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I would respond with exactly what Amicon said. You have tried to meet up with her on several occasion and it hasn't been able to work out so just let her know to respect your decision to just move...

Yeah man if she calls I think you should pick up. I mean why not, you don't know why she hasn't responded or why she hasn't called you back yet. Don't be so emotional. Go paintballin with your...

I would try one more time but not anytime soon. Maybe try it again next week and see what happens. If she doesn't pick up again then I would move on to the next. She could be really busy or waiting...

Maybe you should try and take sometime out when you get that irrational thought. Maybe you should explain to him the troubles you are having with trusting him again but that you are trying, this way...

Listen to what she is telling you man. You two are of diffent faith and her is saying that you two will never have a furture. So I would just let her go and move on. I know you don't want to right...

I wouldn't say anything to her, I would simply walk away. I don't feel that its playing games to just leave. It would be pointless to let her know that you will not be talking to her again. Just let...

Trust me when I say that all those things don't mean much right now. She is confused which is why she hasn't changed her status and still uses endearing terms. My Ex and I went through the same...

I wouldn't read too much into her actions right now. She is confused so don't take her calls to serious. If you want to be her friend then be that but don't concerate all of your time on her. Have...

Just approach girls as you would anyone else. We are all humans so at the end of the day, pretty girls and girls in general have all the same issues that everyone else does. If you think about them...

Mines and your story is similar, the long friendship and all so trust me when I tell you that the best thing to do is to let her GO. She is at an age where these changes start to happen. I know you...

I am confused as to what it is you are asking or trying to get out of this relationship. To me, its pretty clear that her and her ex are not over each other or the relationship. So if it looks like...

Had to spread the rep but Tal I think your car anlaogy is dead on. LP2009- just take it easy bro. Right now its supposed to be fun, fun and more fun.

Trust me man, the best thing to do in this situation is to apply NC. I am not one to say that NC is appropriate every time. I know on this website it seems to be the answer for all. But in your...

I hate to say this but for some crazy reason I don't think it's the last time she will talk to her EX. Maybe she will but I wouldn't get my hopes to high. They seem to have a lot of un finished biz....

I have been where you are before only it was the other way around. I was very outgoing and my girlfriend at the time wasn't. Needless to say it didn't work out between us. We were just two different...

I know and that is what I can't really figure out. I mean like I have said we all have been friends for a really long time. We were good friends before we started dating, had a great friendship while...

Soo my ex invited me over to her new place to hang out for a bit and to check out her new spot. I haven't seen her or talked to her since our last incident. Since then she has texted me saying she...

What you should do I break up with your boyfriend regardless of how this works out with your roommate. You stated yourself that you just want to make sure the new crush would be worth the risk. It...

Next time he dose it just say " ugh I am not a baby". He will prob be shocked like wow umm OK, then you can go into telling him that you just don't like it. It shouldn't be a big deaL. He might be a...

I think you are invested too much all ready and it will be hard for you just to have fun and not take her serious. I think your best bet would be to walk away.

I don't know man, I mean for only being together with her for 4 weeks its seems that you are waaay to into her. Right now should be more about fun and not really worrying about how much she likes you...

I think you are fishing dude. From the looks of it you are neck deep with her. You are taking her to serious after she told you not to. She made it clear upfront that it wasn't going to be serious....

No worries man, Just keep you head up. We all looked for excuses to stay in something that deep down inside we knew would never work. From your post you can tell you were looking for something...

She is not over her EX at all and I think at the end of the day you are going to be disapointed. I think it would be best if you just backed away now. She needs to deal with her own issues!

I think that she shouldn't of been texting this guy the min he made it clear that he wasn't looking at being a friend but something more. You should have left then, because the trust is broken....

Your boyfriend is giving you a play by play of his whole trip. Give him a break all ready, I think he is going far and beyond what he should be doing. I have learned very important lessons from my...

I agree Altenweg with the fact that she doesn't have to be OK with it. She can choose to kick him to the curb if she isn't comfortable with it. So do you suggest he doesn't go? Lets say they break up...

Well the OP and her boyfriend are not married. I think things become a lot different when you get married. All I am saying is that you have been with this person for 3 1/2 years. If you feel that it...

I agree that he was inconsiderate of her feelings. He could have eased her worries a little and at least spoke about it more. I do however, disagree that just because she is unhappy with it that he...

I understand in realtionships that both people should make scarfices for the other. I on the other hand to do not feel that him going on a trip with a friend is a bad thing. However she isn't...

I don't think that they are two different issues at all. The point I was trying to make was that he should be able to have FRIENDS, regardless if they are of the opposite sex or not. So he wants to...

I would initially question it because I think its in everyone nature to, but if my girlfriend has never gave me a reason not to trust her then I think she should be able to have fun and have friends....

I actually do not wish to catch up with her or see her for that matter. The times she has come over the house I made it a point to not be there when she arrived. On the other hand I believe its her...

Yeah you guys know how to whip someone in Shape. I didn't think I was playing a game, but maybe I was playing into them. I haven't been in another relationship because I didn't want to be and really...

I imagine it is just as disrespectful to her that you maintained a relationship with her brother following a break up. He is family, you are not, I imagine that bothered her quite a bit also. Now...

Tal-How am I the one playing games? I haven't said anything to her, I haven't said anything to her friend. She will call me out in a heartbeat the min she hears anything about me. I am always cool...

I did see it coming, and am OK with her dating other people. Her brother has met him before but she tells even him that he isn't an interest but just a friend and that nothing is going on. Regardles...

Yeah and ironing out your emotions and restart the relationship is not going to happen. I have been I NC for a little while now, and we barely speak as it is. But yes you are right, this whole time...

I do have my own life and things going on and you are right I prob shouldn't care. I just do, it makes me upset that this guy is walking around in my house. No honestly it isn't about getting her...

Liz, I really didn't want to help her with the Bed. I don't call her or try to hang out with her. The bed was for someone in my family so I picked it up for them. I am not mad at the fact that she is...

KC, yeah I knew it was bound to happen, I just don't think I would ever bring an interest into her house. Kind of like behind enemies lines type of deal. They are not "together" yet so to me its not...

I understand that our lives are bound to cross. I am not interested on who she is with or what she is doing. It isn't so much my roommate that is in question here but more along the lines of why...

Ok so I have never really told my whole story and I think it will take far to long to type. Here is a little insight. Me and my ex have had this long drawn out breakup that is finally coming to a...

I have to agree with everyone. She is no longer a part of your life so it doesn't really matter what she did or didn't do or what she is doing now. Its all Irrelevant because you guys are no longer...

I believe that is a true statement. If you are meant to be together you will be. I am not saying to hold of and wait for them because to be honest I don't think you will find each other again if you...

Just let it go buddy, to many things have happen between you both for them to ever be the same. Its time to move on to the next faze of your life.

Wow are you kidding me. Be very glad that you are no longer in that relationship. It seems that he has real issues and is very insecure. He will always be that way unless someone he loves leaves him...

I would not write her an email, and only RESPOND to text you want to respond to. If you don't know how to answer the text then don't. If you can handle it of course, If you are getting mixed singlas...

Right now and you are not going to get any answers from her. In fact you might not ever get answers (closure) so its best to just leave it alone. Remember she wanted the space, so your best move, for...

I would say call as well but I def wouldn't thank him for giving you his number. That would be weird and it would seem like something like this has never happen before (dont want him to think that)....