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  1. Good point IT.my son has a very big heart and I...

    Good point IT.my son has a very big heart and I truly believe that he feels that she wouldn't do that to him... which is why I know he doesn't know... also, he has never mentioned anything of that...
  2. OK... yes, we do not want to be confrontational...

    OK... yes, we do not want to be confrontational nor do we want to come across as gossipers. As I mentioned, we are not close to her... well, not as close as 3years should be... any suggestions on...
  3. Wondergirl, my wife and I aren't really close to...

    Wondergirl, my wife and I aren't really close to her believe it or not but regarding my son, yes, we can confront her... im just confused as to why you suggest I go to her rather than to my son first?
  4. I know what you mean, but not necessarily true. ...

    I know what you mean, but not necessarily true. He is trusting and she is crafty... besides people have kept affairs secret for even years. Part of the info indicated she has a secret social network...
  5. Comment on tickle's post

    Sorry, meant for my answer to be a response to your comment tick...
  6. I did authenticate everything. I don't think...

    I did authenticate everything. I don't think talking to her would be the best thing? She hasn't always been up front...
  7. I just found out that my sons' girlfriend has been cheating on him.

    Both she and my son are 18 and have been together for just over 3 years.I received an e-mail from someone who has sent me evidence that she has been cheating on him for the past year and a half. I...
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    Thanks snowalps... when you are my height, the...

    Thanks snowalps... when you are my height, the only way to go is up!!
    You take care too.
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    kellyjo... thank you for that perspective. My...

    kellyjo... thank you for that perspective. My wife and I are kind of going through the same thing right now. It is not so much the lack of sex that bothered/hurt me but rather the feeling of being...
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    Yes... 3 children

    Yes... 3 children
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    We had an argument last night and we both stayed...

    We had an argument last night and we both stayed home from work today and then she left in the morning. When she came back I started talking to her (apologizing) and she said it was too late... she...
  12. Question: Stoping a divirce

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    Yes, consult with your attorney if you are using...

    Yes, consult with your attorney if you are using one. If not, find one and make an appointment for a consultation. I sincerely wish you the best of luck. My wife just filed this morning and I am...
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    What happens next ?

    My wife just filed for divorce. What happens next ? If we work things out, then what ? I live in California. I do not want a divorce.
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    Dang it! Thanks again JB

    Dang it! Thanks again JB
  15. Question: Washer won't spin

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    Yeah, the same thing happened to my washer. Does...

    Yeah, the same thing happened to my washer. Does this happen every time ?
  16. Shelly and fr chuck you are right on. My 3 kids...

    Shelly and fr chuck you are right on. My 3 kids are a pain in the rear but I wouldn't have it any other way. Talk to your parents I am sure they would love to know.
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    With all due respect Lucky and mrchef, I think I...

    With all due respect Lucky and mrchef, I think I got this one (LOL). Valerius, I understand the anxiety you have... I was thinking the same things when I was your age. Wondering how my height, or...
  18. Question: I want too

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    Jrebel, I could not have said it better myself....

    Jrebel, I could not have said it better myself. Both my wife and I wish that we had saved ourselves for each other.
  19. Question: Physical abuse

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    Brad, there is a bit of relief in hearing that...

    Brad, there is a bit of relief in hearing that you are remorseful AND want to do something about it. Recognize that you WOULD hurt a fly because you have already put your hand on the most precious...
  20. Question: My girlfriend.

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    Yes... more info would be very helpful

    Yes... more info would be very helpful
  21. Question: Too many hook-ups

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    ... by play later I meant responsible leisure...

    ... by play later I meant responsible leisure...
  22. Question: Too many hook-ups

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    yeah, I agree... first take the alcohol out of...

    yeah, I agree... first take the alcohol out of the equation. Second, get tested. Third work hard NOW so you can play later...
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    I completey agree with jolienoire and donf.

    I completey agree with jolienoire and donf.
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    Hey eric, yeah I would suggest not asking for sex...

    Hey eric, yeah I would suggest not asking for sex everyday (although I understand why you are). I agree, birth effects women so much more than men and its different with each woman. I actually...
  25. Question: Washer won't spin

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    So it agitates still, correct ? If it does and it...

    So it agitates still, correct ? If it does and it just stops at the rinse cycle it is probably the timer. I replaced mine for about $150. Good luck !
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    Cantbreathe ,you are already showing tremendous...

    Cantbreathe ,you are already showing tremendous resolve and resiliency... I commend you. I bet that as you are able to get a handle on your pain and emotions, your brain will catch up and you will be...
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    I am not going to say "I told you so" but I will...

    I am not going to say "I told you so" but I will say that I understand about the condition of your marriage and that you should have ended it before getting involved with antoher man. Anyway, I agree...
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    I completely agree. We were married 6 years when...

    I completely agree. We were married 6 years when my wife first cheated on me... I am still dealing with it 10 years later for several reasons. The main one being that she never really said she was...
  29. Right. There are different types of infidelity....

    Right. There are different types of infidelity. Basically if you are not giving 100% mentally, emotionally, and physically to the one you are with then that can be considered infidelity. Also, this...
  30. Question: What should I do?

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    I think that part of the reason he wants to stay...

    I think that part of the reason he wants to stay away is because you are pregnant. Please don't take that the wrong way. My wife TOLD me to keep myself busy when she was pregnant and I understood....
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    I agree with damaged. Talk to her "one last time"...

    I agree with damaged. Talk to her "one last time" and express your feelings and where you are and where you would like to be in the relationship. Do this earnestly, honestly, and lovingly. I think...
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    I agree. Call him.

    I agree. Call him.
  33. Question: Stay or Go

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    I agree. 1) She is cheating on you emotionally....

    I agree. 1) She is cheating on you emotionally. This is probably the reason why you two argue so much. 2) She should be supporting you whether she agrees or not 3) take the job 4) demand that she...
  34. Question: What should I do?

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    I agree but disagree. Do try to stay calm because...

    I agree but disagree. Do try to stay calm because of your delicate condition. On the other hand, he is behaving out of character according to what you have described. Your woman's intuition may be...
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    I agree. He may be trying to keep his "options"...

    I agree. He may be trying to keep his "options" open. Funny thing is I don't see any. He is divorced, you are having his baby, and he says he wants to be with you. I am sorry but he can't take things...
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    I totally agree. My oldest started 2 years ago...

    I totally agree. My oldest started 2 years ago and that's basically what he said. You will do fine. Just remember that you will not be the only one feeling the way you do. Good luck and study hard!
  37. Yes, I agree. If he has the same feelings for you...

    Yes, I agree. If he has the same feelings for you that you have for him, then telling him about the attempted rape is important and will help him to understand. I know it did with me when my wife...
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    Thank you. This is VERY helpful.

    Thank you. This is VERY helpful.
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    I agree. Unless you are willing to compromise...

    I agree. Unless you are willing to compromise your virginity , run the other way.
  40. Question: He hit me!

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    Yes... you need to end it. Please find the...

    Yes... you need to end it. Please find the strength to do this. You , and especially your children have endured way too much. I have never, nor will I ever , raise my hand to any woman. It really...
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    I understand what you are saying pennygirl....

    I understand what you are saying pennygirl. Overall, I think the root cause is her lack of self-esteem which I have tried to build up. I have ALWAYS paid attention to her. The first time she said she...
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    Does he want the 3/4 some now, while you are...

    Does he want the 3/4 some now, while you are pregnant ? If he does then he is being totally selfish. I understand that because of your condition he may not be "getting it" as often as he would like...
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    I agree with JB... and I AM a guy. Also, it would...

    I agree with JB... and I AM a guy. Also, it would be a totally different ballgame of emotions and feelings that come with reconciling with a cheating spouse. In your instance there are 2 additional...
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    Sandra, you don't sound like a cow at all ! You...

    Sandra, you don't sound like a cow at all ! You are right... after an affair, the relationship can go in a million different directions... a lot of factors are involved. Ronald, you have to decide...
  45. Question: Am I being used?

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    I totally agree with you JB. 2step, I know you...

    I totally agree with you JB. 2step, I know you have more respect for yourself than that. I would suggest to stop "making out" with this guy altogether.
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    I know 3 times is more than enough. I guess I...

    I know 3 times is more than enough. I guess I still believed in marriage the first time (plus my son was only 1 year old). The second time I was very religious and decided that if God could her...
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    Sandra, to a degree, you are correct... the...

    Sandra, to a degree, you are correct... the relationship will NOT be the same.Yes, there will be worry and suspicion. I agree , she is flaunting it and I would have none of that either.
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    I totally agree with you, jolienoire. I think you...

    I totally agree with you, jolienoire. I think you are already on the right path for recognizing that you need help and, more importantly , asking for it. Please, use the phone book, or internet to...
  49. Question: Am I being used?

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    I agree. Most boys at his age are playing the...

    I agree. Most boys at his age are playing the field and respecting a girl is usually not the first thing on their mind.
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    Its not jealousy

    How can I get my wife to understand that it is not jealousy. Over the past 17 years of our marriage she has been unfaithful 3 times. I am still dealing with it so, naturally I am guarded when I see...
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