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I know, Im sorry Talaniman. I know your trying to help, and I know that Im not thinking clearly at this point. Sometimes it just seems that no thought is really given to my situation and the easiest...

I know, I know! I feel as though I'm doing pretty good, diven the circumstances. I mean, I might talk a lot about trying to contact her, but the reality is that I have not! My question now is that...

Understood. It's just that in my situation, because we haven't actually broken up, I'm almost thinking that she wants me to call her at some point. Like I said, she said she just wanted space, and...

So, since she has not said we are broken up, and every time I ask she says "No" she just needs time, is there a time that I should contact her. Right now, I am doing no contact, and I haven't heard a...

I know, I know I hear you! I have been doing no contact with the exception of her telling me about the leftovers in the fridge, and saying thank you. Honestly, that's all I've said is thank you. I'm...

So, I'm really confused here guys! I'm having a heck of a time figuring this out. I don't know what's right, and I don't know what's not right. On one hand, I read all of the posts here about taking...

Gosh, this is really confusing everyone, including me!. lol Let me set the story straight here, so that maybe I can get a clear perspective on things. My girlfriend is 24, and I am 26. We have both...

I've been speaking with my brother about the situation, and pretty much explained the same as I have stated here. He is agrees, and doesn't understand what she means either. His advise to me was to...

It's not that I am refusing to do it. I know what I have to do. What I mean is that she is confusing me by the stuff she says and the way she acts. One minute she is telling me that she wants to be...

SO, my ex contacted me last night and we had a conversation via text message. I asked her how she is doing, and told her that I missed her. Keep in mind, its only been about 2 days since we last saw...

I guess I'm just afraid to back off too much. I mean, I don't want to just throw in the towel and basically tell her that I don't care if she gets back with her ex. I feel like she needs to know how...

I know I should be focusing on myself at this point. I guess that's part of the reason I made the decision to break up with her? I do have strong feelings for her, and when we're together its...

I appreciate all of your support! Just another question. Do you think it would be advisable to do no contact with her? Or should I stay in contact to let her know that I still care about her? I'm not...

Thanks for all of the advice guys! So, I invited my girlfriend over last night because I just couldn't stand it anymore. I told her that I knew about the hotornot account, and she said sha...

So, today I found out some stuff about my girlfriend that kind of hit me pretty hard. After my girlfriend and I had been dating for a little while, she asked me why I still had my "hotornot" account...

So yesterday, after my girlfriend said that she needed some space, invited me to go to the gym with her. I had been giving her space for a few days, keeping phone calls and what not to a minimum....

Hello, I am trying to get into the Search engine Marketing industry. I was just curious to find out what the best way to go about this would be? I have experience, and have been working on a website...

mafiaangel180 I totally understand where you're coming from. I do have to point out that it was not me that initiated the hanging out all the time thing. It was always her who would call/text me, or...

True! I know how I feel, as I've said. It just sucks that I'm torn between caring about her, and putting my foot sown when it comes to my feelings. To make a long story shorter, we've been together...

Say that I dump her. I really don't want to because I know where my heart is, mind you. But, say I dump her. I could be making a huge mistake, if all of her needing space was just out of being...

I've had a heart to heart with her, and I let her know what she means to me. We've talked about everything, and she just said that she needs a little space. Again, she says that we're not breaking...

Thanks for all of the great advice guys! I'm just curious about something though. Since we haven't actually broken up, how do I go about giving her space exactly? I know that when you break up with...

She says that we're not breaking up. I mean I've been through this with an ex, but we were actually broken up already when she said she wanted me to give her space. This one is different. I asked her...

So, tonight my girlfriend was acting a bit out of sorts. I asked her what was going on, and she said that she is confused right now with her feelings. I wasn't sure what she meant, so I asked. She...

So, I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now. After about the second month I started to realize that I was falling for this girl. I didn't say anything at the time because I was unsure if...

My suggestion would be go to eHelpingHand.com. I signed up with them in my area (Oregon) and created a free moving profile. They advertise for you, and the customers search for you for free. You are...

Yeah, For sure! I have an apprenticeship at the station my dad had worked at. Just have to finish up with college, and that's where I will be going. As far as talking with my dad? I don't have much...

So, I am trying to become a DJ on air, at a radio station. My dad was a DJ for 19 years at a local radio station, and he enjoyed it very much. I would ask him for advice, but my parents were divorced...

Ash123... I have thought about calling her, or texting her, but I haven't. It's odd because I love her, but dislike her as well. So, when I think of calling her, I think of how she left me, and all...

Here is a little background about my situation with my ex, from when we first broke up.
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Haha! I knew you'd find me talaniman! I agree with you. I know that this has come along quickly since my break up, and it took me by surprise! I may still be healing, and not even realize it because...

So, I met this girl, and we have been seeing, and talking for about 2 weeks or so. I think I might like her, but I'm not sure? Sometimes I feel attracted to her, and other times I am not. I'm not...

So, I have been broken up with my ex for a while now, but I am having trouble moving onto other people. I have met, and gone on dates with a few women since the break up. I always find myself...

My Ex girlfriend and I broke up. We had moved in together, both signed the lease, and she bailed on me after 2 months. I was stuck with all of the bills, which I could not afford. So, I went and...

So, if you are unfamiliar with my story, you can check out the link below to my original thread
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/torn-between-love-anger-96059.html.

Here is where I am...

It's been a while since I have talked to my ex. But, I still find myself putting her up on this pedestal. After everything she has put me through, I still think of her as this sweet innocent girl....

Why do I miss her so much? I just can't seem to shake this! She seems to have already gotten over me so quickly, which is odd to me? Thinking back, she was so in love with me, and now it's as though...

My girlfriend has recently broken up with me (About 1 1/2 months ago) and I am feeling lost. We had been living together for about 2 months, and I had moved out of the place that I shared rent with...

Thanks guys! Bushg, I can relate to your contributions more than others! It makes more sense to me, I guess. My question for you, or anyone, is where do I go from here? I have been continuing with my...

The thing is, is that I have been continuing my life! But, I just can't get it out of my mind. Everywhere I go, she is on my mind! It just sucks that she would call me and say this stuff! It really...

Thanks guys! I guess my next question would be, How do you stop holding out for hope? I always tell myself all of the bad things she did to me, but I always find myself assuming she will come back. I...

Talaniman, what is it that you mean by "Testing the waters for a reaction"? I'm not sure I understand, but either way I'm not sending the money.

Okay, so you all have a good idea about my situation with my ex girlfriend. Well, the last couple of days have been pretty crazy for me. I have continued the NC rule, and it has been about 2 weeks...

So, I just thought I would throw this out there for some opinion. I know for a fact that part of the reason why my girlfriend left was because I did have a drinking problem. Sometimes, I would drink...

Yeah, but right now I think the opposite way!. lol When I find myself getting angry at her, I turn to the good times we had, because I can't believe that this is her. I guess I can't believe its her...

Is it wrong for me to feel anger towards her? I mean, I find myself angry at the situation, and a lot of things. I'm angry that she did this to me, after I had invested so much time into her. I feel...

AHHHHHHHH! Can someone tell me why I still anticipate her coming back! Seriously, I am driving myself crazy, I know! I keep thinking about sending her that one little text message. You know, the one...

Thanks Talaniman! So, I thought that I would throw something else out here for opinions while I'm at it. As I said, we had been together for 1 1/2 years, Well, for the last, I'd say 8 months, we have...

See, I have been doing this, i.e. continuing my life, trying to find happiness. Right now, it is very tough for me to do so. My days at this point are always the same and never change. I wake up, and...

Yeah, I hear you. It's just so hard though. I am at the point now, where I am starting to lose positive "Love" feelings for her. When I think about her, I find it hard to remember the good times now,...