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His words and actions don't match. Cry later, handle your business, with the truth, and the fact. He needs to know you know the truth, and ain't happy at all.

Those are the facts, and anything...

Listen carefully, get your ducks in a row, get some financial advice from a divorce lawyer, so you can know all your rights, and as you form a plan of action, and survival, tell him his actions, and...

When things are in the open, they can be dealt with, and I think your right, he has a lot to correct within himself, if he is willing.

I think you keep your distance until its actually happening,...

Clearly its time to stop walking on eggshells and trying to be a better wife, and stand up for yourself even if that means someone sleeps on the couch. You have done your part and I think we are at...

Stop right there young lady. While I understand he, and you have been having problems, no way do you take such blatant disrespect for any reason over a simple gesture of love.

Time to tell him in...

The reason I have not addressed this cheating thing, is because there are NO facts, one way or the other. Not even for emotional cheating.

But your idea is logical, and thoughtful, as the timing...

Before you accuse and assume, back up, and get facts, as I think getting carried away with suspicions, will only have you driving a wedge between you. I think most guys who have had a lot of personal...

You need to be alert and get more facts, and never act on assumptions.

After 15 happy years, you have a storm brewing, to deal with.

I think you back up, and not take his vents, or rants personally, and do for yourself what you need to, that makes you happy, while he gets his own head together.

While he suffers, and you do...

What is his relationship to his father, and what kind of background was his family like? Does he have friends?

He sounds like a guy who needs some talking to by an older male.

He could use a "man-cave"!! Probably, so can you!

We vent, and RANT all the time around here. Glad you joined the party:D

Thank you for bringing more clarity to your situation.

I use to hate it when my wife waited up for me, but that was before I realized the depth of her concern.

I think that giving him space...

I feel your pain, and confusion. But I think all marriages go through this, so don't take it personally, but I wish I could give you a secret magic pill to get you through this.

Perhaps your...

Often we act out of fear. Act instead out of understanding he needs space. He is going through something, and whatever it is HE has to handle it. For the good of you both, he is the one to face his...

Listen and reassure him, but don't take it personally or think something needs to be fixed. He isn't going through the change, he is having a growth spurt, and questions everything about himself to...