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First, you don't know how she feel until you ask her. You are making a lot of assumptions that may or may not be true. I know it's scary but if you are right you could come up with ways to fix...

It sounds like you are trying to build an ideal relationship out of something that is making you unhappy. There are people me included that cannot have a LDR and be happy (no matter what guy it is)....

I feel that too. Don't be a friend when she feels like it. If you are going to be friends you need to set some boundaries and you need to decide if you want a fair weather friend. It sounds like...

Breaking up with someone after 2 weeks doesn't mean you were using them. It just took you that long to figure out of you liked him. As far as your boyfrend, you two need to talk and figure out...

I agree. It sounds likee he just wants you around to send mixed messages. I wouldn't have sex with him; it sounds like it's not you but that he likes to play the field. Don't be the field. I don't...

A lot of times people (and children especially teens) experience feelings such as sadness, hopelessness, and doubt. This can effect one's eating and sleeping. This can be signs of depression or I...

It sounds like you should both just part ways. You are hanging on like it's all going to be fine; she's acting like she feels guilty. I know it is difficult but you both are just prolonging the...

First of all you need to be sure that this is worth uprooting yourself and devastating your wife. Make sure that you will nolt be sorry later. Consider the fact that this will change everythingin ...

Your girlfriend may be insecure about her body or even the relationships and may be making excuses because either she is not aware that she Has these issues or she doesn't know how to fix it. Women...

I am an addictions counselor and smoking is very very difficult to stop. You are right - stress ads to the need for compulsive behavior and reduces our ability to cope with problems effectively. ...

You need to investigate thishowever you can. There should be no secrecy in a relationship. Have you confronted your husband on the discrepancy between these 2 situations. I don't like when men try...

I have never heard of an apartment asking for a pet deposit on a small dog but not allowing the big dog. Either it's all or nothing. You have to accept your s.o. with all the frills I know you...

If he can't stop that reaches the level of an addiction. Besides it is a very weird kind of addiciton. He really needs to see somebody this doesn't sound like a typical fetish. It concerns me that...

You got your answers - he just isn't feeling as sexual at the present time. This can happen for a numberof reasons. Maybe he is stressed, has a lot going on at work, or just is in a different place...

I doubt your dad hates you, you probably are just different people. Just the difference in ages alone make kids and parents disagree. It's very normal to feel like you don't like each other. ...

Usually grants are for work or school etc. But look on the internet under Free Money. Because you are on a fixed income you would be first in line. Also find if the garage could be related to...

I am a business owner and work with exfelons. There are no stipulations that say you can't get a grant. But I will say with a background people can be judgemental so youj should start a business...

There's nothing saying you can't get a grant so jump in with both feet. Some of the books about free money have resources dedicated to exfelons. The best way to market yourself is to find a grant...

There are charities that embrace ex felons. Some are for clothes, food, housing and job training. Salvation Army and Good will have excellent job training programs to return to the community and...

You can't help her because she is not receptive yet, and by the way she is not alcohol binging she has passed to dependence. The symptoms and behavior you are describe is past binging. Binging has...

I know you are not in Maryland but offering this in case people in your state don't respond. I am a therapist in MD. You can not practice mental health unless you have a Master's Degree, pass a...

Poor concentration can be from many causes. One is stress or having something else on your mind. Grown ups have that experience a lot. Another possibility is a hyperactive ADHD type disorder but...

Since you don't have a crystal ball, you have to ask and be satisfied with the answer. Stop; trying to read meanings into his actions because the actions might mean something other than what you...

When I started my business I called other businesses in thed same industry and pretended to be a client. My experience is that if you set it too low people don't think they are quality services or...

My experience is nothing where you need inventory. I started a business on less than $1000. If you have a skill or service, all you need is one month's rent and office supplies. That won't help ...

Are you in love with the idea of love or the girl? If it's the girl, then there is only one choice. You have to communicate your feelings and your expectations to her. But then you have to be...

It soounds like you do genuinely want to be with her so what are you waiting for. I see people say "I am not going to call her because it's too soon" Who made that rule, lonely people I guess. I'm...

I don't understand the "I need time": excuse (I am a much more clingy person). However the two of you need to to get together or let it go. The time is for what? Either you have what it takes or...

I know you are young but the only problems get resolved is to talk about. What you are trying to do is guess at how she feels or why. Talk to your mom as a person and you might be surprised. ...

Tell him how you feel! What have you got to lose? After you talk to him you have to let it go. Or else everyone will be compared to him. YOu have to make the extra hard effort to let it go - just...

Sex can decrease for many reasons and I am a therapist not a doctor. What I can say is that as a relationship grows and becomes more mature, sex becomes less of a priority. That doesn't mean he's...

I don't think most people would agree with their choice at 18. Sometimes I think people make do for years because they don't want to acknowledge that they have made a life changing experience. You...

Right, right and right! This is not only inappropriate it's hurtful. Your husband is using these relationships to be selfish and hurtful. Not just that, but as you said it is very unprofessional. ...

I am a therapist in MD but you don't give a lot of important details. We all have inapppropriate thoughts it's a matter of degree. We might say "I could just kill him right nolw" But you would...

I am a therapist in MD but don't believe in all that Freudian and symbolism crap! The only thing I can say is that there may be some gradule of truth in there or some insecurity but I don't think...

Get help fast! I am a addictions counselor in MD. I have seen people get off meth and heroin and become great productive people. What are you waiting for? Report to a hospital or program now. ...

You can knock boots until the cows come home. You just can't drink!

I am a therapist in Maryland and treat others with self esteem issues. It sounds like you have baggage but that doesn't make you a bad person or stuff your fault. You may have issues that have left...

I agree that you should have been married. It sounds like he told you where hismind was. I don't usually believe in second shots. The same things that were there the first time are there the...

Are you sure you want it back? I am a therapist and treat bipolar. Although mania or depression can make one irritable it doesn't give someone a license to treat you like crap! If he is...

Depression and anxiety disorders have symptoms to what you are deescribing. However these symptoms should be addressed by a professional. But for now, depression can include hopelessness, increase...

Yeah, it's called moving on. Have a great night out. You will forget enough

Sometimes experience comes from just practice. She may be better simply because she wants to make you happy. Usually if people are cheating there are more signs than that unless the person is...

If you are a female, why are you so fascinated with this one position. No position feels good if you don't want to do it. Leave him alone about this. He doesn't want to do it. Move on. He...

I think loans are only to pay for higher education, meaning after the 12th grade. Because a GED is like being in high school I don't there is any help. Try a small loan or as last resort a credit...

Your money is not necessarily any of their business. If it was me, I would put things in my name, keeep my business separate, and not have joint accounts. Maintain your independence at all costs

This can mean a lot of things. Some women consider success as a way to find security. But most women in speaking about you as a couple mean something else. Women seek security in love as well. ...

Marrying love or money. Or in Toby Keith's words Next time I'm marrying for money even if she's ugly

You can tell her in private but just between the 2 of you. Chances are if she has a boyfriend she won't give you a positive answer but it will bring closure. Make it clear that you two can always...

You have a guy who likes to play games - not a boyfriend or a friend. Even a friend wouldn't treat you that bad! You are allowing behavior that your close friends would not dish out. You need to...