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Nothing really changed per say. We just started having more personal/in depth conversations. We hung out a few times outside of work, then he started inviting me over, then hanging out at his house...

He does know about my father, I think that is one of the main reasons he talked to me about his struggles. He knows how highly I think of my dad and that I have experience with this. I'm not so...

I have been "dating" a man for the last couple months. I put dating in quotes because he wants to keep us as friends with benefits, but from day one I have not felt like this is that sort of...

I know all of this information about him already. He is 35. His marriage ended due to unhappiness on both their parts. They had been together since the first day of college and they both had changed....

Yes. My dad has Asperger's syndrome, and I'm pretty sure I have a more mild form of it. But regardless, it's how I was raised. My parents never showed love or affection for each other. I've still to...

So I shouldn't try to change even if it's better for myself? The way that I live right now with no intimacy and no affection makes me miserable. I can't even sleep in the same bed with someone...

Yes, I do want to change for him. But not only for him. I have wanted to change for a long time, even before I met him. And while I truly do appreciate the advice, I know I'm more than just a booty...

Problem is I want to change. Not just for him, but for myself. I want to want affection and intimacy, but those things have always made me uncomfortable. That's the main reason I have never been able...

So do I just keep things exactly how they are? Or should I attempt to behave slightly different if I want something more in the future? I actually have a lot of issues with affection and intimacy. I...

No, it really has nothing to do with past relationships or experiences. It is just the way I have always felt or at least as far back as I can remember (junior high). I get bored in relationships...

The other women don't bother me at all. I personally do not believe in monogamy and would much prefer an open relationship if I am with someone. I'm actually fully open to even a swinger...

So this might be kind of long, and I apologize for that. Basically I'm trying to figure out if my friend with benefits has feelings for me without asking and messing up the situation that we...

Thanks for your answers. It actually turned out not to be an issue because by the time he went to bed tonight, he seemed to be feeling a lot better.

My son is supposed to go out of state via plane on Thursday morning for a family visit with my ex. I have approved this vacation and have no problem with him going. (It took me awhile to be okay...

I don't live there. But all of his family have their papers in California for medical marijuana. A few of his family members even work at medical marijuana dispenseries there.

Marijuana is not illegal. I was not trying to be sexist, I have a little boy and I know that the maturity of a 9 year old little boy is not enough to care for a one month old baby. I also did not...

I understand that. It it were little girls that were watching him I would feel much more comfortable, but the oldest little girl is only 4 years old. There are only a few "older kids" and they are...

As soon as I posted the last question, the responses started showing up. Thanks for your input. This whole custody thing is just not fun. I understand what you are saying about it being okay for...

I don't know why but it is showing that I have two answers to my question. But I am unable to view the answers. I don't know why this is.

My ex will be taking our son out of state for the first time to visit his family. I am scared about his upcoming trip, but I am starting to get past my fears. The only thing that I am really hung...

We don't have equal rights right now though, he still has not gotten his parentage established in the court system. So I as far as I know I have all rights to him until he becomes "legally" his...

Sorry for opening a new thread, in the past when I have written new information on an old thread of mine they asked for it to be separated and so I just figured I'd do that again.

As for me...

I have written on this topic before, but feel the need to do it again. If anyone has read my previous questions, they will know the back story. For anyone that has not here is a short and sweet...

I think he is just doing this so he doesn't have to pay child support though. Also he doesn't live near me. He lives over an hour away, which is why I don't thing joint residence would work. So it...

Here is an update on the situation:

We still are in the process of trying to figure out custody since he has taken so long to formally submit his answer to my proposal for custody. He is not...

I don't know how. The ball is technically in his court right now with that case, since he has to present the parenting plan to the judge to get his parenting rights. But, he refuses to do this,...

Well right now without the custody arrangements he does have to return him to me. Neither of us realized this at the time but apparently since he has not established his parentage through the court...

Would it be normal for someone in my situation to be granted primary physical custody? I own my own home, which our son has lived in since birth, and I have always been the primary care taker of our...

With physical custody I would be entitled to child support, correct? I ask because I have always paid a majority of the bills but now with everything on me, I am starting to get a little short on...

I have some questions regarding custody and child support.

My ex-fiance (never married) and I broke up after he got arrested for domestic violence. He did not get convicted of this but I did...

I just had another thought. Pretty much a bribe was brought up earlier so I was wondering if I would be able to put in my will to give him a certain percent of my estate if he maintains residence...

Yeah I understand that it is pretty much a lost cause. His siblings would not testify against his parents. Even though they grew up that way they are still close to their parents. They have a...

Thank you for your answers.

I just want to make sure my child is well taken care of. And I know my parents (aside from me) are the only family members he has that would be able to or even want to...

What if he is still a baby? Will he still get his own lawyer? Or would the two families be fighting against each other?

Thanks for all your help. Now what if both of us die at the same time and he doesn't have a will? Would my son be able to go to my parents if that were the situation?

I apologize, I wasn't trying to argue with any legal advice. I felt like I was being told that my thoughts and feelings about his family were wrong and I'm sorry but that is the way I feel. I just...

Well then I guess my question now is if I try to get full custody and I die, is there any way to protect against this not happening? If I do get custody, will my he still get custody back if I die...

Okay... back story on why my dad is loaning money is because his name is also on the home loan. I am named first on it and my father is second. So if the house goes unpaid the bad credit will fall...

Thank you for your advice. I am not at all in the legal field obviously,so you will have to work with me. What is a substantial bequest? And I will definitely have a prenup if we do end up getting...

Haha... PWT... If not paying for anything, ever is putting me through school, then I'm amazed. And how can you say he can't take my child? Last time I checked it's called kidnapping. He has...

Of course I dread it, his parents are horrible to me and my child. They help out with their other adult children who also have kids out of wedlock, they paid the 20% down payment on his brothers...

I am wondering how the legal system works with the custody thing in wills. I am single, but engaged right now (don't think it will work out though). My fiancé and I have a son together. I pay for...

The thing is he is not buying things he needs. He feels that a credit card should be used on things you can't afford. So he buys things and doesn't make payments on his card, or if he does they are...

He does help me out with the house payments. And we also have a child together. I want to be with him, I just want him to realize that what he is doing is just plain stupid.

I just need to know how to talk to him so that I am not putting his family down. He can get very offended, very quickly. For instance, if I say his mother said something nice to me, he will come...

I completely understand what you are saying. The only debt I have is one card with 0% interest for x amount of months that doesn't have to be paid off till June of 2012 (and I only have $80 left to...

I don't know if I should be asking this here or the financial section of this site, but regardless I need help.

My fiancé has always had some issues with credit cards. He would rack up a bill...

Stress probably does have a lot to do with it. I did try to go to the doctor but she said that she can't really get any tests ordered because my insurance won't pay because overall I have gained...

I had a question about losing weight after weaning. After having my baby I barely lost any weight. I attempted to diet as much as I could while I was breastfeeding but could not lose any weight. ...

Thank you for your advice Talaniman. But just to let you know, I am a woman, and it is him that cheated on me. So I think you meant I can't walk away from my baby daddy. Lol!