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In my experience? None. But I'm bitter. I'd say wait before you make a decision that could impact the rest of your lives. BUT, if that's what you want, then don't string her along.

Hey. So I've already been here talking about my breakup and how it ended up (Gf of 5 years moved on about a month after we broke up... tried to get her back and it failed). Anyway, what's going on...

What if the person you broke up with IS Mr/Mrs right. Is it really better to just move on? A little hope is never a bad thing

The worst thing you can do is dwell on those down moments. Unfortunately, when someone has moved on, or thinks they have, you have no power. At least you have accepted that it is over. I say remember...

All fine ideas

Although Jasmine, trust me, I've been trying not to think about her... it kind of happens on its own... everything I do has a link to her somehow..

Doesn't help that I'm not...

Hey guys.

I'll spare the details because they are littered around on this site anyway. But, even though it's been a few months since me and my girlfriend have broken up, and she has apparently...

Thanks all.

And to answer the question that is on its way: yes.. im very bitter right now.

But hope and emotions aren't necessarilly wrong, nor are they mutually exclusive with facts and reality. Not everything is black or white... and time is just an easy answer... and I refuse to give up...

I agree with above. From my personnal experiences (me, friends, family) women have an easier time later on, and can move on faster (sadly)... and have a tendency to be a lot more cold towards an ex. ...

Same here... I still do... still expect her to show up at my door and say she made a mistake by not taking me back...

Friends had to take my cellphone away when we were out... so I could enjoy...

I don't feel this is critical NOR severe. It reflects what everyone says. But I still don't think it's too crazy to hope... whether it hurts me or not... ive already hit bottom (trust me)... but this...

Well when I first ran into my ex (after she got a new guy and told me she wouldn't be taking me back), seeing as the ball of communication was in her court, she just walked RIGHT past me, and didn't...

As much as I don't condone abuse, I think that that word is thrown FAR too lilghtly around these days. Does the guy REALLY control the girl, or is he just being honnest with his misgivings about...

You're right... it doesn't sound fair. But I know her, and that's how she is. I know there's probably something there, and until she realises it, or is able to convince me otherwise, I'm not giving...

Well my details in here were scarce, but I HAVE been out there, hanging out with friends, going to school (trying to rebuild my law school average, cause it plummeted this year with all this)......

This is a really nice post, it resumes quite well what everyone has been telling me about my heartache as of late. Unfortunately, not all of us are able to a) let go and move on and b) think of...

Hey,
How are you?

I had a dream today.. I fell asleep and everything was back to normal. I believed I woke up and you were there with me, your beautiful smile making me feel better. You put...

So I came on this board a few months ago a few months after me and my girlfriend of 5 years broke up. I broke up with her (for stupid reasons, mostly I needed to fix myself).. and she spent a few...

I actually don't have much of an answer for you. Im having a very similar problem... although the NC was pretty much pushed on me. I think you SHOULD let the person know how you felt and their...

Thanks everyone. Honnest answers is all I really want, so thanks :)

As far as finding myself, I've done that. I spent a month soul searching to find out why and if I really wanted her back....

I know cheating isn't cool. Trust me, I feel bad enough about it as it is, as I probably ruined the best thing that ever happened to me.

My ex is 22, science student who just graduated her degree...

He may be afraid that you'll tell him you're over him. I would feel things out a bit, maybe let it slip to one of his friends that you still care about him.

I did that too, I wanted my ex back but...

Hey everyone.
Im 22 (turning 23 in a few weeks) and have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have been best friends ever since we met 8 years ago. In high school she went out with this guy for...