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So I know this will be a weird question but please don't flame me as it's a bit aggravating... I'm a guy. I kind of had a crush on this girl I hooked up with a couple times last year. So I hadn't...

She was terrible to me :( but I'm still so drawn to her. She captivates everyone in the room... N I got screwed... So will she keep reaching out? I want her to miss me :(

So you and I broke up last week and its over... I tried and we have both been on either end of the "i'm breaking up with you" side...
[so then you initiate contact]

You text me at 2am on a...

My ex-gf and I split for the second time, this time she split from me. 2yr relationship. We were going to get engaged but I wasn't quick enuf. So a month passed of me trying to get her back and we...

2 weeks ago...
She never asked me to leave her alone. She said she would come back to me if she hadn't become involved with this other guy. She said she still loved me and offered no closure. We...

Yes she has been giving me a lot of the cold shoulder. I call her and say really nice things to her and she essentially throws them in my face/ she slapps me down every time.. she expressed she loves...

My ex would never give me #2 closure. She would just say "i dont know" / "i dont know what to say to you"
Really pi$$ed me off...

Just doesn't sound healthy. I would recommend test driving a car before just assuming it rides okay and making a big purchase

2 weeks nc. Her birthday is tomorrow and I know its real important to her. My ex set her AIM status to "Birthday Week!!" which in itself sounds weird. Who writes that? I think I'm one of the only...

Thanks

What if I broke up with them and want them back? I broke her heart first... and even though mines breaking now, hers is the only one that matters... she's not coming back right away because she's met...

Sorry last thing...
In my situation, I suspect she may be rebounding
NC or is small talk okay? To maintain friendship...
"goodmorning" etc...

Thanks for your advice. With regard to the rebound possibility, its been 3 months since our breakup, 2 months since she's known I've been trying to get her back. She started seeing him around 2...

I miss her sooo much. I'm not a bad person. I just needed to figure out if this is what I wanted... and it is. I needed time to figure out if she's the one for me. I love her so much. I made the...

I did the splitting. She has abirthday this Thursday. Right now there's nc but I think I should send a simple card with my name, that's it

Is there anything I can say to her... somehow prove its not just for those reasons. Its not. Our last conversation went okay and we laughed a couple times. Should there be any final words? Should she...

[please dont flame me for retitleing my post- its more appropriate, message flows better and im in dire need of more coucil]
We were together for 1.5ys. We were very happy and she was CRAZY about...

I wonder if this has a special exception... for NC
Her birthday is on the 15th. (11/15)
>>> REMEMBER: I broke up with her... she is seeing someone else. She said she loved me and would come back...

Should I occasionally say hello to her. Very simple... nothing more. Just to look like I'm still a friend?

I'm dealing with the same problem. It really hurts. Sorry for you. In my situation, she has found someone that "treats her much better." and I probably pushed too much so I don't recommend that... :(

I know your right. But its hell dealing with such a disastrous mistake... I appreciate your understanding so much more than you know
Was her mom hinting at me?
You can see how robotic my ex's get...

Last week, her mom wrote me an email:
So sorry you are hurt. But you need to stop with [my ex] you are freaking her out and pushing her away I don't know if she will ever come back to you but your...

Okay so I told her a few weeks back that I was happy, she was happy, and I was doing well because I went on a few dates. She cried and sent me an email. Did I push her even further? Is there anything...

I'm seriously going crazy. I can't stop. She's never coming back is she? I've done too much damage? I didn't realize what I had and I pushed it away. She's happy everyday f ing someone else and I...

I know I have to wait... its been 1 week since we spoke
Is she bsing me or keepng me on the line with this:

All I want say is:
I miss you. I now your so happy now. But you were happy before with me. I'm in agony. Why can't we both be happy? Together

Do u still ever think about us getting married and...

You're probably right and I understand what ouere saying. I can't explain it but I miss her so much.
Her grandfather passed away 1 year ago yesterday. Should I have called her to console her? I told...

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Her response to finding out that I met someone sparked some immediate jealous questions, her crying , and the following email:

Her email titled "good luck to you" RECEIVED ...

You're so fast. Thank you so much. I hate just being hopeful but I know that her two prior bfs broke up with her for the same reason I did. Because she was clingy I guess. Maybe she will do it again...

I know I'm being persistent -im sorry. And I worry that she thinks I yelled at her and got got crazy since I've been trying to reconcile. She even said she thought for a moment she would change her...

I'm doing nc but I don't know what will happen...
Should I say ANYTHING to her?
'do you want me to move on?'
Can I make a promise/ commitment to never be apart from her again. i.e. engagement...

I think you're very right. She wrote this...
Her (11:52:03 AM): When you broke up with me you forced me to get over you. And you can't say you weren't breaking up with me and only taking a break. I...

Me (8:41:59 AM): were kind of moving apart
Her (8:42:55 AM): what?
Her (8:42:58 AM): I'm confussed
Me (8:42:58 AM): were losing touch with each other
Her (8:43:39 AM): umm, OK
Me (8:43:22...

thank you for your input . I kind of think you may be dead on about her not trusting me about a breakups...
a recent conversation:
me (2:46:51 PM): are you trying to get over me?
me (2:47:14...

Post #12 I broke because I needed some time to figure myself out

I can rewrite this but I'd like to email it to her:
Forgive me for not understanding why the person who fell so hard for me won't...

So originally I called her a bunch and groveled to her. Told her I loved her and would do anything. She found someone new and I think he's a rebound but she treats it like she can't break up with...

Thanks guys. I made the mistake of groveling for a couple weeks, a barage of texts and phone calls. Crying and pleading. So lame... I had broken up with her. I showed her all my cards and she stepped...

I am doing nc. I think its my best option but does it ever work??
I feel sooo hopeless... is it better than maintaining SOME friendly communication?

I think we left this on a good note but %#$@!!
I broke up with her for two months, she finds someone new, now stays with him, complains I was bad to her/hurt her, but says she would still still...

I know NC fine but should I stand up for myself and say I'm not going to be waiting around? I'm not going to be her second option...
Shouldn't I look strong, saying NO to her? Then go NC. Otherwise...

I broke up with her because she was always asking me to have her move in with me. I felt suffocated at the time. I always wanted to end up with the girl but I simply wasn't ready for that type of...

I asked her if she loved him. She said she never thought about that. Thst she loved things about him. -but for her to already live with him? That's like in my face! I will do no contact. But...

Don't send anything/dont go there... I made that mistake. Seems nice doesn't it? I know how you feel. But sending flowers and being the normal caring person you are only drives him further[okay for...

I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 1.5 year. 2months have passed with a decent amount of contact. That recently stopped and I started falling for her again. I professed my apology and love for...

It wasn't my intent to make her jealous. It just happened that way. I told her I had to move on an was being set up on dates. Now she's reaching out to me more actually... I don't know where its...

Forgive me guys if I feel like there's a chance with this one...
I don't know if she's confused about what she wants. I am so confused and I'm still going crazy for this girl. I feel like she still...

I'm not trying to make her jealous. I agree that that would be juvinile. But I just wonder if by her knowing that friends are introducing me to their single females, and only because she leaves me no...

I've heard jealousy is a huge aphrodesiac..
Does making a girl jealous bring her back? I know it worked for me in the past. When she made me jealous I fell head over heals for her...

Hello. So I broke up with a girl and it was a mistake. Called her a bunch and groveled to her. Told her I loved her and went way overboard. She found someone new and I think he's a rebound but she...