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Thanks for the input guys..
It'd be good if I had a few more opinions from anyone?
The thing that concerns me is that your eyes tend to get bloodshot when you're smoking, and since the operation...

I just had a chalazion operation done on my lower eye lid, and my doctor said to avoid smoking for the next few days. I'm willing to wait 2-3 days as my doctor suggested but I'm more worried about...

I'd say there's nothing wrong with it... but to be honest - if she's "a catch" I doubt it would do you any good.. i.e you might come off as a bit desperate :/
I'd say keep the highschoolness going...

Dude... you shouldn't categorise this girl in her own league because she's attractive..
Sure, it's harder to attract a girl that's very attractive when you're out there and "back in the game".. but...

I've met so many girls that look older and act older.. and I wish I could roll back the years or make them grow older - but you can't do either of the two.. so you let it be.
Legal issues aside, I...

By being together but not "together" you're basically accepting her as a friend.. Atleast that's what it is.. If you're hanging out together doing everything a boyfriend and girlfriend do except the...

It seems like you know what you're doing - and you're very right so far..
It's going to suck badly - and you'll have moments of weakness.. but that's what these forums are for.. You should be proud...

I'm not asian but I've got a couple of caucasian (girl friends) who can't stop drooling over asian men.. if that helps at all :D

Obviously race doesn't matter but it just goes to show that some...

I'm much younger than you and I've had partners with low sex drive - which was quite worrying since they were in their early 20's.. You said you've had sex 7-8 times in the past year which must've...

Making something for him will be much more valued than any gift money can buy

I've found that during most relationships it all lies within the foundations of those relationships. What I mean is that if at some point he was possesive it gave her the same "right". Chihuahuamomma...

.. well if you can't be honest, you could invite 2 of your most attractive female friends, the endulge in a passionate night, and then spring it on him.
If only that method of breaking up could've...

.. I'm sorry but being on these forums long enough has taught me that this only happens in the movies.. or a very fortunage 0.01% of the developed world.
You justify his homework excuse - ill buy it...

I talked to a girl online, casually on and off for a good 5 years.. we played tug of war in the "finaly meeting up" category.. we finally did, fell in love, then broke up.
The other 2000 girls I've...

Uni or starting a new school is an exciting experience for anyone.. that being said - unless your boyfriend is a super genius in an elite school where homework is enforced every day of the minute, I...

I only went out with my ex for 9 months.. I went NC for 6 months.. broke it a few weeks ago to find out she's not that happy at all with her life (in the meantime I had the summer of my life).. I...

If I hadn't been dumped I wouldn'tve gone to three radiohead gigs in the space of 10 days, as well as rock werchter (4 day festival in belgium).. Best summer of my life :D

One thing is for sure, let go of the ex... she's stringing you along.
The ex's always remember they love you when they see you moving on from them.
The second you let go of the new girl, and you...

I've had two bad break ups in my short lifetime(im 23)..
My first break up was pretty bad.. even after we broke up-I would see her quite frequently and I never quite got over her for about 3...

Sorry but I didn't notice a question in there..
I looked at your previous posts.. and its just a string of problems.. You clearly don't trust him.. and with reason (refering to the above most...

Went out for under a year, broke up and I went NC for 6 months, we rarely/randomly talk online once in a while... I'm still single and whoring myself about when I can :] I'd like to invest in a...

I know this isn't what you want to hear but I doubt any concerned parent would approve of this sort of relationship.. You're still young and there are lots of guys out there your age that your mom...

Some optimistic guys would see it as a blessing in disguise...
If it bothers you and she clearly has no intent of stopping her habits since you've already tried reasoning with her, then I'd give...

I pretended I didn't know her
And so did she.
So *clap clap* for our maturity level :]
If anything though I didn't expect her to come talking to me, I haven't replied to her msn messages she would...

I come from a comfortable family economically.
I have a younger brother and a younger sister, and from as young as 6 years old we've been in private schools(as opposed to free government...

Lol...
4 years of blue balls would definitely suck...
He's probably dead by now.
NO ONE HAS HELPED HIM!

Ill private message my myspace/youtube ;p

Big, I didn't mean her head were in the clouds due to the songs glorifying her, because they don't.. It's just I heard through a mutual friend that she heard about a few of them and she felt somewhat...

Lynx, its hard but you have to keep it...
I went NC on my ex out of the blue.. and every so often she would send me a message... by the end of the first two weeks she was saying "I know you're...

Being friends is almost impossible if you still care about her...
It takes huge self sacrifice to be able to put yourself through that.. Ask yourself how you would react if one day, as "your...

It hurts when you "mess around" but no ejaculation occurs..
You get "blue balls" , basically your testicles swell up and until you ejaculate it makes it very difficult to generally walk.. So unless...

I hope you mean its cruel to myself, revisiting those old feelings.. I don't see how it could be cruel to her - from what I gathered she couldn't care less what I'm up too, but I don't blame her -...

Nice to see you all again.. :]
Haven't posted in a while.. been busy as such traveling around...
For those who remember me, It's been about 5 months since we broke up, 4 months of NC..
I hadn't...

UK, nottingham here..

I think I want to talk to her about this.. not about us.. just about what its come too...
There's no point I know but it just saddens me

65 days of nc.. I think I'm losing it
I really miss her lately I dno what to do..

Chihua is right..
How long were the two of you going out for?

It's not really a break if every time he calls you or wants to talk to you- you are there..
How is he supposed to miss you if every time he makes contact you are like an eager puppy waiting to be...

daysgoneby and jj240 in this case.
I've gone through smaller scale break ups - of a year and a half and just under a year.
How long you spend with someone is obviously important, so I can only...

Big, I missed last nights episodes.. but I've been there too - under the first month, saw Facebook pictures uploaded from when she was in london(where I got dumped), she was with some guy all the...

Well.. you should ask yourself, what will come out of contacting him?
If anything you'll be happy to hear his voice for about.. TEN SECONDS.. and then reality will kick in, and he might give you a...

I always window shop-it's quite innocent really.. I just value an attractive woman, doesn't mean I would trade my (current)ex for whatever.. actually I probably would now that I'm single :P but...

cant give you a greenie bigbird, site won't let me - but I agree! :]

To be brutally honest with you - I'm against going out with my friends AND my girlfriend(no matter how much I love her).. Sure,...

I wouldn't say you messed up... if you let her be the second she requested a break, she might have seen it as "you dont care enough".. So you pestered her a little bit - now she knows you care - now...

Basic translation to what ka111 said is: women are crazy.
For the other readers on the thread :]

Simfono me ton ka1111 :]
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I agree with tal.. it's like you're dragging a dead corpse along with you that you won't let go of.. It's only bringing you more pain and sorrow - just bury it and walk...

You bailed on her - she moved on.. good for her.
She was immature for requesting her gifts back - you let that get to you.
She's made herself unavailable to you and it would make sense for you to...

Good luck man keep us updated

jammyb, I get the contact here and there.. and trust me - her contacting me doesn't mean she cares. It's probably her trying to drown her guilt in some way - I don't know.. I could do without the...

You were going out with this girl for 2 weeks and she already put in enough drama into the relationship to make it painful to you in someway...
Be careful with what you wish for, cause I don't...