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I am a 21 year old male and I seem to have something ruling my life... anxiety. It affects my appetite, my mind-set, and it affects how I perform in school. And my anxiety seems to stem from one...

Sorry everyone, I'm not good at handling break ups :(

I know what to do lol. That statement was more of how I'm feeling, if that makes any sense. But it just sucks how I put work into it and this is what happened. It makes me wonder, as a person, how do...

I have one final update. Today, out of the blue, she ended things. I say out of the blue only because before she did that we were having a blast, going out on dates and what not. No arguments and no...

Very well said, I'm going to talk to her, get my feelings out. I'm not going to yell or get angry, just simply get my point across and she doesn't like it then I'm saying goodbye. I will update you...

I thought so, I'm going to see how our museum visit goes, which is actually today, and decide after that.

My mom said almost the same thing, so you think I should just end this and move on?

OK true true, this may sound stupid, but she is also short with texting too, depending if she is doing something. It doesn't bother me but I notice sometimes I cease to exist lol.

I have tried asking her but she kind of blows it off like its nothing... the girl is independent, that I can't deny but darn idkkkk lol

Thanks you both. There is one more thing that kind of bothers me. It could just be me but I need a girls perspective. Sometimes I will ask her for a kiss and she straight up says no. I don't...

As of right now I feel good for the most part. She is doing her thing and I am doing mine. Like I said before I am trying to be cautious and giving her space. We're still making plans to hang out and...

Hey, so I just wanted to give you guys an update on everything. As of now, its been 2 weeks since we officially broke up. I know when I was last speaking to you guys, I had said she was asking for...

I got to be honest, I think Im starting to read too much into this, Im causing myself a ton of anxiety. Here's my plan... I'm going to continue to work on me (school, gym, work) and just take it easy...

Ya I totally feel like I'm helpless almost right now and she deciding the fate of this relationship, its really unfair and it honestly makes me sad :confused:

I like the idea but don't you think she might take this a little ridiculous, maybe a little too involved in this or no?

I don't know to be honest. I mean we said the feelings are the same a couple days ago but after class she said she felt uncomfortable with me trying to go for her hand and that wanted space. She also...

Ok so today was the first day I saw her in class after we broke up and things went real smooth except I went to reach for her hand, which was dumb I know, and she straight up denied me. I felt a...

My middle name is Paul, very different from my first lol and yes I will let you know how everything goes :) thanks for the advice!

You this is going to take some effort on both parts but like I said, I am more than willing to put in my part.

And we decided to have her start calling me by my middle name lol

So I spoke to her about the idea and she seemed pretty enthusiastic about it, only thing left to do is give it a try and see what happens

That sounds like a good idea, I will run it by her :)

O thanks for the tip.

I think I just need to watch what I say around her. She keeps telling me all she wants to see is progress, that I'm working on it. Easier said than done though, any tips?

Half my answer got cut off for some reason, but anyway what I said was that her and I spoke about this and it was one of the bigger issues. I think my problem was that I was so used to being single...

Ya very true, I'm not really worried about it, I'm not smothering her, I'm doing my own thing. I do like her and care about her a lot. I don't think there is a harm in trying to figure things out and...

I guess I should have been a little more clear. We broke up because we felt we went to fast and we weren't ready for a relationship. When we talked about it, we both thought it would take some...

I was dating this girl for just a little over a month and previous to that we started talking and hung out for a few weeks before we became official. Anyway, during our relationship we seemed to have...

G thanks

I don't around bragging about myself at all and I'm always the one to talk and make people laugh and smile. But I do think its my confidence, cause when I meet new people I don't like talking to them...

I have a huge problem. I can't seem to ever pick up any girls, I don't know why. I'm single, good looking, in college and I'm smart, but it seems like they see it the complete opposite. Could it be...

I just recently bought an aftermarket headunit and aftermarket speakers, I installed them with no problem. I also bought a speaker amp and I have no idea what to do or how to install it, can someone...

Yea one thing I learned is to learn from your mistakes, doesn't make sense to repeat the same errors. And I was thinking the other night, this is just an idea, but should I tell her Im sorry for...

Hahaha the funny thing is I'm laughing about the whole thing, I do like her, but I know I'm a wonderful guy and it will only be her lose.

Well that kind of sucks, I think I did come on a little too strong and I'm horrible at reading girls so I think I blew it with this one. I think my problem is I'm rushing to fall in love again to...

Just wanted everyone to know that the move to another state has done wonders for me, life is great, my job is awesome and I'm happy. I think about my ex but I don't feel bad about it anymore. I...

Its funny how you put that, because deep deep down there a glimmer of hope of maybe one day getting back together. I feel so pathetic because I feel like I should be over this already, I feel like I...

I moved to another state to live with my dad thousands of miles away about a month ago and I go to another school, I got a great new job. Why is it after 7 months I still think about my ex? We...

Hahaha yea I overthink everything, one of my problems and I didn't intend to play mind games with her. Good advice and I'm going to take it, thanks.

So basically just sit back and wait for her to talk to me, kind of like reeling in a fish, lol.

I have a problem with reading girls, when I think they like me I become I guess you could say too clingy and its like they don't even want to talk to me anymore. I just started a new job and I met...

Yea I agree with everything you said, she is weak, she couldn't be alone, as soon as we broke up she ran to him. I don't want to be with a weak person.

Please somebody help answer these questions for me, why my did my ex start dating a guy exactly one month after we broke up (we dated for 2 and half years) when she went away to college two hours...

OK then that's cool, I won't contact her

True that, but I haven't spoken to her in over a month and I figured it would be a nice gesture. And yes I am having a hard time letting her go.

Just wanted to tell that I am staying strong and having funn. My ex's birthday is coming up on the 28th and mine is actually on the 18th, tomorrow. I was thinking of giving her a call that day and...

HAHAHA! The next morning I woke up and thought it was a dream! I looked at it and laughed so hard! I did have a good laugh! Lol and surprisingly I feel OK about it.

Ok I got really depressed the other day and I decided to drink at my house with a bunch of my friends and stupid me I decided to send my ex two messages through myspace. Here they are....."Hello Amy,...

I just realized something today, this is a test. This gives me the PERFECT opportunity to go out and have fun with as many girls as I want while I have time to find who I am and what I like. If we...

Love can be the most beautiful thing in the world and it can be your worst enemy sometimes.

You waited three years, that was your first mistake, I mean that is a long time to sit around and wait. If she really wanted you she would have came back... so any guy or girl is not worth waiting...

Awesome idea and by the way I love how everyone answers my question within an hour!! You guys rock!! Thanks!!