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I know she doesn't care, that's fine.

Just remember I am sharing my personal "digital journal" as I call it... to vent my feelings, not only that but hopefully someone one of these days will stumble upon my thread and read everything I...

This is the freakiest thing I've ever read on here... only because its EXACTLY, and I mean EXACTLY the same thing that happened to me

Don't break up with him, just cause the time will come eventually. Rather, cherish your time with him... spend time with him, take care of him, relish every chance and every moment you spend together.

July 14th, 2010

Just taking a drive around town tonight, I passed Katherine driving the opposite way. Not sure if you even saw me, but I hope you did. I hope your heartaches, I hope you miss me, I...

Your past is your past for a reason. We all have things we regret, it's not like he's screwed around while you two we're together. Just forget about it, and work on your relationship... don't let...

I'm sorry for this happening too you, although we all go through it at one point or another and you probably think nobody can feel the pain your feeling right now. I've gone through the same thing...

High tailing out of that one.

Hate to be harsh here. "He doesn't buy me things"... sorry that's one of your major concerns.

Read my thread, not only does it show you the mistakes I made, but what I did to move on and help myself cope. It's a bit of a read, but I'm sure you'll find something to help you.
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July 12th, 2010

It's been quite a hectic weekend, working the new job and my other one accounted for a lot of busy time. Not that I didn't mind. It kept my mind pretty busy and off other things....

Not unreasonable at all, not really a "friend" either. I wouldn't accept any of my buddies dating an ex of mine.

Good read

"I love him", if you actually loved him you wouldn't purposely do anything to hurt him. No excuses. And you have to have known this would not only hurt him, but devastate him

Exactly what I was going to say. He's been at work all day, let him come home and relax for an hour or two and give him sometime to unwind from the day

I've been keeping a "digital" journal for the past week, and wanted to share some logs with you guys. Its really helpful and hopefully inspire others to do so as well. Names have been changed.
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Damn I wish when I felt sick my ex would have asked how I was. Ha

I'd go back NC.

I just, I don't know what the hell happened. I was just sitting here, and it just really hit me flat in the face. I just had a huge smile on my face... and just, I don't care anymore. I'm not sure...

It just hit me, WHY DO I CARE? I Don't ANYMORE!!

You don't. She's committed to someone else, lay off.

What the , lol

"or stay and hope things change"... things don't change.

Don't expect it to be quick fix either, it takes sometimes months to feel like yourself again. It's been 6 weeks since my ex and I broke up and I'm still hurting, but you do get better.

I have been coming on this website, regularly, perhaps even a daily basis for the past year. I've read some tragic things, emotional things and happy stories on here. It's amazing to see such a...

Possibly, but that wasn't the case with me. I'm just saying theoretically. I didn't have to convince myself that I loved my ex, cause I know with all my heart I was full head over in heels in love...

I'll tell you this, I am usually the same way. It's more of a way to show we REALLY care, but it's also us trying to get reassurance that you still love us back. It's more of an insecurity in us, at...

Keep going, 12 hours is a good start. Now go for 12 days, 12 weeks, 12 months, 12 years.

Give him sometime to think about things.

How you can be comfortable with someone else supposedly, before being comfortable by yourself is beyond me.

Get some self respect

Its not that you can't, it's you don't want too... two different things. Once you want to stop hurting you start NC

She kissed another guy, while she was with you. Enough in my books to rid of someone.

You leave her alone and let her think she made the mistake, cause she did. You leave them thinking, for all you know two years down the road she shows up on your doorstep, the thing is... you'll be...

Oh, looking back how do you ever remind me of myself. From a guy who has been going through this same thing, twice this year already... let her forget about you, and forget about her. There is...

You haven't even explained why they don't like him.

Just thought Id throw you guys an update. I was doing good, until I got some information about her, which caused me to go sniffing around curiously, as to why... I have no idea. However, it has given...

Kudos to you, keep it up! Don't let that scum have any part of you.

Doesn't matter if YOU want her back, she has to WANT YOU. If she doesn't want you, she's not coming back. Leave her alone, trust someone with too much experience in this.

If it's meant to be, and...

Well, I don't personally believe in "breaks", why would you want a "break" with someone you love or care about. I think you made the right decision to break up with her. But, do you know if your...

You said you did all of that last week.

Pretty sure this is probably some bored homer guy sitting at home being bored.

Too young...

I did check my PM's, I added you.

Dude, you sound like a good guy and have a lot to offer someone, and one day you'll find her. I know you think THIS GIRL is the one, but she isn't or it would have worked the first time. I'm sorry...

What's it matter if something is wrong? You're not her backbone anymore.

As someone in my life, who is important to me always says "If its meant to be, it's meant to be"

Here is my story prowalker, learn from my mistakes too:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/good-bad-idea-452762.html

Yeah, things will pop into your head all the time. It's what you do with those thoughts, and don't act on instinct. One of my ex's was my first true love as well, she had someone TWO WEEKS after...

Well, good. I know what you mean, certain things/places remind me of her too. It's just, what you have to deal with. Ill be having a great time at work and a memory of us snuggling watching a movie,...