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Thank you for the support, everyone. It helped me toughen my decision to end our friendship.
dontknownuthin - I think you are right,she does use *every* opportunity to twist things and deny any...

My honesty so far got me a lot of angry text messages, a lot of screaming, doors slammed and accusations.Like I said, its extremely hard to make a point to her, she refuses to listen.Since I have...

Hello.I'd like to share a personal issue I am having with someone I considered my closest friend (at least at some times).
We have a 5 year history, we're both female and 25 now, we are still in...

Yes, we did exchange photos, as all the community members do anyway. I think that letting him know how I like our chats will only push him away or make him think I'm head over heals . Your story is...

Of course, all our "talking" was done via PMs. We are very friendly to each other.
Yes, I am way over 18 in fact.
I talk to him every day or so, and I find myself always looking forward to it. I...

I am really going to take this slow, and by no means am I rushign in for a meeting . Thanks for the quick responses. I just wondered how to express interest without being either bluntly direct or...

Its had been 4 months of full NC, and guess what - my Ex contacted me via a messenger, with some silly excuse. Naturally he got no response, but they always do that, don't they? Just when you're...

Hello everyone! Its been a long time since I last posted here.
Long story short: I met someone online, via a big online community,that has nothing to do with dating. I've come to really like this...

Four weeks of NC tomorrow. I do feel better,but still its almost every day that I wake up and my first thought is of him. I hope those will ends soon.

Two weeks of NC exactly. Longest. Period.ever.
I wish he'd find and contact me and say he wants to start all over again... and I know that's not happening. Sigh

Another day of NC. Yesterday I broke down,cried for a good hour and a half, pour my hearts contents on a friend and managaed not to break NC. But I sent two emails... which he will never see,...

Another NC day udner my belt. Soon it will have been two weeks,which would be my all time record. I feel fine,although some days I sit and cry and miss him. But I am, ever so slowly, moving on.

Uncalled for. Whatever

Come on now, I'm studying for a hundret other exams. NC is going great, but I must admit - I miss having someone to fight with all the time. Its getting kind of boring now, but I guess I should enjoy...

ISneezeFunny good luck on the mcats, I recently started thinking about taking them myself.Cheers!

In other news, yesterday was a win for me, today - still feeling fine and strong. I finally...

Today IS easier! I'm entering week 2 of NC! Hooray!

Today IS easier. Really, I feel great. No missing him, no crying. I still keep mentaly talking to him though and that's going to stop real soon. Looks like I'm going to enter week 2 of NC. Horay!

I think I'm past the one-week-NC-milestone! Sounds kind of pathetic, but I'm still happy I made it.

I haven't broken down yet. Which is a big, big step forward. If I don't go down today I know it will be easier tomorrow.

I am nearing a week of NC. Right now its so bad, that only going back and talking again (regardless of negative or positive outcome) is going to help. Other than that I'm pretty much done, dettached,...

I broke contact again :) Yes people :) But I've managed to stay unhurt,no new hope was born and I was kind of bored.There you have it.

Bigbird,your current situation breaks my heart. I could imagine the pain and loss you feel when you imagine your girlfriend giving her I-love-yous to someone new. You'd have to accept that she,l ike...

Day 9 is just starting.
You know I've been on the dumpers's side more than once and I can relate to what you girlfriend is trying to pull, spion. You're her comfort, her number 1 backup man and...

Okay day 8 is going good.This is my longest NC ever! A week and a hour ago I was in tears,hugging my cat as if my life depended on it.Today - just got back from work,snacking and posting here finally...

Thank you all. Actually this is the last piece of "contact" we have left .His phone number is different now,he has no regular email,doesn't use Facebook or MS. Just this IM account and who knows for...

Well,Losingit77, at least you guys wish each other well. Whereas when I wished him all the best (honestly) he responded with "Yeah ,well you dont deserve a "farewell,live and prosper",so you're not...

It's day 6 and I'm still hanging on,but the real rough days are just ahead.Day 7/8 is when I TWICE broke NC.I hope I don't fall into that pit of despair again.

Aw god damn! I'm in the early stages of depression again,and its only day 4 of NC . I sleps for over 10 hours,that's never good.

Sigh,today is the day I decided to seek professional help.Yes,indeed it's that bad. While Losingit77 is slowly moving on 2 months after the break up of a 4+ year (was it?) relationship,I am in month...

Day 2.Dont ask.
Picked myself up quicker this time.

When I read "loss of value" I can only think of NPDs,because that's how they do it : idolize you,then devalue and disregard you.
At least that's what happened to me. You could lose value because of...

Aw,that's why I love this place!Right now there is nobody else I xcould ask for help or support so... thank you.
I hugged my cat for about 10 minutes because of the strong desire to IM him.

Starting day 8.This is the longest period EVER I've went without talking to him.

P.S You know when I broke NC recently he again insisted on beign civil friends and stated why NC is pointless and I...

Both of you are probably right,but maybe I'm at fault too - trying to overanalyze simple words and gestures.

A few hours ago he IMed me saying "Talk to me damn it".What? Was he being playful?

Hello everyone.I broke NC just after I had managed to keep it for 7 days.I am so ashamed of what I did that I couldn't gather myself enough to post about it here.
It felt horrible - coming back to...

Today marks the first week of NC.Yay :(
Losingit77, keeping the NC and not giving your power away is a fine advice but think of that : why not just politely and coldly wish him a happy birthday?...

classicrocker - be civil with her. Do not show and preach about your hurt feelings,your relationship on so on.Be business,no drama,no over-emotion.Dont play it too cool though,just act as a regular...

This is the start of day 7.I never made it that far so I'm pretty proud of myself. :)

Day 30 is the milestone eeek It seems so ffar way... Till now I only managed 5 day NC and now I'm at the end of day 6 :)

You're both right.It wasn't the drunken IM though,since he doesn't drink but questions shouldn't be asked,Getting past your past explainted pretty good why not. I guess he's frustrated he's losing...

Starting day 6.Last night he IM-ed me saying "i hate you".Why?

losingit77 thank you so much. I know I shouldn't blame myself or play the blame game at all.Its just he was so disrespectful to me,he even said it himself and it drives out of my skin right now. ...

You sure are levelheaded wow
Okay :( I just saw this LoveShack.org Community Forums - View Single Post - What the hell happened? Falling out of love it made me cry because almost every aspect was...

What I heard 2 months before the breapup was "I never want to love or have another girl" riiight
Breakup? "Err...we have to talk...so that you dont feel lied to later.I dont feel the same about you...

LosingIt77 aww : / it seems to me you dream a little too often of him :'x you'd have to be really strong to make it past this point,so hold on both of you (bigbird213 too!).
As for me I rarely...

Ah yes,ye olde hot factor
Ex showed up in IM hasn't said a word,I guess being rejected sucks huh

Sounds more like stringyoualong playgirl type,but you know better

ISneezeFunny huzzah indeed clap clap But why do you still keep count? You seem pretty moved on :confused:
BTW I'm putting serious thought into making that into a t-shirt,it would make nice PJs AND...

... a dust nap. Well no we weren't talking - he never said anything and I never said anything. Actually he often used to show me pictures of D`arcy and this one was no different.Way to go,push your...