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Hello again! Thanks for everyone support in the past. Everything has changed and again I need some advice.

I have moved on and met someone else. I am having a great time with this girl. My ex on...

Yes, it isn't in the stool only on paper when I wipe. Also it is bright red which I heard is a good thing.

UPDATE:
I have been using prep H since Monday which has relieved the pain.

Last night when showering I dsicovered some bleeding and what looks like 2-3 pea sized blood clots on the tissue paper....

Hi all.

I am currently working out in Alberta in the oil fields, mainly working in the kitchen for 10 hours a day. Last night I discovered some discomfort around my anus, at first it was itchy...

I would always use a condom during intercourse which removes the possibility of pregnancy, however oral is a different matter. It seems the risks are equally as high.

I guess the days of casual sex are over then eh? Basically your going to get an STD if you have casual sex.

Hmmm, my girlfriend and I went through a similar experience although I could give her an orgasm via oral sex.

Unfortunately over time my girlfriend stopped seeing me as the one turning her on and...

I would never have sex with a girl without using a condom unless I was in a long term relationship with her.

But what about oral sex and kissing?

If a girl gives a guy oral sex what are the...

Im with you man. Two weeks into No Contact and today was really tough especially as I'm unemployed and looking for work.

It kills me thinking about her getting on with her life without me.

I...

Studies suggest the maximum SAFE weight loss in one week is 2 pounds.

Depending on how overweight you starting a new weight loss program will see drastic results in the beginning. If you have been...

I am the same age as you and hope to apply to uni's starting 2010 in the same subject.

First of all what qualifications do you have?

I would start on the UCAS website and look at the degrees by...

Just found a program called Dosbox which simulates a Dos environment and Ultima Underworld works. Already started playing.
:)

I remember playing Ultima Underworld: The Stygian Abyss and Ultima Underworld II: Labyrinth of Worlds when I was younger.

Any idea how I can revisit these games? I heard that a group of programers...

Starcraft is widely considered the best RTS of all time, at least top 3 anyway.

Warcraft 3 is very good.

If you like AOE then Age of Mythology is worth checking out.

One favourite of mine...

Yep, definitely 'Out of this world'

Next year I hope to apply to several universities for Environmental GeoPhysics.

I know on the application that unviersties are looking for applicants with a passion outside of studying the actual...

Ok, I will. Just out of interest, what's your reasoning?

It's been exactly 1 week of no contact and its been up and down. More down this particular night.

I have been thinking hard about what went wrong and more specifically what I couldn't give her...

Thanks Clough.

I know you are right, another relationship now would be bad as its going to take while to get over my ex.

I gues the lads are right, I should just have some fun and no more.

You are absolutely right about using another girl to forget my ex but right now I need to believe that I can attract another woman.

Pretty much every guy I know both on the internet (other...

I have just split up with my girlfriend after 8 years and I can barely remember what its like to date. I am very used to being open and acting naturally in front of my ex-girlfriend because she knew...

Good for you Ang! I hope he always keeps such good care of you.

How long were you together before marriage may I ask?

Speaking from experience, make sure the communication on that subject...

Thank you, that's a good way of looking at it.

Thank you Kerry. Appreciate it.

As of the start of this week we are in no contact. She wanted to stay friends and talk but I can't do that if she is dating other people. I have to assume she will never come back and try and move on...

Sorry Smoothy I understand the marriage point but the sexy point? I don't understand.

Thanks Sara.

If you read the original thread that talks about our relationship as a whole you'll see that we are now borken up and living apart.
She knows I love her very much so that's not an...

@Smoothy. You say maybe she wanted more than dating. Just to clarify we've been living together for the last 8 years.

The next step would be marriage I guess. However she NEVER talked about that...

Its funny you mention dates but when we talked about the possibility of getting back together further down the line, one thing is for sure we would definitely date because we didn't really have that...

Even though you are sexually satisfied by your partner do you imagine sleeping with another man and if so, why don't you act on it even if it means breaking up with your current lover?

This is my second post on this website and you can get an idea of my situation by reading my other thread found at: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/break-up-after-8-years-295168.html
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Well we spoke this morning and basically its clear its over. She needs to go out there and experience a new relationship with another man and only then will she know if what we had was good.

The...

Thanks, I understand better now.

I appreciate your help but this is the second time you have posted one liners with elaborating and so I'm not sure I understand your why your saying what you say.


What's reasonable? Why is it...

I know already that the thing that will hurt the most is that she is going to meet and sleep with another guy.

Is it normal to imagine him to be more successful than me, a better lover than me etc...

Im not sure this is wise. I am more imbalanced now that I ever was.

She is going to want to talk in detail about us. At the moment she is as confused as me.

We both need to talk so we can...

Some questions:

There are going to be moments in the next 10 days when both of us are going to break down. There will be lots of tears I'm afraid.

How do I get through these 10 days without...

Also I live with her Mother and brother who are like familly to me. I can't initiate the no contact stage because we haven't really sat down face to face and talked about it. Besides I can't get a...

Can you elaborate?

Hi all, I need some help.

I posted this on another forum unrelated to relationship advice about 1 week ago.

"have been with my girlfriend for 8 years and we are both very much in love. Not only...