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This is a tough call. My hunch is that you're just seeing the tip of the iceberg. She's already lied to you about sleeping with another guy. Now when she doesn't want sex, your natural inclination is...

Being overly needy and dependent on another person is the death knell for a relationship. There is nothing that will destroy a relationship faster, save for cheating or something else like that. I...

Read a book entitled "How to Break Your Addiction to Another Person" by Howard Halpern. This book has helped me in the past.

Best thing to do is leave him alone and go no contact. He is the one who wants to leave you. Also, I think that part of this breakup has to do with the fact that he doesn't want to help you out the...

When she says she's unhappy, she means it. It also means she's been thinking about it for a long time. In my book, a break is almost always a prelude to a break-up. If she doesn't want to communicate...

Yes, I also have no idea why you are putting up with this relationship. Sounds like he is embarrassed about you, that's why he doesn't want anyone knowing about you. Also, sounds like you have very...

He is a loser. He is using you and also cheating on you, even if only emotionally, but probably physically as well. The most damning thing is if you are still wondering if you are in the wrong....

I agree with Altenweg. You value generosity in a relationship and he can't or won't provide it. You cannot change him, so you have only 2 choices: 1) Learn to live with it or 2) Move on. But whatever...

There has to be physical attraction for a relationship to start, unless it is more of a business decision, i.e. for money, green card, status, or whatever. But if it is a relationship based on love,...

If somebody doesn't want to keep working on a relationship, they've already checked out long ago, they just haven't announced it to you yet.

Keep the job.

Good rule of thumb: Never sacrifice your life's goals for a girlfriend or any other person.

Keep posting here and surrounding yourself with people who will listen and help you. Look into those meditation classes I was talking about, look up buddhism in your area or "dharma talks" or...

In my experience, this relationship is over. Do you really want to be treated this way? Cut it off before she's the one who does it.

Most likely he has found another woman and doesn't need you to meddle right now. He was pursuing you for 4 months because when you left him it was a blow to his ego and he didn't have anyone else...

Yes, you are too available and he doesn't really respect you. After 4 years the relationship should be much more serious. Start pulling away and see how he responds.

Write it off and just move on.

No, just maintain no contact. Just because you miss him doesn't mean he's right for you. It's a natural human response to miss old habits, even if they are no good. You've already given it several...

The only thing that will truly heal this is time. Be patient with yourself and just believe that time will heal. There are certain things you can do to expedite the healing, such as focusing on...

Doesn't sound like a very serious relationship. I think he is looking to move on. Remember a "break" is usually a "breakup".

OP,

In your follow-up posts, you keep defending yourself and blaming your current boyfriend. You need to stop blaming him and admit that what you've done is indefensible. Every guy looks at porn,...

That was a great response by Chuff, couldn't have said it better myself. You have to go from a mindset that there isn't anyone else out there for you to a mindset that you have an abundance of choice.

You two have very different values and this will keep rearing its ugly head time and again since this is important to her. You can either a) pretend that you have the same values, but you'll be...

I think that is Naomi Campbell on her avatar. BTW, NEEDING a relationship is the best way to not get one or to end up in one which is not satisfactory. You need to be somewhat detached from outcome...

This is my first post, but I would like to add that obviously this girl is not relationship material. It doesn't matter that she's attractive or how you feel about her, you can't put a square peg in...