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I called him last night to say thank you for the flowers. He said sorry and realized what he had done. He said it was selfish, immature and hurtful. He said he misses me and wants me back. I can...

Now it's his turn to have that space and time from you. You had him for six years and you chose to throw that all away not just once but twice. Right now, all you can do is understand and accept...

Debdoes - don't lose faith. Give him his space and time. Mean while work on yourself. It is good to know that at least you're realizing what went wrong and taking it one step at a time. I can...

Wow - surprise surprise... I received beautiful arrangements of flowers here at work. From who? Who else...

Is it wrong to call and say thank you? Hmm..

I am not a perfect person and I'm sure there are things that I do that would annoy or bother some people. But that's what makes me unique (HAHAHAHA). Actually, it is a matter of acceptance in a...

it is okay for you to feel that way but what you need to reminding yourself that you are doing GREAT! Concentrate on finishing up your masters and all things will come together for you if not BETTER....

Clarification - he has his card with his name and I have mine with just my name.

Well I was just added to his account. It's under his credit not mine. On the credit card its just my name and not both. I was hoping I can just cancel my card not necessarily his credit account.

UPDATE

I haven't been sleeping well this past couple of days. I guess I have been thinking too much. It's been almost a week now and I still have not wasted a single tear for this guy. He would...

Thanks Talaniman. It's definitely something to look forward to.

Why is NC so hard to do? Tell you what, it's definitely easiest to control when I think of all the pain which turns into anger. I'm...

Thanks again and thank you in advance

I didn't pick up his call when he called the first time last night. I felt I wasn't "ready" to talk to him yet. I needed time to think. Although, after a...

UPDATE

Last Friday after work... I did good by not calling him. I decided to go to the mall to do a little bit of "shopping therapy" and of course to keep my mind off him. As I was driving in.....

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I always thought the opposite, i thought that love is all about loving someone more than anything and just make sure you know how to balance the two. BUT I guess I was wrong, I didn't do too...

Thanks I'm trying... I still can't deny that I do miss him. Right now my feelings are going back and forth. One minute I miss him.. then the next minute I hate him. Is this normal?

Thank you for your suggestion. He used to be the first one he says " Love was all a game" On every ex girlfriend he had.. he cheated on except me. I thought that was a good thing, but as months...

OK... its starting to hit... im starting to miss him... I can't stop looking at my phone... whether he texted or called.. but of course with disappointment.. he didn't.. I guess the question is.....

The constant development will always be there with other people but does it have to be a "significant other" or can it be from friends, family, coworkers.. etc? Would it be the same? Or Would be...

That's definitely something to look forward Sometimes it makes me think if its so much better to just not get into any kind of relationship so I don't have to deal with any of this. Hmm. Just a...

I just want the pain to hit now or at least feel some sort of pain so it won't be so hard later. *Sigh* I hate break ups. I just hope I'll be strong enough to make the right decision when the true...

debdoes - I appreciate you posting that you were on the other side in this situation. It gives me hope that my ex will learn something from this and will make him a better man someday even if its not...

my first night without talking to him went pretty okay... I still don't feel any pain.. but I admit I did think of calling him. What bothers me most is getting used to do the"usual" daily things...

I know he will come back. He has done this a few times already. I think that's why I'm not feeling anything right now. It's either I've had enough or it just hasn't hit yet. When he broke up with me...

When will the pain hit? I'm a little too scared to deal with it...

This actually made me SMILE. HA! :p

thank you.. I always try to understand everything first before making a drastic decision such as breaking up. This time around though I just don't understand it. For a second there, I thought I was...

Don't know how to feel right now... my boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me. I expected myself to cry to be devastated but for some reason I don't feel anything right now.here is our...