsession with my ex boyfriend. We went out for 2 years and he dumped me 4 months ago. I am still not over him. The diff is I do not talk to him at all- I...
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    Heyy My ex boyfriend dumped me after 2 years...

    Heyy

    My ex boyfriend dumped me after 2 years together- it has been four months since the breakup. The best advice I can give is from what others have told me and from what I myself have...
  20. Heyy My ex boyfriend dumped me 4 months ago....

    Heyy

    My ex boyfriend dumped me 4 months ago. I tried to date to kind of see what else was out there at about 2 months after the breakup- it was awful! The same kind of feelings that you are...
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    It is so frustrating sometimes to see someone you...

    It is so frustrating sometimes to see someone you care about, like a good friend, go through something that you know is not good for them. I know from my own experience that when you are in that...
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    I agree with talaniman and skell. I know that...

    I agree with talaniman and skell. I know that skell and me are going through similar circumstances to you and I def. agree that you should take this time for yourself. I tried everything to get my ex...
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    This question you asked is something that also...

    This question you asked is something that also confuses me... my ex dumped me after 2 years together- we were practically engaged and our families were very close. I seriously thought he was "the...
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    Heyy... My ex boyfriend ( we went out for 2...

    Heyy...

    My ex boyfriend ( we went out for 2 years) told me the same thing... he said he needed a "break" to give him a couple of weeks and that then he would decide and come to me... 2 weeks...
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    This same situation happened to me. Me and my ex...

    This same situation happened to me. Me and my ex went out for two years and around the year and a half mark he never initiated sex anymore and I had to practically beg him! He would look at porn on...
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    Scared to get tested

    I just got out of a 2 year relationship like 4 months ago. I only had, had sex with my ex who I loved very much. I'm 19 by the way. We had sex when I was 17 and he was almost 5 yrs older than me and...
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    Heyy Reading your post, I saw a lot of...

    Heyy

    Reading your post, I saw a lot of myself in what you were saying. I was just dumped by my boyfriend of 2 years. He dumped me about 4 months ago. I can not tell you how hurt I was and still...
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    Is this the normal healing process?

    Heyy everyone!

    Well its been a little bit since I posted on here. Lately I have been having a really difficult time moving on from my past relationship- as most of you might know, my boyfriend...
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    Heyy I can relate to your problem. I went...

    Heyy

    I can relate to your problem. I went out with my ex boyfriend for 2 years- and like u, I lost my virginity to him. It has been three months since he dumped me. The pain is still unbearable...
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    Hey everyone, Thanks so much for all the...

    Hey everyone,

    Thanks so much for all the advice... I really take to heart all of your advice. I think that it will take time and it is a slow process... I think I'm just impatient at times. I'm...
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    Heyy everyone I just wanted to thank all of...

    Heyy everyone

    I just wanted to thank all of you for your responses- they were all helpful and I used advice from everyone to write him a letter. He took it well so far and wants to remain...
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    How can I tell him I'm not interested

    Hey

    OK well most of you know I got out of a 2 yr relationship about 3 months ago and it has been very hard to move on and let go... with the last thing my ex did to me ( the phone call about...
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    How can it still hurt so much?

    Hey everyone

    I'm sure by now most people know my situation but a quick refresher is that my boyfriend dumped me after 2 years together... its been almost three months now.
    I asked a question a...
  34. Hey, My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me almost...

    Hey,

    My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me almost 3 months ago... I could not let go... I cried every night and I still miss him... trust me- do not try and beg him please! ( I did and I regret it) I...
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    Am I about to make a huge mistake?

    Hey everyone,

    Its been about 3 months almost since my boyfriend dumped me after 2 years together. Our relationship was pretty good although towards the end it was really bad- the fighting, and he...
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    Heyy Your right. I'm trying... im just so...

    Heyy

    Your right. I'm trying... im just so lost and confused... but your right, I said that wrong... im trying to get through this- thanks for caring and your advice!
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    Heyy Wow everyone's advice really made me...

    Heyy

    Wow everyone's advice really made me sit here and think... it might sound weird, but I always thought I lost him, maybe he lost me... thats a good point... thank you all so much, and I will...
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    My ex contacted me after 2 months...

    Hey everyone

    I have not posted in a couple of months- I posted one when me and him first broke up, one when we tried a break and one when it was over and one on dating new guys. Anyhow, its been...
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    In ways I can understand how you feel. I just got...

    In ways I can understand how you feel. I just got out of a 2 year relationship and am having a hard time letting go still. So I know how badly you want this to work. First of all I wouldn't let him...
  40. Question: Post-Breakup

    by tirednhurt86
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    Heyy When I was reading your post I swear I...

    Heyy

    When I was reading your post I swear I thought I wrote it lol because it is so similar to the situation I am going through. I feel that reading posts in which other people went through a...
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    Heyy I know how tempting it is to get back...

    Heyy

    I know how tempting it is to get back into a relationship that you were once in- its comfortable and you already know the person and all their little quirks and unique qualities. But the...
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    I really think that you need to get up the...

    I really think that you need to get up the courage and leave this girl- if you are having all these problems with her as you have been posting this is not a healthy relationship- get out before it...
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    Heyy I think its perfectly normal for a guy...

    Heyy

    I think its perfectly normal for a guy or girl to check out people whether on TV or in person its only looking and not touching. But I do understand how it feels to hear the person you love...
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    I definitely agree with the replies above me. If...

    I definitely agree with the replies above me. If he cheated on you and hurt u, then why would you want this guy as a friend? You need to just let go- its hard, but it will be harder to sit around...
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    Heyy Although I was not the one who did the...

    Heyy

    Although I was not the one who did the breaking up, my boyfriend left me like 2 months ago. We were together 2 years. I loved him a lot... at first I could not understand how he could do...
  46. Heyy I read both this post and your last one....

    Heyy
    I read both this post and your last one. I have some advice- I just got out of a two year relationship with my ex. I was not the skinniest of girls, and I know what its like to compare...
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    Heyy Congratulations on your graduation. I...

    Heyy

    Congratulations on your graduation. I also want to let you know that I do not think you are running away. I think you were in a serious relationship for 7 years and now you have time to do...
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    THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH! Every comment really...

    THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH!

    Every comment really helped me to think things over. I think I will date him and see what happens. Take it day by day. Thanks again!
  49. Question: I'm confused

    by tirednhurt86
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    Heyy A similar situation like this happened...

    Heyy

    A similar situation like this happened to me a few years ago. I met this great guy and we flirted and held hands and began to hang out a lot. A girl came up to me and told me that he and her...
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    too soon to date?

    heyy everyone,

    I just got out of a two year relationship last month. It was a downhill relationship after the first year and a half I knew he had changed his mind on wanting to be with me and get...
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