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Cat has a point. You don't want to play games. But you DO have to be confident! If you don't have it in you to approach him, or have tried and failed, another approach is to show confidence in...

Oh, okay. Please disregard the previous statement...

Wait for him to come to you. Then turn him down... nonchalantly, sweetly, of course. No matter how hard it may be for you - rub one out or whatever you need to do, but stick to it. Guys need a...

Go down on her first.

One is considered an unfit mother when she mistreats her child, or allows them to be mistreated by others. If this is not the case, then you are not unfit. Since you ask this question, consider if...

Tell him no once in awhile. Be bored or change the subject with energy. Boys love a challenge.


(this doesn't mean it's you doing something wrong, he could very well be telling the truth......

[QUOTE]If it were my child, I would dig a little deeper with her. By asking how her day was with him, what they do or play together, if she likes being around him... /QUOTE]

Enigma, the thing is I...

Wow Cat. While this is the most harsh answer, it may also be the most realistic. Whether I ever know or not for sure, the doubt is disgusting and since you ask, whether it be coincidence or not, he...

You become the petitioner.

Wow, I think it is obvious you love her since you have stuck with her after her confession and without the sexual element around - important too in any romantic relationship!

I know with me, I...

Homegirl 50,

Good point. We'd known each other 1yr at work, and he was unhappy in his marriage anyway. He said she loved him too much, and that he never really loved her -also kind of strange. ...

Hey Jen,

This must be so hard. Humans are animals too. I think maybe because you and your sis were molested by your grandfather, and understand first hand how confusing it is to love someone and...

Altenweg,
I have mentioned a few times to my daughter that she is the most important, wins-over-everyone, girl in my life. As relaxed as possible, I have said how did you feel this morning when He...

Thank you all so much for your validation; when you're used to someone and alone with just them so often, it's easy to feel like you may be the one who is out of line... especially when the only...

I met this man at work and he was married. We always had an unspoken vibe; he had told me he would love to take me and my daughter out to get to see the city sometime (after months of knowing each...