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Ex's are ex's for a reason, I would move on... because if he broke it off once, there's nothing to say he won't break it off again! But its your shout...

She was the one that dumped me so I think she'll just want to move on!

I might just not reply at all, it's my bloody birthday tomorrow too... just what I need eh!

I might wait to see if she...

Shall I just say, I do still have feelings for her but if she wants to go out an date then I'm happy for her an wouldn't stop her!

This is so hard!

We've been together for 3.5 years an been split up now for about 4 months! I will be a man because I don't want to ever stop her from dating others but for some reason I always think, I wonder if she...

Hi, I've just received a text messages of a mate that I know... but only through other mates asking if I mind if I take my ex out?

What am I supposed to say to that?

Yeah I agree with McKenzie, You need to move on mate... I know its hard but why wait around for this one girl!! You will find love again mate, when you meet someone else when your least expecting it!...

Your situation is very similar to mine mate, I must of split up with my ex about 10 times this year alone - not healthy! An every time I split up I used to notice where I was going wrong, then as...

Yeah... what's meant to be is meant to be! The population of women in about 18million from age 16-59... why hang around waiting on this 1 girl!! Go out there an do some damage!!

How long do ex's try ringing an keeping touch for? Do they keep stringing you along until they feel the need to not be intouch or until they prob find someone else?

Swordfish, I hate to rub salt in your wound pal... but she isn't coming back, she just wants to keep friendship with you until she meets someone else then she will drop you. Women are v selfish an...

Yeah I agree with SAB.. I did the letter, chocolate an flowers... an now with I didn't send her anything an want my money back ha! No but seriously, she's made up her mind an sending a letter will...

Anyway getting side tracked there, I personally think this girl doesn't want to meet, I think she just likes you chasing her, but I could be wrong as its hard to tell what women are thinking! I'd say...

I know what you mean though, its hard not to do stuff. Especially if your wanting reconciliation.. because your holding onto false hopes then 6 months down line your like... can't believe I even...

When did you come out of your serious relationship? Everyone likes the chase, so you not being intouch has made her want to chase you! Play the game though, but not too much because no one like mind...

Yeah she definatley not interested, sorry pal but it happens a lot... maybe she did it purely for ego boost! Happened to me a few times, but I just think their loss! Ha!

I've made NC for 7 weeks yesterday, she's iniated contact 3 times... but it's pointless, unless she sent a text/email saying I've made a mistake I want to give it another go then I'm just moving on,...

Ha! Good work... yeah NC made my ex g/f come sniffing round but I think lads will take back their ex g/f's more than if a women dumped their ex b/f... if you know what I mean! So I think you stand in...

I know, its weird how there's so many people experiences the same issues! So it must be right when everyone says... definitely trying to keep us on the back burner! I'm not falling for it either, too...

When you say he begged for months? How long? How long was you togetehr sparkle?

Im going through the same with my ex g/f of 3.5 years, she rings, emails... she doesn't want to be with me, she just wants to see if I'm still on the back burner. I answered one of her calls by...

Ah right I get you now, no I've not shown anything, as I don't have any photo's because the phone I had when I was with her I lost shortly after breaking up with her, I've had 2 other phones since...

I personally thinks she wants to see how destroyed I am... but I'm not! Its because I chased her back for 2 months an for last month an half I've not give her one bit of attention so she's prob like...

I'm not destroyed one bit anymore... I'm happy! Why'd you say she might be wanting to try again? She emailed me today accusing me of showing people photo's of her on my phone etc.. Think she just...

I've been split up for about 3 an half months now... trust me, when you get to this stage you really don't want to get back with them.. only a little tiny bit, prob more for habit than anything else....

Vaild point! My ex does listen to her friends a lot, but I think most girls at 20 would anyway as their not really mature enough to make up their own minds!

Hi to all,

Just a quick one.

I was just wondering, been split up (dumped) with my ex g/f for about 3 an half months now... an recently she's tried making contact a couple of times but I don't...

Been broken up about 3 an half months, 2 of which I chased her trying to win her back so been in NC since (month an half) she's phoned exactly 1 month in to NC. She rebounded immedaitely after our...

I don't know but I'm in a similar situation, I still want my ex back a little bit, we'd been together for just over 3 years, she's 20... so I think she prob just wants to see the world abit an see...

I was with her for 3 years, she's 21, I'm 25, I was her first love... we kept just falling out over petty little things which lead to a bigger fallout / break! At first I was cool about it, she...

Its so hard, its easier to go backwards than it is to go forwards ha!

I don't think I can be bothered with women anymore... or for a while anyway ha!

So basically I've totally killed all attraction and any chance of getting back with my ex with my neediness... if I'd of just been strong an gone into NC I'd of prob had more chance of getting things...

Is it true that if your girlfriend breaks up with you because she says she needs space, that if you acknowledge her decision an don’t chase her back you've more chance of reconciliation?

Where as...

Good posts! Happy wi them...

I just wish I didn't answer the phone last night, I couldn't help it because I was half asleep an didn't realise what I was doing ha! Just like when you turn you...

Have I gave my ex what she needed then by answering the phone last night? I didn't know it was her because 1) I didn't expect her to call 2) she phoned off a different phone 3) I was half asleep so I...

Thanks

I'm not going to get roped in don't worry, but what if in the back of your mind you want to get back with her... do I let her chase me loads first to see if its genuine? Or don't ever get...

Hi,

I was seeing this girl for like 3 years (I was her first love) an we split up about 3 months ago no, it was on her terms as she said she wanted abit of space. She started seeing this guy...