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Thanks to the first two replies for trying to be helpful. I definitely want to be honest with him, but I'm just not sure how we should approach things. Should we have him over for a nice dinner and...

A little background on the situation first:
My husband and I (same-sex) have been together for 11 years this Thanksgiving, and married for half of that time. We started our relationship with the...

Could it be Everclear, Santa Monica?

It has a line "I don't wanna be the bad guy"

I disagree with two points that have been made:

1) If 19, almost two years after the minor/adult line, is basically a child, how will an additional 2 years make alcohol safe? Should you give...

I find it much more contemptible that someone would hold a law above common sense.

Once, soon after we met, I asked him over for dinner. His reply was that he had a rough day and just wanted to...

Just to be clear, she is my wife. We are legally married, and love each other very much. We chose to get married and build a life together because of the love and trust that we share. Sex doesn't...

I believe I already said that I told him I wanted to be physically close to him, as far as he was comfortable going. You're the second person to say I'm not being honest... Maybe you're thinking of a...

She is quite crass, and offensive at times. I'd like to point out that I did state that her advice was bad, and that taking advantage of someone is not my style.



In no way am I "just messing...

I have a few female friends from long ago. At one point or another, I've either shared a bed, gave a massage to, or cuddled with each of them. Are those not just close friendships?

If not, then...

Why does physical intimacy have to be included in sex? I just want to be close, and if he is interested then I'd like to go down that path. I'm just not sure where the line lies between walking it...

I think I gave too much information, causing my point to get hidden. I just wanted some suggestions on how to know it's the right time.

joypulv gave the best advice, and at this point I guess...

She gave bad advice; switch from wine to liquor and drink until he asks for it.

Not my style. I like this guy, and would rather be friends until old age than have one night of sex.

Tell him!

You are only 11 and you have your whole life to spend worrying about what other people will think.

Right now you should just go for it. It will be great practice for all the other...

This answer doesn't fit my question. I am male, the girl is my wife (and not really important to the story, any).

The question is: now that he has "given permission" to caress his hair, when...

I'll start with a few details about me; I don't like most people, and the ones I do like usually bore me after 5 minutes or so.

I met a lesbian at 15, and we meshed perfectly, so 6 years later we...