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For me, my biggest challenges will be 1) the man who pursues and then is aloof because this is when I start to wonder what I did wrong and the seed of WORKING to be liked or love is born. 2)...

Brooklyn,
I don't want to go all religious on you, but I went to Mass today for the first time in a long time. I didn't want to go before because I couldn't go in the morning and keep on repeating...

I think Gem that you are reading my thoughts. Friday was a very difficult day. I ran into a friend, G, whom I dated briefly about 10 years ago who was addicted to a woman who cost him his marriage...

So sorry I offended everyone. Have a nice Easter.

He hasn't left his marriage because it's huge: wife and in-laws and parents and siblings and children--all of whom would be affected. He goes to the beach every year with the whole passle of them. ...

I am almost afraid to point out some things--just for clarity's sake-- since I am the person who has no self-esteem or self-respect and may or may not deserve what she is getting: USED. But I am not...

Hi, guys. Sorry I haven't been in touch. Hectic here with my class and the job and a 24 year old moving out and leaving a HUGE mess behind. I am thinking about all the responses, but right now I...

What do I want? I guess I want him to feel enough for me not to be able to STAND being apart from me. I guess I wish he would walk through all the crap and heck, even FIRE, just for the opportunity...

The picture you posted on 3/31, I can't see.

I AM getting great advice and I truly appreciate it. I do see a therapist and his advice is that I will never have any chance at a real relationship with M unless he ends the marriage and works...

I am not callous or vengeful. My husband did what he did because men are sometimes stuck and unhappy and this is how they feel better. My husband did it and I endured it because there was nothing I...

Well, you are certainly right that I have worked hard at this relationship. I worked harder at my marriage, though, and it went bust after 10 years anyway. And for the record, if you think I...

As far as I am concerned, M, his wife and I are all adults--no one guarantees us a perfect life in a perfect world. Maybe they should have been faithfully married for 50 years and walked into the...

I have wondered about the not liking women part because he has serious issues with his mother. His Dad was an over the road trucker and his Mom worked full-time. He was raised by his grandmother. ...

Got it! Thanks

How do you post a picture? Is it under signature?

I may very well have low self-esteem. I sure do feel I am not good enough--and I know what happened in my childhood that triggers those feelings. But I didn't get into this relationship with M...

Well, thank you to everyone who has tried to help me. I do appreciate it very much.

Part of the problem is that I live in a little hick place where my whole life comprises going to work, coming home, teaching my class, working on little projects at the house, visiting my kids and...

Yes, I love him and I have always thought our time together was special. He is a very tender, alsmost shy lover, which absolutely melted my heart. And there is something about his build and his...

I just shudder to think how he must be behaving at home if his wife does not suspect after 2 1/2 YEARS. That is probably part of the thrill, knowing that 2 women are so stupid and that they both...

It's not that he forgot my birthday. He remembered it; he came over and we had sex. He just didn't get me anything, not even a card. But he asked me to buy him a soda and bring it to him and he...

Because he is a child of nature (wild hair, rebellious, untamable spirit). He was modeled on Lord Byron, whom all the Brontes were fascinated with and is "mad, bad, and dangerous to know". He is...

Water also symbolizes a return to our original nature (early life began in water) and rebirth. I have the same feeling around water--calming and a sense of freedom. In my case, it is because I was...

I have been in an affair for 2 1/2 years. I am single; he is married. We work at the same place and were friends for years before the affair. He says there is nothing at home but routine but he...