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    Definitely get out of this relationship. He is...

    Definitely get out of this relationship. He is controlling and probably very insecure himself and that is why he is trying to bring you down. Don't allow anyone to deliberately make you feel bad...
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    I do not think it's being shallow that you are...

    I do not think it's being shallow that you are not attracted to your wife 100 pounds heavier. 100 pounds is an excessive amount of weight that would drastically change the way your body on the whole...
  3. Question: Anger issues

    by mulattomama
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    Get her out on her own. Maybe then she'll...

    Get her out on her own. Maybe then she'll appreciate all you do. If you allow her to treat you that way and to live with you, how can you expect her to change?
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    My daughter never crawled. She kind of...

    My daughter never crawled. She kind of crab-walked/scooted. From there she went straight to walking. Some kids never crawl and some crawl later. Kids develop at different rates, but if you're...
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    Why not post videos of you rapping online - like...

    Why not post videos of you rapping online - like on You tube? And like the first reply said, just enjoy what you're doing and do it to the best of your ability. The fame may or may not come later so...
  6. Cheap or free marriage counseling in Chicago

    Does anyone know where to get cheap or free marriage counseling in Chicago? My husband and I are having a lot of problems in our marriage and we definitely need some professional help to work through...
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    She does not have to leave her husband. You offer...

    She does not have to leave her husband. You offer her the escape that she needs when she needs it. That probably enables her to handle everything else. She doesn't want to end her marriage and all...
  8. You know what you need to do and now you just...

    You know what you need to do and now you just need to take the leap and do it. Life may be scary at first and there are a lot of new things that will be on the horizon, but you are young and life is...
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    Ask yourself, if you met him today would you date...

    Ask yourself, if you met him today would you date him and be in a relationship with him with what you know now? I strongly suggest counseling for you and him, if he'll go. If nothing else, it may...
  10. Sometimes, I think we as women take on too much....

    Sometimes, I think we as women take on too much. With kids, jobs, and trying to keep it all together around the house. I have a 3 yr old and 20 month old. I've learned that it's not the end of the...
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    It sounds like it's a problem you'll need to...

    It sounds like it's a problem you'll need to confront him with. I agree with Jake2008 in that you need to look at your relationship and decide what you would want or feel should he be bisexual. Can...
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    To say this situation is scary is an...

    To say this situation is scary is an understatement. I definitely agree that these children all need to talk to counselors who specialize in talking to little kids about this kind of thing. I also...
  13. It's more for you and other family than for him...

    It's more for you and other family than for him now anyway. I just had a little gathering at my house with food and cake and lots of picture taking. You're building his memories by taking pictures so...
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    Make him wear a condom! There is no ands, ifs, or...

    Make him wear a condom! There is no ands, ifs, or buts on that. It's your health and your future that's in his hands every time you have unprotected sex.
  15. I am sad for you. It sounds like you are starting...

    I am sad for you. It sounds like you are starting to accept being gay yourself and that is the first step. Now I would look for a discreet support group or some friends that you can talk to about...
  16. Question: Std?

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    Definitely see a doctor. There are Planned...

    Definitely see a doctor. There are Planned Parenthood clinics all over that can help with free STD screenings if you don't have health insurance. Don't wait because it could be something dangerous.
  17. If you were completely Hetrosexual, you wouldn't...

    If you were completely Hetrosexual, you wouldn't have sex with other males. You wouldn't even be thinking like that. Perhaps you would benefit from some counseling to sort out your feelings about...
  18. I agree with JudyKeyTee. You definitely need to...

    I agree with JudyKeyTee. You definitely need to talk to them both about it. I would do it more calmly and casually so that they will be more open with you. Kids play doctor and are curious, but there...
  19. In Chicago: Has anyone used Hynosis for fears or weightloss?

    I'm located in Chicagoland and I'm wondering about any experience you may have had with using hypnosis for weightloss or to alleviate fears in your life. Any experiences would be appreciated as well...
  20. I agree with DoulaLC. I have a 3 yr old and an...

    I agree with DoulaLC. I have a 3 yr old and an 18-month old. Every kid goes through this stage. They're vocabulary is limited and since they can't say what they want - or don't want - they get...
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    Need 40th birthday ideas in Chicago!

    I'm turning 40 next month and I'm trying to think of something somewhat unusual to do for my birthday. Not really a party animal and I don't really go to clubs. I would be inviting between 20-25...
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    40th birthday celebration suggestions

    I live in Chicago and will turn 40 February of 2011. I want to do something fun and memorable. I've thought of taking a trip or just having some kind of party here. I'm looking for help for some...
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    Mazda CX9 passenger air bag

    We have a 2008 Mazda CX9. The passenger side airbag warning light is on and won't go off. According to the manual, the light means it's not functioning, but we don't know why. Any help would be...
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    What to do when someone dies in Illinois

    My father-in-law died recently and my husband is the exector of his estate. He had a living will and his assets were in a trust with my husband named. Aside from filing the will with the Cook County...
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    Real estate apprasier

    Do anyone know how to get into Real Estate Appraisal work once you're certified? I'm considering changing careers, but want to find out more about how difficult it is to get into a job in this career...
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    Becoming a group travel director or tour director...

    Becoming a group travel director or tour director is a good way to go to interesting places and stay at nice hotels. You basically are fully responsible for the group and dealing with the various...
  27. Termite company falsely claims no live activity

    We live in Chicago, IL. We bought our house in OCT '05 and received the termite inspection showing there was evidence of an old issue with subterrean termites in one area of our basement, but that...
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    Termite swarmers

    When we bought our home, we got the termite inspection from the seller and it said that there was evidence of history of termites in one portion of our home. The company they used for the inspection...
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    Lay off vs. Firing - At will State

    My company announced to the managers that they are planning to let people go. Each dept. had to come up with a plan of who it would be. I'm a manager so I had to do this for my dept. I asked if my...
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    I was hoping you would reply as I saw you...

    I was hoping you would reply as I saw you answered a lot of BF questions. So thanks!
    I should have explained that I'm giving birth at a local community hospital where I delivered my first 2 years...
  31. Company doesn't have a maternity policy. They...

    Company doesn't have a maternity policy. They only have FMLA policy. Basically if they take away FMLA I'm probably out of a job. Due to economy, company is trying not to lay off, but when people...
  32. FMLA - company now has less than 50 employees!

    I'm due to deliver a baby in July. My company now has less than 50 employees and I've heard rumors that they may not offer FMLA anymore because they no longer have to. Do I have any rights at all?...
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    Lactation consultation services

    Does anyone know of any lactation consultation services that are available either free of charge or for a nominal fee in the Chicagoland area? I am delivering my 2nd child in July and had such a hard...
  34. Overtime hours - unequal compensation time

    I am an exempt, salaried employee. My company is now requiring us to work a full day Saturday or Sunday in the office with only a 1/2 day given in comp time in exchange. Is this legal?
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