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Hi Tando,

I read your whole thread, it took me awhile but it was worth it. I have experienced that same feelings of self loss, sadness, pain, doubt, resent, specially on letting go of our...

Hi. I can't tell if its is right or wrong to feel like that, In my opinion it is just normal to feel. You were still in love with her when the break up happened, that's why it hurts and that's why...

Starry nights,

The first 3 moths or 4 after the breakup I couldn't control my tears either. Every time someone asked me about him, I just started crying like a baby, I used to cry everywhere,...

Thank you all so much for your comments. Today is a good day, I was feeling very sad last night, and needed to hear (read) comfy words like the ones you posted. I surely hope that something great...

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Is it normal to feel like dying after a really hard breakup ? Just the feeling of it, not actually planning on doing it, not at all, just feeling like you want to die for a sec or...

After the first time my xboyfriend broke up with me for really no reason at all, I was awfully heartbroken , because I trusted him not to hurt me, he did not cheat on me (I don't give 2nd chances to...

They do SUCK BIG TIME, I've been in contact with my ex boyfriend on and off for 6 months since he broke up with me, and all I've accomplished with this has been pain, pain and more deep pain, because...

If you broke up with him a gift might not be such a good idea. If he didn't want to break up, he is probably still in the break up shock, a week is very recent, and he will most likely think that you...

After 6 months of my xboyfriend breaking up with me , I still keep on breaking NC, the longest I've gone NC has been 2 weeks and I've failed by texting him again and again. It is so hard to let go...

No, we did not have sex. I knew it was going to hurt me bad if we had. I understand that wehen a man really wants something he will pursue it, si why did he tell me that he loved me?

Men are really weird as well, I met my ex after 6 months after not seeing each other. We met because he wanted to see me really bad, and honestly I am still not over him, so I accepted (stupid...

So so true, thank you tal and amicon..

I do realize that I can't count on anyone to make me happy but ME. I need to be happy again, my good happy passionate self is somewhere inside of me and...

Hi , Thanks for the post. What did you mean with this ?

I don't think I'll get him back, honestly I feel like I really lost him after everything that I told him, I don't even think about that...

well after 6 months of breaking up, I am still having a hard time letting go , I don't know what to do , I don't feel like myself , I am noy ME. I used to be such a vastly happy girl , even way...

How has it been since you broke up ?

But you didn't send her texts all the time and stuff, rite? After those 8 months did you still missed her? I am asking you these questions because in trying to understand whet I am going through. I...

Well, I thin it as nice sweet detail, mostly if she told that is her favorite andy or something like that. Candy with a little letter or card would aheve ake itbeter, honestly if the guy I like gave...

How long did it take you to get over her? Were you in contact after breaking up?

But by breaking up with you they are taking the risk to lose you, which will probably happen, someone that loves you won't break up with you because he/she wouldn't want to lose you.

" I want to treat you like my queen but I dont have the money ot the time to do so, once I finish school, get a stable job and make some money, once I have all the time in the world to concentrate on...

Why would someone that loves or says that loves you breaks up with you ?

I stoppped contact with him , is been 3 weeks , and I still can't get him out of my head.

I meant BREAKERS

Hi Chey,

Yes I get withdrawals, from time to time, very often still .I had no contact with him but is still so difficult, I still think about him a lot, not ALL day, but at least once or twice....

Why did he kept telling me that?! I just don't understand.. was he trying to make me feel more like sh**? Did he wanted to intetionally hurt me even more? Why?!

Ahhh!! I am going through a weak moment right know, my unconscious anger against him is raging right know, about 3 weeks ago he said he was really sorry that he hurt me , and sorry that I was going...

OOhhh reading this made me cry, I am crying my heart out rite now, my ex broke up with me around 5 months ago and I'm still not over him, I still get so emotional when I read some of these threads,...

How come I still fell like a I love him ? It's been almost 6 months since the break up , I've been keeping NC for two weeks now. Is it still love? Why do I still miss him?

What awful things do you think about? Just random negative things or things about your ex? I felt identified with this symptoms, I felt exactly like that when my boyfriend broke up with me. It was...

I feel you :( It know hurts so much, I still feel that pain too. But you are doing such a good job by keeping NC! Just keep trying , don't give ! You ARE STRONG,and you will get over her, and the...

Nice, attractive, intelligent and genuinely good girls get dumped too, you really don't have to make this all about the MEN.

I am not changing who I am or becoming a mean girl just because...

Hi odilians10, I am not friends with my ex, I cant, I still miss him, I might get there but it will take a lot of time and by that time I might not even want a friendship with him, who knows. He...

Your thread I SOOO similar to mine, but I don't think you screwed up as bad as me. I didn't tell him I was going to sleep with someone else , but I told him horrible hurtful things things as well. I...

You are not being harsh at all, sometimes being harsh when trying to help someone, really do help. I really appreciate your advice, you are obviously more experienced than me and you know what you...

I went through this same situation, My ex kept telling me the same thing after he broke up with me , that he loved me with all his heart, but that our relationship wouldn't work because he is really...

Hi Rome, do you still talk with that one ex that broke your heart ? The one that broke up with you through a letter? I am asking you this, because that would bring me some hope for what I am going...

I was going through the same thing, same situation with school full time, work full time no money to pay for school, all family in another country, all friends in another country and seeing my long...

Hi Chey,

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this to me. I am soory I made you cry : ( Its funny that you mentioned as one of you tips to see him ending it from his point of view,...

Will I ever stop crying for him? I just want to the pain to go away.

You are doing a good job by keeping NC, Iam glad you fell so much better. I know that if I keep contacting him I will never heal, and I need before even thinking on having a boyfriend again. I dated...

Really hoping that day comes soon.

Hi KC, I keep screwing up! I mean, these are mistakes I can prevent now, I know I can, but I keep making them, Is it purely just a broken heart situation when you keep on doing the same mistakes?...

I broke NC, I don't feel like , but I know I screwed up. I sent him a text about something that reminded me of him, he answered, as he always does. Dang.. why is it so hard to let go. I need to be...

Hi elousia, Thanks for your kind words

Jajaja I love that, good one ajGambino

It's all the media's fault :) Hey, I've been told all my life how beautiful I am inside and out, and still I had always struggle with my insecurities, always. Look at it on the positive side, you...

Don't play with her or your feelings, be honest to yourself. Deep down inside we all know the answer to every problem in our love life, we just think about things too much, and a lot of thoughts...

Tal, I know what you mean, I wan to be the happy girl that I was when I was single, I know I'll get there, I'll keep NC, till I stop thinking a about him for good.

I was checking pics form a mutual friend on face and all of a sudden I saw a pic of my ex with him and some girls. I kind of freaked out, I had to delete that mutual friend form my fb, I don't want...

Dare,
I know I shouldn't have, I really thought he wasn't going to call after everything that I told him. I don't want to feel like sh**, today is a good day. I don't want to know a thing a about...