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Thanks 31pumpkin! It does look like it worked out for the better in regards to the pressure over marriage.. for now at least. He's currently pursuing other ways of getting back to Britain, but I...

Thank you so much for telling me your story asking4it! I truly appreciate your advice and I hold your experience it very high esteem!

Unfortunately my Boyfriend was deported about a week ago! I...

Fia I am no expert but it is not uncommon to feel incredibly nervous about things, but every situation is different... when do you feel nervous? What do you tend to be doing? Once you have considered...

Thanks fredg! I appreciate your advice!

I did talk to him and made sure that I didn't promise him things that I knew deep down that I could never followthrough with! We've had talks over the...

Idecook: he does assure me that he loves me whole heartedly and does want to marry me to be with me and not to gain citiznenship. He had always talked of marriage but I just assumed it was his...

Skinwhite I feel ashamed to admit it but after a little consideration I think you are right, maybe I do want it to "fizzle out" when he leaves to eliviate me of the responsibility of letting him down...

Skinwhite: He recognises that it would not be possible for us to get married all within this next month, especially as in England it is illegal to get married before 18. For this reason he thinks...

Everything went fine today at his hearing and so he is able to remain in Britain for at least another month so I suppose I have to tell him that I can't help him if things don't continue to go well...

talanimanno I am not prepared to stay at home and be subservient nor am I prepared to be a Muslim period. So I recognise that I do have to tell him I don't want to marry him as things are at the...

31pumpkin: I am in total awe of you... how you managed to come through such a terrible situation and stay positive! To be honest a few similarities between your situation and mine scare me, don't get...

Captainforest and NeedKarma I honestly do not know what to do and so am truly searching for advice I don't know the right path to take... I.m just really struggling and so resorted to asking about it...

NeedKarma Im sorry but I don't understand a word of what your trying to say! Could you possibly rephrase it?

talaniman: I do really want to be honest with him and let him know that I'm uncertain as to whether marriage is the best option for us. But I don't see how I can as his hearing is tomorrow [March 6]...

Skinwhite You say you are of a different culture to the one in which you live... has this affected your life and relationships in any negative way? Can I ask [if its not too personal] whether you...

SkinWhite; Just to clarify Muslim countries DO have some of the lowest divorce rates, I am not aware of the average age of marriage and so I cannot say that young Muslim marriages are the cause for...

Skinwhite: No I am not a Muslim but I do feel that this is a gross generalisation as I have many Muslim friends of which some are happily married and very much in love. However I think it could be...

Sorry I took another look at your post :

[QUOTE=snade17]"Everything that you say or do I'm hung up on you"[QUOTE]

I suppose that this means that "you can do anything and I will still like you"...

Hi welcome to the forum! :D
I don't understand your question/ what is it that you need me to do? What is your native language?

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I was just wondering whether anyone knew when the results for AS module one [2006] are out in Britain?:confused:

talaniman I have known my boyfriend for several years a long time before his immigration problems and so I don't think that he is "preying on me if that is what you are suggesting. I would not for...

NeedKarma thank you once again

talaniman he always wanted to marry me before the troubles with immigration, but it has only become a realistic option recently and so I don't think it is a scam as such. However, do you have any...

NeedKarmaI am really happy for you! Thank you for all of the great advice you have given me you have been a wonderful source of support!. but I daren't breach the subject with my parents

So NeedKarma have you ever been in love? [sorry if this is too personal] its just how do you know that that is love?
I do definitely feel overwhelmed by such a commitment at such a young age but...

NeedKarma You were right I am not pregnant. Thank you for your advice, but I just don't see how that is possible anymore. I mean I do go to school and get decent grades [right now I am doing my A...

NeedKarmaI have no intention of living within his culture and neither does he as his family rely upon him to suport them financially and keep thei heads above the poverty line.
He does have a job...

CaptainForest I am aware of polygny and we have discussed it, but it is something that he cannot justify and would not enter into.
talaniman can I ask why?

Need Karma: sorry I meant no pressure from him for me to convert from Christianity to Islam
CaptainForest I doubt very much that I would have the support of my parents and my boyfriend would really...

Thank you so much for your advice.
In response to your questions he is Muslim and I am not. Although he assures me that there will be no pressure from him to convert from Christianity to Islam,...

Sorry I didn't realise that my previous post had been trecieved please ignore this

Hi!
I am 16 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been together for 1 year. He is Asian and has recently experienced certain difficulties that have led to the involvement of the immigration department....

Hi
I'm really just looking for a bit of advice? My boyfriendand I have been together for a year but he is Asian and has had a little trouble with the immigration department recently and may be...