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They just want to know that your OK so they can justify their choice. Like humm well he's doing OK so I did the right thing. My response to these things "alive and kicking" Let them infer what they...

Just don't put yourself in the situation to develop feelings for your ex. It's pretty simple I don't know why people don't just walk away before they get emotional with someone else.

Get out and over one relationship before you consider messing around in another

Who did you email the ex? Or her sister.

So an update since today is my birthday. I have been feeling pretty lonely and sad lately. But I got to say that this sight has been an amazing help to me lately. Trying to hold myself to the...

I have mornings like that too. ALmost every morning. It will hopefully pass in time.

You do it be being confident. You got to learn who you are and be comfortable with who you are. Then others will start to see it.

Just wanted to add this song.

YouTube - Apocalyptica featuring Adam Gontier of Three Days Grace - I Don't Care

Some people don't even deserve to be in any kind of relationship.

Taproot poem helped me along time ago

YES!! I'm so glad that you are starting to see what needs to be done. You need to worry about yourself. Trust me I know how hard it is when your hurting so bad. And it will take time. But you got...

But really do you want to be with someone like that. It sounds like to me it's always about her always been about her.. She doesn't care who or how she hurts someone. She's just looking to get...

It's up to your of course. But it just seems like it could prolong your involvement in this drama.

Wow ouch...

It's not ethical. But what can you do but stir up a hornets nest of crap. I just think you would be better off just forgetting all of this crap. And work on moving on. If you bring up charges or...

It's OK to feel like that man. I can understand 100% where you are combing from.

If you file a complaint now it will just look like your trying to hurt that guy again. I say just let it go.

Sometimes people do tend to come back to what is familiar to them. But not always. ...

She won't get off scott free. Karma will get her sooner or later. You just can't treat people that way and it not smack you in face. It'll happen you just probably won't be around to see it. Nor...

Dude you really really need to throw yourself into something else. Go run until you pass out. Do something to destract yourself from thinking about all of this. Your mind needs a rest.

Good for you. At least you'll be able to stay warm and entertain some friends around it.

I think that saying just becomes a routine. I always get crap over not saying I love you that much. But at least I have said it I've meant it with everything I am..

You can't worry about that crap. I just chalk it up to fate. Learn something from the time with her. If you got something good out of the then it was worth it.

This is all possible. And sometimes people can justify the most horrible actions. I've never understood it myself. But some people have the ability .

You just got to do your best and work on...

She has a boyfriend. Which means she is off limits. Walk away and find someone else.

Well you do deserve to be happy. But you got to learn what truly makes you happy by yourself. Only you can make yourself happy. You can't expect or depends on someone else to do that for you. ...

Yeah man just keep that in your head. That's what I tell myself. That I deserved more than a breakup I'm. If someone can treat me that way I'm better off. I don't like cowards I deserved better.

You will probably never know. But don't worry about her just worry about how your feeling. Besides so what if she thinks you hate her. If she really really wants to know how you feel she'll ask. ...

Heh I'm not really sure. To be honest.

Just go NC. Who knows why she did what she did. It doesn't matter what her reasons are. You are here in the now. You have to deal and start to move on.

Why would you want to be with someone who treats your kids that way. Seems like a pretty easy choice to me. Walk if he can't be what your kids need.

Interesting read. This really does make some sense though. It explains how the frist thing a lot of people do is jump into someone else's arms.

Sounds like a good plan.

Do what every you want to with it. But just get it away from you. Box it up stick it somewhere. Burn it if it will make you feel better. Send her crap back. Do whatever it takes.

You need to stop worrying about getting him back. And just worry about yourself.

It can also depend on how your feeling. And your emotional frame at the time. Are you ready for love. Longing for love. Lonely. Etc

Just keep trying it'll get easier in time.

High maintenance just means they want a lot of your time and money to make them happy. You basically take care of there every waking need.

Right hopefully that's good enough for you. Now lets move onto you healing.

I think it depends on the way the connection is made. Sometimes you hit it off right away with someone. Other's it takes more time.

Well I don't need your thanks. Helping others actually helps me. Taking my own advice and such. I'm going through the same things. And I'm trying to hold myself to same standard that I'm advising.

Yup just do it.

Btw ajGambino how are you doing. You went NC about the same time I did.

You tell her you have moved on. Remember she didn't want to be with now she suddenly does. Cut your losses.

Chances are no matter what you do your going to catch him off guard. It's more than likely going to be a shock to him no matter what when or how you do it. Just try to be respectful and treat him...

Right!! Man get up laugh in there face and walk off. The action is saying you silly fools you can't hurt me. Nice try but I got better things to do.

Welcome to my world man. I was laid off then a week latter dumped. Just stay as busy as you can.

This is normal. You won't get over her over night. But it'll get easier.

Aww your not alone in feeling that way. I'm dealing with that right now. But you can burn the bridge without actually setting fire to it. Just do it in your mind. IF that is how that girl is...

Yes nothing lasts forever

Well why don't you try this then. Wait two months and see if you still care about hurting them so much. Right now your in a huge storm of emotion. You need to get away from it to think clearly. ...

It's not your place to punish him. Right now you need to worry about yourself. Trust me dude. I know how it is to want revenge. But no good will come of this. Go out of this relationship as a...