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Guess this NC thing, gets me closer to my ex. Lol. We're cool with each other and like get along well now with minimal effort from my side. All I do is NC. Haha. :) Is amazing how things can change...

Ok so everything went well today. All of a sudden during midnight about 12 right after I wished her through sms cause want to be one of the first ones to wish. She replied and asked me to go to...

All right Kc. Thanks a lot. :)

Same school for me lol. I should wish her just to be polite. And is my sis who is going to give it to her cause we share the same friends (for now).

OK just last 2 week, she was shouting at her...

Hey I'm back. Ok so my school just ended summer holiday yesterday. Started school today. And my ex's birthday is tomorrow, 4th sept. I asked my mom what should I do, cause my sis and I got her a...

Yeah get to think of it, its unfair.



I know xemnas. :)

Yea kc. Maybe. I think I should give another couple of weeks before going deep with my current one.

What I meant was like you say not in a hurry with the current. But you know just emphasizing about my actions towards the ex.

For me I just hope my ex is doing fine. So what if the ex initiate...

You know tal, get to thin of it, you're right, no hurry. :)

But I think I just want to avoid any pain from my ex by still going NC, you know. Cause 2 reasons a person wants to communicate, one is...

True... yeah you're right. Just like erm... miss the old one abit that's all, but I think it will eventually be fine.

And I suppose is a good thing for me to focus 100% on my new girl huh. :)

Hmm. OK. Yea that's true. But most people around me still like bother their ex or wtvr and to me is like they annoy them. So my thought is I'm ahead by going total nc. Lol.

Oh... nice answer. Thumbs up. :)

Oh yea when I share with my friends that I'm undergoing nc, most of them were clueless what I'm talking about, I mean about nc.

Is this nc rule new? Cause...

Erm OK. One question bother my mind sometimes.
By undergoing NC, what benefit do I get out of it? Besides my own healing.

Ok a quick update on my progress and happening now. :)
Its been going pretty good I suppose so far. Been feeling very good with my new girl, but when I go out with her, my mind automatically brings...

Okie dokie. Good point guys. Think I'll just not break nc then. Will update on more in the future. :)

Ok, so I have been going NC since 29th June and I been feeling real easy and happy now. Saying first to prevent confusion, although she blocked me in msn until now but she didn't block me in skype....

First of all, good that you woke up. :) Second, she might be confuse and lost and she wants to like what they say hang on to you till something else happen. I believe you do get what I mean. Lol. The...

Good luck on starting NC. You had made the right decision. :) I have a way if it feels like the world is on your shoulder when you undergoing NC. Keep a calendar, mark as the day goes by, write...

Well said man. :)

Keep the updates coming. :D

Its never too late to change and improve yourself, but don't change just because to suit her, is for your own benefit. Its never too late to learn to be a good listener for your future.



Lol...

Update it, Rome. :)

I'm super active in Facebook... lol, but I always resist myself by not sneaking to see my ex's profile and since last week or two, I don't even bother to look for her name to see what's her doing or...

Well... I know I'm kind of late to here, you seem to have great advice from these people here. Similar situation with you actually, but without going into too much details on my thread, I quickly...

Be patient. If he really likes you then he'll understand and wait. Enjoy your youth to the max, cause as you get older, you needa handle things more responsible, more stress will come , etc. Take it...

You just made me fell better. :) This NC thing is harder and longer then I expect, cause I still feel the sting when my ex talk to someone else but not as much.

OK... will do. Thanks.

I mean like her friend, like not my friend. I be very open here, the friend which I think is whatever(interested or interesting) to her, is like insulting me behind my back, I get to know this as one...

It is wise to ignore whatever people talking about me and my ex especially them talking to my ex right? I mean I feel that anger and uncomfortable when people do that. How can I handle this type of...

Even if is a short relationship like close to 5 months? Lol.
I dun think I need to say my story here.
I can't lie to myself but deep down I like my ex a lot. Although I'm with another girl now. :)

Even if is a short relationship like close to 5 months? Lol.
I dun think I need to say my story here.
I can't lie to myself but deep down I like my ex a lot. Although I'm with another girl now. :)

Errr ash now is July man. Haha! :D its been about a month I go NC. :)

All right Ash. :)

NC since 29th June

Ash... What comes after NC? Really curious.

All right.

One thing I just realize... trust level among my ex and I are still up there.
Just saying.

Oh yeah... a few of my friends and my ex are going on this vacation trip organized by the school. I...

I can read this over and over without getting bored cause is such a good thread. I'm saying this again am I? Haha!

NC since 29th June

Sorry, but I have fail to see what is the big problem here. I would advice on having a good family talk. :)

You should talk to a guidance counsellor or therapist maybe and maybe another family member. See if that helps.

Imagine that time man before NC. Lol. Still carrying out my daily routine on self improvement and the NC rule.

Is just me, I just don't feel that she wants to heal from it. Maybe is just me thinking too much.

I rather ask now then later. I just got this question roaming for a couple of days. Even if I heal, will she be able to heal? Cause I just don't feel she would heal. You get what I mean? Can't...

My sis just asked without my permission. Lol. Yeah, glad it went well. Back to NC and will update more here if there's any.

Well erm... ended is her dad who pick my sis, my friend and I up from my house. And I don't think her dad about me and his daughter(me ex), and I think only the mom know. So all of us when with her...

Everything went smooth. :) Just updating.

Ok. Just a quick update. Tomorrow, just saying that my sis and I are going to watch my best friend's football match before he leaves to excel his career in football in another county and is probably...

Besides the NC I'm going through, I'm following your advice as well jol. :)

Thank you very much. :) Just want to know that's all. I'll update here when anything happens. :)

Carrying out NC since 29 June.

Just an update. My school's summer holiday has just started today all of a sudden as it suppose to start next week. That doesn't matter. I just say that I won't be seeing my ex for the summer holiday...

Don't just sit back. This type of situation you must stand, make a move and talk to sort things out. Don't let her hang you in the air. Sit down face to face and really talk to her to get to the...