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    Sending flowers won't hurt his cause either....

    Sending flowers won't hurt his cause either. Again if she doesn't come back it will be because she didn't want to in the first place not because he sent flowers.
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    The emotional support here is not awesome. My...

    The emotional support here is not awesome. My worst enemies exist on this site! I have not gotten anything positive out of this place. I don't really believe anyone here is sincere about helping...
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    Don't listen to anything skell says. His only...

    Don't listen to anything skell says. His only agenda is to kick me around when I'm already down. That's how he makes himself look better in the eyes of other posters!
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    I will do what the hell I want to do on this...

    I will do what the hell I want to do on this website. You are not in a position to tell me to leave this site! As long as I have access to this site from any computer I will stop at nothing to help...
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    Yes send the flowers. You have nothing to lose!...

    Yes send the flowers. You have nothing to lose! If she does not come back it will be because she didn't want to in the first place not because you sent her flowers.

    Sending her flowers will...
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    Pastors are not going to get one dime of my hard...

    Pastors are not going to get one dime of my hard earned money. NEVER!
  7. You're probably just a fat slob sitting in front...

    You're probably just a fat slob sitting in front of a computer screen all day. Bet this is the only place where you have any friends. Once again your intentions for posting here are self serving.
  8. Oh it matters all right because the dumper is not...

    Oh it matters all right because the dumper is not the one trying to make sense of what happened. The dumper does not go through a grieveing process.
  9. Here we go again. We have one of these s who try...

    Here we go again. We have one of these s who try to force hardcore NC down people's throats! If you want help for how you can get your ex back go to LoveShack.org: Interpersonal Relationship Advice...
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    No it's not true. Water baptism does not save...

    No it's not true. Water baptism does not save anybody. All water baptism is is an outward symbol of what happens inwardly when you trusted Christ as your Savior. It's symbolic of the old man dying,...
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    Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is more than just...

    Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is more than just saying "f the holy spirit" or cussing at him. I think it's a continual rejection of the Spirit's testimony concerning who Jesus is and what He came to...
  12. Were these breakups mutual? Or who dumped who?

    Were these breakups mutual? Or who dumped who?
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    I have an addiction to blasphemy. I say God...

    I have an addiction to blasphemy. I say God damnit when I'm pissed or when I hit my thumb with a hammer.
  14. NC will not work to get your ex back if the...

    NC will not work to get your ex back if the reason she broke up with you was because you hardly ever paid attention to her in the first place while in the relationship.

    If you were not giving...
  15. I already suspected that your beliefs were of the...

    I already suspected that your beliefs were of the john macarthur brand. I've read some of his book's before. You must be reading out of the Macarthur study bible.
  16. To those who say that true believers don't sin...

    To those who say that true believers don't sin habitually my question is this: Where do we draw the line as to what constitutes habitual sin? Which one of us is qualified to make that judgement?

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    Blame it on the rough patch?? Hmmm. My ex blamed...

    Blame it on the rough patch?? Hmmm. My ex blamed our breakup on her rough patch. She lost both her father and her grandmother last year. But when I think about it aren't rough patches supposed to be...
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    What I don't understand is why would you want to...

    What I don't understand is why would you want to marry him if you are not happy with the relationship in the 1st place? Do you honestly think that getting married to him is going to solve all of the...
  19. But is possible for a born again believer to...

    But is possible for a born again believer to commit a sin and not have time to repent of it because he dies of a heart attack or car accident the next second?

    What if I get angry at someone on...
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    So is God going to put a curse on my finances if...

    So is God going to put a curse on my finances if I don't give money to the church? I don't have any desire to give to an organization.
  21. What is salvation? Salvation means being...

    What is salvation? Salvation means being delivered from something. What are born again believers delivered from? The wages of sin. What is the wages of sin? Death. Once a person has exercised faith...
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    If the bible is taught in public school then...

    If the bible is taught in public school then other religions would need to be taught as well. We would have to bring in religious literature from buddism, islam, mormon, quarn, etc. I don't think any...
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    I think your boyfriend is at a point now where he...

    I think your boyfriend is at a point now where he is taking the relationship for granted. This is very common to happen after 2 years going steady. He's in his comfort zone. What other red flags do...
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    Here's a wealth of information on this subject: ...

    Here's a wealth of information on this subject:

    Hell: Eternal Torment or Annihilation
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    I have more to say on the subject of public...

    I have more to say on the subject of public prayer but I'll start a new thread for that.
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    That still does not make it appropriate to teach...

    That still does not make it appropriate to teach the bible in a government institution even as an elective.

    Captive audience prayer in school should be illegal too. Jesus said that prayer is a...
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    Absolutely not. Public school is not the place to...

    Absolutely not. Public school is not the place to have a bible course not even as an elective. It's the responsibility of christian parents to teach their children the bible at home not a government...
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    Does Chris Hanson from dateline interview...

    Does Chris Hanson from dateline interview perpitraitors of cyber bullying and expose them on national TV?

    You all know Chris Hanson right? He's a correspondent with dateline NBC. He is on "to...
  29. I agree with the article for the most part. This...

    I agree with the article for the most part. This is why I say that men need to wait 7 to 11 days to call a woman after getting her phone number. Make the date 5-8 days out. Wait 7-11 days again to...
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    What do I say? No spouses or exes lurking in the...

    What do I say? No spouses or exes lurking in the background when you pursue a date with someone!

    I think it should be against the law to talk to a married person of the opposite sex. It should...
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    Because she is using you as an emotional safety...

    Because she is using you as an emotional safety net. In a few months or so she won't need to contact you because she will have gotten enough emotional support from you to detach completely.
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    Interest level does not drop overnight. So the...

    Interest level does not drop overnight. So the answer is no a woman does not switch positions in 24 hours. Although it may seem that way to most men. Why? Because many men fail to pick up on the...
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    Well that's a good sign then that she's...

    Well that's a good sign then that she's questioning whether a permanent breakup was the right decision. Sounds like you are playing your cards right. Keep up the good work. Hopefully in time she'll...
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    My ex flirts with me too. She's gone so far to...

    My ex flirts with me too. She's gone so far to volunteer information about pain in personal parts of her body & about her menstrual cycle. Seems kind of odd that she would still talk to me about that...
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    It's still not safe for him to make the first...

    It's still not safe for him to make the first move. He runs the risk of being set back to square one in the healing process. He cannot afford to risk undoing all the progress he's made. He shouldn't...
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    Well here's my take on where to proceed from...

    Well here's my take on where to proceed from here. If you really love her and want her back then set a marker or deadline in your mind. Maybe give her 1 month to swallow her pride and say what she...
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    Maybe this link from loveshack will give you an...

    Maybe this link from loveshack will give you an idea of what is going on. This is advice from a female dumper who now regrets what she did and wants her ex back. It's worth the read. I don't...
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    Sounds like me and my ex. We argued a lot in our...

    Sounds like me and my ex. We argued a lot in our relationship and that was a major factor in why she kept breaking up with me. She is prone to have seziures and she can't get too stressed.

    I...
  39. Question: Should I wait?

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    But as far as your contact with him is concerned...

    But as far as your contact with him is concerned I don't think you should totally ignore him but I do think you should take your time replying to any contact he initiates with you. Don't answer all...
  40. Question: Should I wait?

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    You miss him more when you are dating other guys...

    You miss him more when you are dating other guys because you still have strong feelings for him. This is why I don't believe that getting under someone else is the best way to get over someone. I...
  41. Usually when exes call you to brag about how...

    Usually when exes call you to brag about how great their lives are it's usually because they are torn up inside. So don't believe it. That was a stupid move on his part and it backfired on him. He...
  42. This forum is not a general consensus of how...

    This forum is not a general consensus of how relationships work. I'm sure exes do get back together but they are so busy being happy that they are back they don't have time or even think of coming...
  43. I believe dumpers do think about you more when...

    I believe dumpers do think about you more when you are not lingering around in contact. Some dumpers may put on a phony act faking like they are OK and never think about you.

    They do such a...
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    You can also go to Doc Love...

    You can also go to Doc Love to find out what women really want. Doc Love (thomas hodges) is a dating coach who has interviewed 10,000 women for over 35 years and he knows what they really want.
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    If you are married then cuddle and hold your wife...

    If you are married then cuddle and hold your wife for 15 minutes every night before you go to bed. Give her a kiss goodnight, a kiss good morning, & a kiss when you walk in the door from work. Women...
  46. I think the only time dumpers hurt and go through...

    I think the only time dumpers hurt and go through a grieveing process is if the dumpee hurt them in a major way such as cheating or abuse. So only in cases of dumping out of necessity will that...
  47. I haven't had time to read all the replies but...

    I haven't had time to read all the replies but here's my 2 sense. She has asked to come back? Well I think you are doing the right thing by telling her that you need time to think about it. Wait a...
  48. I still think he should cut to the chase once he...

    I still think he should cut to the chase once he makes contact with her regardless of how long it's been since the breakup. I don't care if it has been 30 years. I think it's rather inconsiderate for...
  49. Also don't be surprised if she says she needs...

    Also don't be surprised if she says she needs time to think about it. She may want to stay apart for another 5 years. Do you want her back enough to wait for her?
  50. Since you were the dumper I think it is your job...

    Since you were the dumper I think it is your job to swallow your pride, track her down, and pound on her front door saying "I made the biggest mistake of my life leaving you. I'm sorry. I want you...
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