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I met a girl at college this year that I'm crushing on pretty hard. We've gotten off to a strange start, and I'm not sure exactly where to go from here. I have no one that I can talk to this stuff...

So I'm not the most social person in the world, but I'm trying this new thing where I'm going to branch out more and start to enjoy life a bit (I'm 21 and at a big university how can I not right! ) I...

Sorry if I ramble and get too detailed, I'll try to keep it short. However, I want to provide some context.

So I'm 21 and into the second quarter of my first year at a real deal university...

Wasn't sure where to go for something like this, but there seems to be some solid advice floating around this forum. We're both 20 years old and both attend community college and work together at a...

Okay so a bit of an update on the situation. So this girl and I continued to hang out pretty regularly and enjoy each other's company. It shifted from me making most of the contact to her making...

Ah thank you for your opinions everyone :)

I guess it would seem that things need a bit more time to develop. I'm just dreading the thought of falling into her friend zone and being stuck there. ...

Hmmm. Anyone with anything at all? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

So I met this girl a few weeks ago at a friend's party and I would say we clicked right away. We've hung out quite a few times since then, about every few days. I'm 19 and she's 18. I wouldn't say...

Thanks for the responses everyone. Holeinheart21, I'm glad to see that someone can relate, seeing as how you are going through a nearly identical situation as me, and that is some really sound...

All right, fair enough. While I feel like I'm much more in control of my emotions that I was last time I asked for help, I can see how it's still a bad idea to hang out.

So what's your opinion...

True, her life is hers, mine is mine. But whenever she asks me what's bugging me, it's her. I just don't tell her that.

I know the way to avoid dealing with this: don't see her. But with all of...

So I posted a question about my ex-girlfriend about two weeks ago asking for advice, and you guys all did an awesome job steering me in the right direction, so thanks for that. Now I come to you...

I went to school with her today, and I finally had the talk with her that I needed to. I told her that I couldn't handle being friends with her because whenever I'm around her, it stirs up these...

Thanks all so much for the posts. They're helping me to see the true nature of this girl, something I've been beginning to understand with the more space I have apart from her. Sorry that this post...

Hmm yeah I see what you're all saying. The thing is, I've become almost numb to what she's doing. It can bother me when I'm with her, but I don't really get upset anymore when I'm not with her. I...

Haha thanks HistorianChick! It's always good to hear a compliment like that, makes me feel a little less crazy sometimes, especially with my current situation. I actually avoided posting on here for...

I was dating this girl for about 7 months. We fell hard for each other, and were so happy right away. We were inseparable, and neither of us had a problem with that. We spent every day together and...