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Yeah very true, thanks guys for everything... last night was interesting... had sex with an ex I was with before this one... WOW WAS IT GREAT! LOL

Yous guys silence answers the question LOL

OK gUYS, I PROMISE THIS IS MY LAST POST.


I checked the voicemail on my house phone, and I left a lot of cds over her apt, so she wanted to know if I wanted to come get them, or have her mail...

Thanks SAB123 and J-9 and all others for your help during this difficult time

Man I want to call her back to see what she wanted those 5 missed calls... Gotta stay strong

So remember whern I told you guys I changed my number, and that I haven't heard from her since Wednesday. Sometimes you just know folks like the back of your hand... she called my house phone from...

My ex changed her number because of me giving her mixed signals, and now she is calling me a lot restricted or from her house phone or job phone, although I haven't heard from her since Wedensday......

So SAB, I think u said it before, but whens the last time u heard from your ex?>

Yes I have been the dumper quite a few times, and I STILL had strong urges to contact my ex when I did that

And glinda would u say this as far as the dumper as well? Ivfe been on both sides

Glinda, would you say the first 30 days are the hardest if you're the dumper as well? Lol

It seems like the longer u don't contact the harder it is to resist the urge, although it SHOULD be the longer u don't contact, the easier it gets. Maybe its just the first few weeks its like that

Day 6 of no contact... Man do those waves of emotion kill you, lol... sometimes you don't care about the person, then you miss them, then you don't care... its like a wave that occuirs, but I assume...

Anyone going through a break up, I SUGGEST you download erykah badu "Green Eyes"... The song, if you are capable of digging deep, you see there are three parts:
Denial , Acknowledgement, Re-Lapse
...

By the way, this was the father that left the inheritance... funny, my brother still has all of his... and he tried to get me to give it to him to invest and watch it. He is 33. I am 27

Wow, thanks for that Chuck. I was beginning to be that depressed drunk, even my close friends were scared of being around me. They said I've changed that now I'm just drinking I'm becoming more...

Yeah very true, I'll end up drunk dialing and it hasn't been successful. I guess when ureally loved someone and cared for them, ALTHOUGH it wasn't reciprocated back, it hurts and bites like a...

Yeah J-9 I'm starting to think you are right. I wish I did not put someone the center of my universe. Ive been in counseling since November 2006 and to no avail. I'm drinking like crazy and its just...

Well Cherry... IF SHE wastnt OBSESSED, she Wouldn't GET CALLING MY PHONE, ESPECIALLY AFTER GETTING HER NUMBER CHANGED.. . you don't think she is OBSESSED? Why else would you do it other than just...

Ahh feels so good to have my phone number changed... feels so free. I hope she is just panicking, not that I care, but the things she did to me, I wonder when she realizes she's been CUT OFF like she...

Biggest sinners are the loudest about church LOL

I know all the things she did to me, as yes my number is changed, and I know all the things I did to her. But sh must care, why else on earth would you invitie someone to church, church on top of all...

She has my house number J-9

I know I don't care what she thinks or how she feels, I was just wanting to knoe for myself... makes no sense I know

Now one last question guys do you think if I FINALLY not answer the phone tonight when she calls, she will panic, or get angry given the details I mentioned earlier in this thread?

Thank you I really appreciated that

To minister to people and help people

LOL @ talaniman

I think she is Confused. Part of her wants out, part of her wants in is what it seems. Its like she has to know almost everyuday what's going on with me... She is VERY VERY...

No she does have a job she is a manager, she is on vacation this week. That I know for a fact, I use to come to her job to take her to lunch a lot

I almost lost my mind. Last night she calls (I know you guys are tired of this thread by now)

Last night she calls, and kept calling until I picked up. So I pick up and she says how wonderful...

... and yes I'm going to change it

If I didn't want to let someone go, I wouldn't change my number lol. Now if I change MY number, she will be REALLY screwed

Thanks for the post, and yes I will, ii don't know why she just doesn't get out my life.

Doesn't make any type of sense, and I know its not suppose to. You change your number because of me, but want me to go to a church service tonight. Maybe she is second guessing her changing the phone...

Yeah I was thinking that too... Now its gaps in between days that she calls

Well this religiion she just started over the last month

You know kp. Its starting to make sense, and I am changing my number today. I have been drinking all week and she said part of the problem was I began drinking too much recently. Well she calls from...

Thank you ALL for your Wonderful comments, and I will make sure I apply and learn from All of them

Yeah I'm not calling her back at all. Even IF she calls to give the new number on my voicemail. Thanks for the advice. And she did say on the voicemail "sorry for calling this weekend, dont think i...

Well I can't call lol she changed her number. She called restricted

Ok, she just left a message on my voicemail saying "Please dont think I was trying to use you this weekend...Its just been really hard us not being together, and I felt you were treating me...

I know she's irrational. What kind of attention can you expect someone to give you by changing your number?

True

Thanks for that advice. That is interesting, she wouldn't seem the type to go THAT far, but then again, nowadays you never know

That's what my mom said. She changes her number, tells all her friends, family etc, it was because of me. You go hrough all 80 of your contacts in your phone to tell them, and THEN you call me 3 days...

You know, remember when I told you all I knew eventually she would call. Well I kept getting call "restricted" all night at like 2am Saturday night. So finally I answered as it couldve been anybody,...

Lol true... we'll see how this weekend goes... She works with my cousin, just them 2 at one store... should be interesting. I'm just going to tell her not to bring my ex up

Yeah guys do... But no matter, how much fun you have, no matter how much time u occupy, you are STILL going to go through process, and it STILL will be hard

Thank you both for the compliment I will... WOW I'm shocked I haven't heard from her. VERY interesting . You just have to know the dynamics of this relationship. Well I mean, its only been 2 days,...

See that's whay I'm thinking about dating someone else. Because although it may7 be a rebound, by the time that ends... if it does... she will be WAY out my memory. Ort even casual fling sex. Because...