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"I will agree, the day you go to pick that phone up to look and check up, or the day you open thier email, you may as well pack up and move out because you will keep looking till you find something...

Dr. Lipton, my thoughts exactly! I just have an extremely hard time believing that a person wouldn't have the urge to do a little snooping if said partner was exhibiting shady behavior. I'm FAR...

I understand where you're coming from Angel, but it's not that simple. A man's drive is usually much higher than a woman's and eventually a guy is going to start getting shut down and rejected on a...

Just leave it alone. One of my ex's was the same way, she just didn't care for it at all. We tried it a few times because I didn't mind making an attempt, but nothing worked. She still took care...

And to add, sex is almost ALWAYS going to be probably 3 times as frequent in the beginning stages of a relationship compared to a year or more into it.

Yeah that's just normal, get used to it. I think men are just programmed/wired to "require" sex almost on a daily basis as opposed to women. A small percentage of women are ready to go on a...

Welcome to our (men) world!

But seriously though, have you simply asked him why he doesn't want to?

Hmm... were they joking around and saying all this in jest?

Good Lord, another one of these questions? What's wrong with a man watching porn? I can see if he watched it compulsively everyday, hours on end, but a lil' view here and there isn't bad!

My...

Give her exactly what she wants. I've been there, done that. It hurts and it sucks, but what can you do? Ultimately, you have no choice but to.

:O Dude, it's 2012. Why are you having sexual acts with complete strangers knowing what all is out there! I mean... *sigh, we're not here to judge. To answer your question, yes I would say that...

Yeah don't freak out about it. I'm a very curious person by nature and Google has it all. I've looked up and seen videos of women with horses, men with horses... 2 Girls, 1 Cup *shudders, but that...

Lol at Ravalos and the pet thing, but seriously though you have to let it burn man, leave her alone completely. We've all been there. 3 years is a long time to be with someone especially if you...

How many more signs do you need? It's obvious that she likes the other guy more. It's only been 2 months, move on and save yourself a lot of trouble.

I met a girl a couple months ago and we...

It seems like girls get incredibly confused around that age 19-22 or whatever. It's like when they're 16, 17, 18 a relationship is all they think about and then after college they want to end their...

Hmmm... I think he might be. I'm a straight guy and I don't think I would ever go to an actual restaurant with just me and 1 guy friend. I would go to the movies with a guy friend if it's just us...

I forgot about the child part Chuck, yeah no contact isn't even an option in his case.

It happens to the best of us. Once again, I'm currently going through this as well. I was told "I just want to be single. I don't want a boyfriend at the moment." It doesn't matter how good you...

I feel your pain man, I'm currently going through this as well with my ex of 4 years. We've been "officially" split for almost 3 months now and we still talk and she wants to be friends and all, but...

I agree with Chuck, but I've used the Pull Out Method for years with my ex without any pregnancy issues. BUT she was on a hormonal contraceptive half of that time and their could've been a variety...

Yep it's very possible. The chances may be a good bit slimmer since he didn't release his full contents inside you, but it's still possible.

I think it's more of a mental control thing and having adequate willpower. If you feel yourself in the very beginning stages of releasing I'd say either pull out completely and try to "reset" (calm...

If it quacks like a duck... I think you know the rest.

I appreciate that, but is there anyway I can keep this new question separate J_9? I know that my last couple of questions are REALLY long and would prefer to delete them (but I can't) so I kind of...

Yes, here's another question about an ex. I posted a couple of questions (novels) about my then girlfriend on here a couple of months ago, we didn't make it. So anyway my ex moved out about 6-7...

That sounds like a pretty bad situation. No one should be controlled in a relationship. You are in a very tricky situation (no money saved, you work at his business, no parents to rely on), but...

I may have some conflicting advice, but I say talk to him Saturday. What's the worse that can happen? The NC has already been broken. Relationships are crazy. I saw my ex this past Monday...

Lol @ Punjab, really?

Hey Packersfan, give us a bit more detail about the nature of your relationship. How long have you guys been dating? I'm assuming that you guys have been married for 9...

Que? Have you had vaginal intercourse before? If yes then you are no longer a virgin, if no then yes you are still a virgin. You don't have to go to the doctor to figure that out.

Stop it. Is temporary pleasure really worth the long-term and possibly permanent strain and distrust that your sis will have for you WHEN she finds out? Remember that's your sister, she's always...

:/ I think all men pre-***, unless he has a condition that says otherwise. I'm not trying to come down on you like some of the others are, we're just saying that it's a very real possibility that...

@Judy, haha thanks, but I don't need to be an investigator to check my gf's phone and see a text stating "I love you" sent to a phone other than mine to know that something isn't right. If that...

"Trusting someone means that you can communicate with them and believe them when they give you their version of events."

You can believe them all you want, doesn't change the fact that they could...

Why would I just up and leave the relationship simply because I'm suspicious of her behavior? Being suspicious and just completely not trusting a person aren't the same thing. I don't trust her if...

Hey Alty, is there REALLY sperm in pre-ejaculate? I don't want to get swarmed here (like I was with my very first question), but I've read a few studies here and there on the web that said yes and a...

I'm sorry, but lol. Is this one of those old "I have this friend..." questions? Just be honest man, you can be anonymous here.

"You either trust him or you don't...checking isn't going to change your trust level"

It could. If you're suspicious about his/her behavior, look and find something, then that validates your...

I understand completely, you just want to try it at least once just to see what it's like. Everyone's so "terrified" about it because there's a very real chance, although incredibly slim, that you...

Digital picture? Ah it doesn't matter, just go and talk to her as a mature person and explain to her that you'd like the picture back. If she gives it to you or not, dump her anyway because there's...

Wow Smoothy, I guess... we just have differing outlooks on relationships. I guess your mentality on bf/gf is really similar to my very recent ex. I went through her phone just 3 weeks ago and found...

? I'm confused by some of the advice on here. True enough that's his phone and his laptop, but it seems a bit... weird to have naked pics of close female friends. I can completely understand if...

I agree with Synnen, sounds like he's just being considerate of the roomies. Um... use the floor? Or stand up against the wall, or off the bed, or on the bed but have him use deep, slow strokes. ...

That's rough man, but that's not your girlfriend at all anymore. She ceased being your girlfriend 2.5 years ago. I know it hurts and it sucks, but you really need to let go of the past and start...

Wow, you're tenacious! Have you at least asked him why he prefers not to? My ex actually begged me a handful of times to come inside her and even though I wanted to, in the back of my mind I was...

Sweet Jesus! Please get out of this relationship asap! You're only hurting yourself, he already told you that you guys don't have a future together, no kids, no marriage, he still stays with his...

It's going to be ridiculously difficult and you may cry and ask yourself what did you do wrong, but it's life miabosworth. Trust me, I'm going through it right now at this very moment with my...

Wow, that is some awesome advice Schoolmarm! I'm going through something really heavy myself and your advice is spot on.

Sheesh... you guys are blunt! But yeah devil, take their advice and to add I'd say take a step back from the relationship and put your wants and needs on the back burner and focus and prepare for a...

Sorry for posting this novel. I'm bad about details. I know that I'm going to get the same ol' "move on, keep busy, live your life" responses. I just thought maybe if I included every detail in my...

Gosh darnit. How do I delete questions?