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I told her I don't want to be a rebound, and she said that I wasn't because she actually liked me while she was still dating her previous boyfriend, and was curious about me. She thought that's all I...

Ok, about 2 weeks I stumbled upon a situation where a girl I liked for awhile has recently become single. We hung out with her boyfriend the past year or so, and she told me she had feelings for me...

Yeah... she's not looking for sex, and she doesn't want sex. Just wants to give oral.

From our conversations, she seems normal. Her family life is normal, and she just has this really crazy side...

No STDs... I've asked, but then again... "who knows"

I think there's doubt because I've never had this opportunity or offer before... I just picture this being somewhat fun and a good experience....

Ok, lately I've been trying this online dating site, and I've chatted with a few cool people... but recently I started chatting with this girl. She told me that all she really wants is a friend with...

I'd also like to add that I'm very mature... some things I've noticed by going to the bars/clubs recently have just made me sick. It may be the alcohol that makes everyone so hot and horny, but it's...

All right, wow now we have people talking! Haha

First off, there is no way I'm gay! Lol. Because I'm very attracted to women. I would say that a big part would be that I had lots of other stuff...

I love this quote about saving her from herself, and that only she can.

This past weekend was a perfect example... Me and a few friends go to the club to play darts and pool. It was her birthday...

I'm not looking to find "the one" really. I'm looking for some fun, and someone to share some time together with. I've never really had a girlfriend that involved kissing, late night phone calls,...

Good points here. It all makes sense and I know my gut is in the right place. It's just that it's harder for me to look past her since I don't really come in contact with a lot of women that I find...

Ok, it's been awhile so here's a quick update...

I recently found a girl that I've kind of grown to like. She has a kid and the dad used to live with them. (trouble, I know) He recently moved...

Good pointers! I just feel like I'm behind. I've never actually dated a girl. I've had a few friends who are girls, but nothing more than a quick lunch, or hanging out with groups of friends. The...

I want to trust that person, and even just know a little bit about them though. I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm just looking for someone that I can trust, and that wants to have a good time...

All right, but I'm at the point were I kind of want to get "some experience" I want to have a good time, but I definitely want to know this person before we were to do anything! I don't see myself...

I'm 23 male and a virgin... and I'm just wondering what's wrong with me!

I like women, but I just have trouble getting up the nerve and talking about personal stuff. I'm a joker, and can make...

I went out to the bars recently, and she was there too. We ended up hanging out for part of the night at the bars and having a good time. It was a group of my friends, and a group of her friends. We...

I get that, and that's why I'm a little confused, and I'm not really sure what I'm doing. I have a feeling that she thinks I kind of am interested. And I have a feeling that she is kind of interested...

Revival- I hear you... I'm sure we'll find something to talk about. We're both pretty shy, and since our conversations have only been via email, it might be a tough time. We can make each other...

Hello all.

I've recently stumbled upon a good looking gal that I just so happen to work with. We don't work together AT ALL. We just work in the same building. Let's get something straight...

Ok, I hear you. I know my odds are not in my favor. I know she won't invite out with her boyfriend. I've seen those 2 together before, and I know how they act. Since we've been texting and calling...

I know how you feel about all this talaniman. Just quit posting on what I have to say.

I know, but I'm tired of all these games. I don't like that she only talks to me when her boyfriend is gone. I don't like that she says she wants to hang out and then we never do. I don't like when...

Yeah, I've tried that. Or maybe try not answering a phone call maybe? Do you think I should call her back that night? Maybe just a little later? I don't mind buying her stuff. If we go out to eat,...

I have told her I liked her. She kept up the flirting and texting. And then I told her again that I still have the same feelings for her. After I told her the first time, she just said that we were...

I know, its really hard too. The past few weeks her boyfriend will be gone all week and then come home on the weekends. During that time when he is gone, we'll call each other and text each other...

Lately I've grown to accept that we are just friends. My feelings I thought were strong towards her, yet she had a boyfriend who is 11 years older than her. I told her that I'm no longer going to ask...

I might have to admit that's true. But since we're still co-workers, it seems that it's the easiest way out. She knows how I feel, yet she is still not doing anything about it. Lately she has been...

I think I am doing her a favor in that aspect. It's just weird... one day, she'll want to talk and have a good time at work. Other days, she just seems to hate being there. We still talk, but it...

We've started going our separate ways now. I don't really feel that attached anymore either. We still text and email all the time, but friends can do that. I want to hang out and maybe go to a movie...

Just thought I'd post something to get this thread to the top of the list. I like hearing what people have to say. Lol it gives me something to read!

Haha, we've gone about 2-3 days without emailing or texting and it feels pretty good. Today I just texted her seeing what she was up to. She called me, and we chatted for awhile. She talked about...

Yeah yeah, I hear you... I do need to man up and not let her control me like this. It's getting to a point were I am now starting to see what has been going on.

Thanks for the input... thanks...

Yeah, I'm still clinging a little because it seems that she doesn't want to let me go in a way. I tell her I want some space but she calls me and wants to talk. I don't want to let her go either in...

Yeah, although I would like more than friendship, I need to realize that she is sort of using me to just have someone to talk to. Again, I don't mind listening, but it's a little extreme when it's a...

Ok, its been a few weeks now, and now she's been texting and calling me on a daily basis. I would just want to get over how I feel about her. I told her I might need some space, but she just seems...

The thing is Talaniman, she doesn't talk to him about our friendship or even much about me. She probably wouldn't want him knowing about it either. Like when she calls when he's gone, and only does...

Yeah, I really like her, but she already told me that we're just friends. But she keeps throwing mixed signals at me all the time. I told her I liked her, so she knows. But I think she just wants...

Ok, so this female friend I work with, she has a boyfriend. We are really good friends... do I get her a Valentines gift? And if so, what do you recommend? Remember she does have a boyfriend. But...

All right, check out my previous post on my co-worker relationship before going any further.

All right! This weekend I just flat out told her I liked her. Thankfully she didn't go nuts and freak...

All right! This weekend I just flat out told her I liked her. Thankfully she didn't go nuts and freak out and tell her boyfriend to have him come and kill me! I sent it to her in an email over the...

Well I found out that she doesn't really want to get married, her boyfriend had a previous wife. We got to talking more about it, and she says that she's not really wanting to get married. I asked...

I'm not looking to work there much longer, and neither is she. I'm still young and always looking for a new job in hopes of finding a career. I plan on working somewhere else in a year or 2 for...

Gotcha, thanks for the advice. I sort of feel like I'm too clingy at times. I just need to forget all that stuff and let her come to me. I think I'm just to friendly or sensitive at times.

Well, the past few days at work have become different in a way. We still email back and forth, but not as often, and we don't talk to each other outside of work as much. I asked if something was...

I've been having troubles talking to this girl I work with. We have many conversations through out the day and outside of work. It just seems to fizzle out after awhile. She has a boyfriend who...

Ok, I hear you all... I just don't know how long I want to "wait" I guess. I sort of have my hopes up right now, but I need to understand what she has going on in her life right now. She seems...

It just seems like she cares about me though... I told her I liked spending time with her and talking. So now she is always excited to call me and stuff and talk. I don't think she'd want to have...

Nvm, I just received a call from her... her boyfriend just left and she gave me a call. What's going on? Lol

All right, It's the first day back with her boyfriend back in town. We talked at work for a bit, but tonight I tested the water. I text her once to see what she was up too, wondering what she would...

OK, so today we talked on the phone again, and we got talking about her boyfriend. She said that they are people that stay home a lot and just don't go out much. She said that it is their way of...