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I think she's just a "bit" confused. There's nothing wrong in checking other guys out. I do it when in love maybe even more than when single. It's because I'm happy, I smile at everyone.

Why is he...

Just to say, thank you all so much, this site is great!

I know I let it all on him. That's how I've felt. I needed a place to vent. I'm just sometimes so mad at him. He's not meeting my...

I don't think he has crushes on them, he may just find them attractive as both men and women do look at other people of opposite sex when in a relationship. But he's not wise to tell you this. It'll...

Thank you talaniman and I wish. I know it's me. It's just hard to admit.
This is my first real serious relationship so I can't tell when it's time to move on, and how does it feel to know it's...

Please don't feel sorry for him. He'll promise you whatever he can to keep you to himself. That way you'll feel special and think he loves you so much and will change for you.
Wake up please, if you...

I don't know you at all but most probably, it's NOT your fault! Remember this please. It's his issue, he has a bad temper. You're healthy, normal and nothing's wrong with you. But you're into it to...

I'll say something different from the others. I'm a woman, but I was once that "man". I don't know about him, but I can swear to you while I was in a bad relationship and I found a male person who...

I've been with a similar man for two years. I agree with I wish, he'll always behave like that. I asked him to change his personality and he did try, but very little change was done. Now I've decided...

Trust in yourself first. Trust your instincts too, but think rational and don't feed your fears. Don't rush into anything and don't dwell on the past. Learn from it to form a better future for...

This is an intersting question. I would really like some more details if possible. You're talking about it too abstract. Thanks.
For now, I'll say they're a perfect match. Both of them are getting...

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Lately I've been having many issues with my boyfriend. Most of them turned out unresolved because of the lack of communication. I've always tried very hard to talk things out and...

I wouldn't trust him either. There's something wrong with him when telling you this so soon at the first place. Watch out for yourself, OK?

Oh people, that's his first girlfriend he's sleeping with. My current boyfriend told me the same thing about his first girlfriend. He couldn't penetrate her fully. He said the same things as the OP....

I'm truly sorry concerned11984. I didn't mean to sound negative, it's just hard not to get personal as I'm in a way in a similar situation right now. So sorry once again.

For us, women yes, as far...

I personaly think that thinking about the divorce before even getting married is not the most positive attitude to have. You're already looking for a way out. But I understand what you're saying.
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Yeah I know ohsohappy, I've already apologised for that there. I'm quite new here, it won't happen again.

talaniman, I want to forgive and work on this. BUT the only thing he sees as a problem now...

OK that's good. If you love her, respect her wishes, and try to understand that there are many things that may be causing her lack of sex drive. Talk with her. I understand it's very frustrating...

So when you get married you'll still be living in that house? Of course it'll get worse. You're dependent on her parents. They think you owe them control over you.
You don't sound ready to get...

Trust maybe? Check out my question just a few below yours.
She wants to marry you (love) first before sex, you want sex first before marriage. You don't want to marry her, she doesn't feel like...

Long story short. He broke a promise, the one he's already broken. He just forgot about it. What's behind the promise is not important for now.
However I can't trust him after that. It's been two...

Long story short. He broke a promise, the one he's already broken. He just forgot about it. What's behind the promise is not important for now.
However I can't trust him after that. It's been two...

Yes, very immature and tactless. If she stays with you after this, she's only doing it to make herself feel better, and hoping to get that feeling from you as you took it away from her, and she's...

I was in the same situation as your girlfriend more than once. If your girlfriend is pretty she'll attract other men but if you trust and love her, don't worry about that. If she respects and loves...

Thank you all for replying! I need to think about your comments and figure out which ones are true. As it's always hard to see the situation as it is when you're in it.

Sure, he could have a...

That's what I've told him exactly! Then he apologies and says he likes me the way I am, BUT... he's very visual and blah blah.
It's gotten to the point I'm feeling threatened by other girls. Not by...

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First of all, I'm pretty, there's nothing bad or wrong about the way I look, dress, do my hair or whatever. I used to be very self-confident until my boyfriend...

First of all, I'm not againts porn, I do watch it too. My boyfriend does it also. Problem for me is when he watches it right next to me, in my own bed, while I'm asleep. I've seen a dozen of times...