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Hi Talaniman,
How are you?
I guess not! I think its just plain love and how I still feel about him! Hes also going through a hard time and I just wanted to give him a bit of support, but at the...

Hello,
Thanks for your reply! He became illegal after a two yr relationship his visa expired, it's a long story I have wrote about it in my other thread on relationships! He contacted me last week...

Hello everyone,

This is an update! Well my ex contacted me again last Monday, saying "I'm a pitty and embarassed, but my brother is back in town to take over his fathers business and i had an...

You're right not good to dwell on the reasons. It hurt how he brought up the reasons again after such a long time he still feels strongly about it. Back then, I think I reacted that way to protect...

Women and some men need to rant to get to the bottom of the b... s..
And helps to evacuate the stress and eventually come to a decision!
It seems that you're annoyed at me for chatting with him...

Hi again!
I admire your strength of character!! I wish I could be happy and move on soon!! I've been awake allnight, I feel awful with a headache and dizzyiness! I just feel like I'm left hanging on...

Thank you! He said its just started with her recently and that he loves her and with all his soul! That she looks after him and she's helping him rebuild his life! The circumstances are so different...

Thanks but that doesn't make me feel better, now what !yeah that hurts but he had to tell me it was his revenge! He would have told me by email I didn't look to talk to him! I want to send an email...

Hello all its seville!:(
I 've just had a long chat on msn with my ex about everything that's happened and our past relationship and that he still loves me and I love him! He said I wasn't there for...

Hello all its seville!
I 've just had a long chat on msn with my ex about everything that's happened and our past relationship and that he still loves me and I love him! He said I wasn't there for...

Thanks! The guy texted me today saying he was "sorry for not calling me sooner and that he has been very busy with work.. (hes the boss of his own company) and that he'll get back to me when its...

You're right about that I have a sense of humor:p!! And laugh more about everything!! I also like to make things happen now as before I was more laid back and reserved!I keep telling myself we only...

Yes you're right I'll do nothing now and see if gets back to me, if not well it's a shame that I wasn't healed last year and lost out on a good thing!!
Thank you!:)

Lol!! The hairdresser guy contacted me and we met up, so I must be a challenge! Thanks for your opinion! I decided not to continue to see the hairdresser guy. He was too imature for me and he's only...

Hello,

I need some advice.. I knew this guy through a friend of mine for a few years now. He was friends with her husband and he had a girlfriend at the time who he was with for 10yrs! I liked him...

Hello,
I know how you feel, I am sort of in the same situation as you, except the guy has a boyfriend but said as soon as he finds someone else he will break up with him.He wants to have children....

Hello Kitkat,

How I'm being used? With this guy we're just going to go to the movies.
I didn't see him the weekend and when I do I'm going to make it clear that I just want to be friends!! It was...

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Hello,
Yes I kind of get too carried away, if you read the post below that I wrote to kaka, it explains why it lead to that!
I've got to be more realistic when it comes to meeting new...

Hi KaKa67!

Not really I think it was the fact that we had few drinks more than what we should have had on a first date!! I was enjoying myself and didn't want the moment to end,which I guess...

Yes I know!! I didn't really rush in to anything, it was just for a drink!! How can I stay on my own forever its been over a year how much more time is it going to take?
Well for the moment I don't...

Hi you!
Yes, I know what you're saying but my impulsions gets the better of me thinking its going to work out and it will be good with this guy. I guess it was infactuaction and disire but not...

Hello to all!

Well I went to meet this hairdresser guy! We had a good night!
The only thing was I didn't realize how much smaller he was than me as when he was doing my hair I was sitting down of...

Hi Kit,
Thanks a lot for praying for me and for your kind wishes and blessings!!
I had a good laugh about crossing your eyes! lol..! :p
May life treat you well too!!
I will keep you posted......

Hi Justlooking and Co.

Hope your project went well!
Well things seem to be getting a bit better:)
Today I had a missed call from the hairdresser guy!
He left a message saying that he only got...

I won't dwell that's for sure!That does happen sometimes that someone falls for someone they've just met 'love at first sight'! It just seemed like a mutual feeling, so many signals but I was...

Hello !
Well its been over week and the guy didn't get back to me!! Either he didn't get the note or he's gay! But even so, I have some gay friends and go for drinks with them just as friends so I...

Good! I'm glad you think it was a good idea! I don't feel comfortable going back to the receptionist, there's different people and different shifts so may not see the same person!I don't wan't to...

Yes you are right! I will take your advice with eyes wide open!
Thanks!:)

It was a good feeling maybe not in love feelings just lust and attraction! I won't jump in to anything just friends!! That is, if he got the note and calls!
You can be lonely and want to meet...

Hello,
Thanks for your response. It will be difficult to call because its an office where they book reservations not at the salon, so he is never there so wouldn't be able to speak with him...

Hello,
I'm sorry to hear about your past relationships. If you still feel miserable maybe seek counselling until you feel better! Then everything will come together like puzzle and you will feel...

Hi you!
Thanks for your e-mail! My ex sent me a short email 2days ago, saying "you look nice on your fb profile photo"! I haven't yet replied but was going to just send back "thanks";)!
Don't know...

Hi Talaniman,

I can't help taking a peek every now and again! Its still very hard to stay no conatct!! I didn't talk to him yet on msn!
Its kind of making me sick he's still in my thoughts...

Hi Justlooking,

Thank you very much for those links, its reassuring to know you were on these lines.
I haven't yet applied I'm working on my letter and making sure its OK before I send it but...

Hi,
Thanks for your reply! Is 31 young to work on a cruise? I'm single. I want to meet new people, especially travelling the world and combining that with working with children and gain experience!...

Hello,
Thank you for your great advice! Yes it is a redflag having to buy the book and replying so soon. I was applying to groups, concessioneries, that put me in contact with the cruise! I read...

Hi Justlooking,

Sorry to bother you again! I'm a bit confused!
I got a reply for a job for the cruise ship from an employment group. They said my resume was positive for them and that I was on...

Hello,

I've applied to work on a cruise liner as beauty receptionist. I was wondering what is life like on a cruise? The contrat will be 3months in the caribean, and 3months in the meditaraen!...

Hi Justlooking!

Thank for your quick reply!:)
Well that was good going how you met your guy, it seemed to be perfect timing for you! That's great! I said in my last post doing various activities...

Hi Justlooking,

I'm glad you are feeling better! How did you meet your actual boyfriend? How could you trust another guy after what happened with the last guy? I find it very hard to trust guys,...

Hi Justlooking,

Thank you for your time and advice I have done some of the things you advised me and hope to do more this week!! :)
I would like to say I am very sorry for your loss and I send...

Hello Justlooking,

I wish I could figure out what I want to do, today I feel completely helpless. When I wake up I just want to roll over and go back to sleep. I can't face reality.Things doesn't...

Jazzyshoes,
Thank you for your post, I was feeling low again but by reading your post it lifted my spirits! :) It does make sense if he is the one for me eventually it will happen!!

Thanks again!

Hi, I have no idea where I want to be or where I will be even in 1 year! Help:eek: Every time I try to do something in my life it backfires... I will have more ideas in a few months maybe of what I...

Hi!
Thanks for your advice, you made very good points and I am greatfull. I know I need to focus more on my likes and dislikes in every area of my life. I have hobbies that keep me busy and it is my...

Hello Homegirl! Thanks for your post!

I'm trying my hardest to throw them it, I need a bit more time!
I know the past is the past, but why didn't I see it coming? That's part of life!! I wish I...

Hello Justlooking! Hope you had a very good weekend!

I reread Talaimans post and it is sinking in I do realise that its about men because I was looking for love in a man that I lacked from my...

Hello Home girl!

Nice way of describing the way things have turned out. Yes those shoes are very mouldy, but they're getting polished at the moment before I throw them out.:)
It has been a year...

Thank you for your kind words of advice! I know its true about the hole I have in my soul which could have healed if I hadn't spent 3yrs and more with my ex who destroyed myself confidence, but I...

Thanks for your advice! Its been over a year I'm still not over him. When will the day come that I will wake up and not think about him? I still miss him and would love to see him again! Maybe I...