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My friend who wants to be a professional movie-maker worked on this video with next to no money. I'm curious what people who don't know him think of it:

YouTube - The Pretty Blue Guns - Dead Mans...

Well at the high school I went to most guys dated younger -you may be right about what you see at your school though, local cultures can definitely vary a bit... The point I was trying to make was I...

Hey Andrew,

When you say "most guys" your age "aim older not younger" I think you're projecting a bit, eh? Based on what you yourself like? I think that's something all of us have to be careful...

ScottGem: There are guys at any age who will pray on girls/women at any age. There are also guys at any age who will be respectful towards girls/women of any age. Unfortunately there is no easy...

I would ignore all these people trying to scare you, personally. My sister, at 14, started dating a nerdy 17 year-old. They dated for two years and they're still not having sex and I think she...

I get what you're saying, ISneeze, and I think I agree with most of it. I went to a top 10 school, and I also know strippers.

But, I tend to think that having sexualized pictures of yourself in...

Well ISneezeFunny,

I've noticed for some reason all the respondants thus far are men (I think). A lot of women get insecure when their boyfriend just looks at porn (though I've never been too...

Definitely take it to the vet. It sounds like it's sick, and might have worms, amongst other things, in which case it will probably need medicine.

My dad rescued a kitten like that once that...

You seem to understand the risks, sweety. There are risks in nearly every decision you'll make in your life, especially those to do with relationships, but I'm not going to tell you what to do.
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So if you were sort of interested in someone, and you sense they are sort of interested in you, and then you learn their latest ex was a minorly successful professional model and porn star (okay, not...

Well it's only summer for 5 more weeks, and then I go to school on the other side of the country, so I think it's a pretty good excuse, personally.

The reason for having a more, err... "serious"...

I guess part of the reason I paid so much attention to the CD thing is because I know in his longest term relationship, one of the first things he did to let the woman know he wanted something with...

What are you talking about? All I'm doing is acting like I want to be friends with him, which is what I want.

And I'm totally confused about what exactly he wants. I can't respond to him...

I disagree about the chemistry part. I can totally act disinterested in someone when in reality I'm interested, but then it doesn't go anywhere. A bunch of small signals have to get sent back and...

Yeah, but I mean, if I'm trying to be platonic with him, then I'm not being flirty. There is no chemistry, because I'm not making any. When he compliments me I brush it off or ignore it. And when...

After that first meeting, the one I wrote about in the OP, I asked him to burn me an album. He asked if I wanted anything else, and I said "whatever you think I'd like". Then he made me a mixed CD...

Articles like these make me wonder if I can often be "too elusive":
Is He Or She Playing Hard To Get Or Just Not Interested?
How To Play Hard To Get And Still Get Him Or Her To Fall In Love by...

Hmm... I guess I am not a girl that ever knows how to play "hard to get". Most of the actual relationships I had, I feel like I made the first move or two...

Does playing hard to get mean...

So there was this guy I dated briefly about 7 months ago, and we hooked up a couple times. Then he "friended" me because he had a thing for a friend of his, and thought they were finally going to be...

Well maybe almost, at least. So what's /your/ answer?

Hmm... in my experience I have such mixed feelings about guys like this. On the one hand, they can be wonderfully fun and I appreciate the open-minded enthusiasm. On the other hand, I get terribly...

Lol. That was cute, and I like the analogy.

Yeah but ISneeze, isn't the point of "a type" more about what "works for you" as opposed to what you'd take a shot at?

You dated other types, and then for some reason decided they just didn't do...

Dude ISneezeBatman, are you joking? I totally see a trend there.

They're all relatively petite, black hair, and "exotic" (persian and middle eastern is not so far from Asian, either. Actually,...

A friend was caught shoplifting $200 worth of stuff when I was with her, then arrested.

We have questions.

Is there anyway that calling up the store managers, telling them we can get an...

Bump...

First, there is physically: are you attracted primarily to either short or tall, thin or meaty? How about hair color and face shape? Is there a strong pattern? Or do you fall for all sorts of...

No sokay, I was not implying that yours was more or less realistic than mine, just different. (You may notice that other posters claimed girls who said "nice guy" expected a Prince Charming by the...

No sokay, I was saying that you seemed to be defining "nice guy" differently than I was (at least in some of your posts), as were a lot of other posters. ("et. al." means "and others" in case you...

Yes, I am not saying women should stay in relationships with jerks and expect anything to change. I am saying that even if a woman leaves a relationship as soon as she realizes he's a jerk, she's...

"If every woman in a bad relationship just walks away from their abusive or not so great boyfriend or husband and then he moves on and treats the next woman the same and she walks away and this...

I wasn't looking for a political debate here either. I'm pretty sure you're the one who started the political stuff, at least from my perspective. So now we can stop discussing the feminist...

"If you could point out the "legal history" in any of your posts, I believe I can handle it."

Like I mentioned the fact that prior to the 1970s, it was legal for a husband to rape his wife. And...

I'm not a member of N.O.W. But if you meant that as an insult, it didn't really come across as one. (Feministing on the other hand, I do like a lot).

I'm just speakin' the truth though bro'......

"Your post is very accurate.. It's hurtful and brutal but true.."

Hahahahahahahaha.

"You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at...

"i think women accept this no nice guy attitude because they are afraid to approach a guy and therefore they do not see any nice guys because a true nice guy does not approach a woman unless he knows...

"toluca...trust me i take it you speaking from a women's perpective??huh??...well let me tell that being honest, straighforward, thinking and carting how my actions might affect other's feelings...i...

"Ok so why are you putting so much effort into snooping on his life?? I know that blogs are available for everyone on the internet to read, but still.. why such a need to snoop.. you guys had no...

"Women raise them that way and/or they date women who allow/settle for "bad" behavior."

Umm... men raise boys too, you know. You can't blame women for everything (well, you can try, I s'pose, god...

So I think from my (admittedly somewhat limited) dating experience, I've come to the following conclusion:

If there is such a thing as an all-around "nice guy" he's rare.

What's a lot more...

So this situation I asked some questions about a few months ago. But things have changed, slightly, and I'm fishing for some fresh opinions. It's a little hard to follow, but hopefully I've made it...

What do I say to him?

Well, I feel like asking someone something like that is sort of like asking them if they'd go out with you, isn't it? That's not what I want from him at this point...

And of course, that's not...

So I know, I know... researching people you've dated online, and their exes/new girlfriend rarely leads to good results. But because this guy is still in my life as a friend, continues to flirt w/...

I would say I often get told I have an "interesting face."


People who are more artsy or cosmopolitan, and especially females and older males tend to go for very positive adjectives: striking,...

I would say I often get told I have an "interesting face."


People who are more artsy or cosmopolitan, and especially females and older males tend to go for very positive adjectives: striking,...

"Why are you so concerned about this, are you thinking of asking him out? If not, then why worry, it's not your problem but the women he dates."

Well yeah, because I think he might like me, and I...

"If you ripped it out and it's a tic then it's possible that the legs are still in your skin and will grow back"

I don't know where you heard that but I can guarantee you it's not true. It can't...

Only deer ticks carry Lime disease, I think.

Hmm... doesn't sound like a good situation.

Do you know if she's single? Might that be a controlling boyfriend you heard in the background when on the phone?

I guess she's interested in you...