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    Talaniman is right. And just to add on what he's...

    Talaniman is right. And just to add on what he's said as well as your question, it seems that you'll have to decide the boundaries for yourself and actually enforce them. YOU are the one in the...
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    Just tell him the truth. He already gave you a...

    Just tell him the truth. He already gave you a few chances to admit the truth but you just kept on lying. Admit your fault and then explain what happened. Tell him that your roommate was trying to...
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    You can't impose your set of beliefs upon him....

    You can't impose your set of beliefs upon him. What you believe to be "better" may not be what he believes is "better". It sounds like he needs some breathing space and you need to relax a little. He...
  4. I'm writing this based on my own experiences so...

    I'm writing this based on my own experiences so it may not be 100% the same as what your girlfriend is thinking:

    I currently have a FWB (friend with benefits) who is also a very close friend. The...
  5. Question: What to do?

    by ampersandra
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    Opinion only, could be something to do with...

    Opinion only, could be something to do with language barrier?
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    Having a heavy breakfast is generally okay, but...

    Having a heavy breakfast is generally okay, but WHAT exactly does your breakfast consist of? Personally, my first meal of the day is the largest and then I have smaller meals throughout the day. It's...
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    It's good that you're taking a break. But I don't...

    It's good that you're taking a break. But I don't think you're really going into the spirit of the break since you're still worrying about what she'll do. Why not just take a deep breath and walk out...
  8. Question: Husbands Hurt

    by ampersandra
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    After 25 years? Twenty-five? Has she enjoyed sex...

    After 25 years? Twenty-five? Has she enjoyed sex previously? And if so, do you at least have some idea of the changes in her life that may have led her not to enjoy it now?

    Something is amiss here.
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    Maintenance at the end of the lease

    This is for Ontario:

    I've been living in my current apartment for two years. It has 4 bedrooms in total and I've 3 different roommates each year. Two of my roommates are ending the lease in May,...
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    Drink lots of water.

    Drink lots of water.
  11. He doesn't sound like your boyfriend at all. ...

    He doesn't sound like your boyfriend at all.

    How could he "not know" what is he doing? Have him explain in detail what he means. Does he mean he doesn't know WHY he's hurting you? Or does he mean...
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    I'm not too sure "asking" is the right word. It...

    I'm not too sure "asking" is the right word. It may look like you're interrogating him. Tell him to in you when he's almost there and see if he complies. Does it HAVE to be MANUAL stimulation? What...
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    So far, nothing. As I've said, I've lived with...

    So far, nothing. As I've said, I've lived with males before, some of which I didn't know until I moved in. Come to think of it, I've never done background checks on them either. I'm still alive and...
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    I'm not too sure if it's exactly...

    I'm not too sure if it's exactly "irresponsible"... She seems to be caring for the kids too, but you're carrying more of the burden because you spend more time with them and also do the housework....
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    Hmm... well his profile mentions that he is...

    Hmm... well his profile mentions that he is working 2 jobs (one is professional, the other is freelance) and that he rarely has friends stay overnight. Neither of us have pets.

    Would asking about...
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    Since you said the first time you tried to...

    Since you said the first time you tried to explain and nothing came out right, maybe you should write him a letter. This would give you more time to prepare. It sounds as if there's some...
  17. Here's another idea, why not just ask him to hang...

    Here's another idea, why not just ask him to hang out with you as friends? You don't really need to ask him for a formal date. I've personally never had a real date before and I'm in my mid-twenties!...
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    Strangers as roommates

    Hi there. I'm just moving to a city about 200km from where I am now. I don't have any contacts in the new city so I've resorted to searching online for apartments and roommates. I've chatted quite a...
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    What is this "Audition" you speak of? Could you...

    What is this "Audition" you speak of? Could you give us more information? Where are you trying to download this from?
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    It'd be better if you used brackets and the ^...

    It'd be better if you used brackets and the ^ symbol. It's too difficult to read.
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    Tell him the truth. This is YOUR responsibility....

    Tell him the truth. This is YOUR responsibility. You want to fix things and the way to do it is to tell the truth. What else can you really do? If you can offer an alternative, tell me.

    However,...
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    I guess there's no need to tell you what you need...

    I guess there's no need to tell you what you need to do since many others have already offered you very sound advice. What I'll tell you is things you may need to prepare.

    Have you talked to any...
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    Of course you need breathing room. It sounds like...

    Of course you need breathing room. It sounds like she has some serious issues of her own. How aware is she of her clinginess? Does she get jealous if you hang out with your other friends for too...
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    I'm assuming that you like him? Just tell him...

    I'm assuming that you like him? Just tell him your feelings and see how he responds.
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    Well, they always say knowing your problems is...

    Well, they always say knowing your problems is your first step. As svatnsdal said, your girlfriend CHOSE to be with you because of who you are. She obviously thinks you're great or else she wouldn't...
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    Pretty much the best way of saying it, I guess....

    Pretty much the best way of saying it, I guess. I'm looking to see what the male perspective is on both of those motions, in a very general sense, regardless of the specific position the couple is...
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    I have a friend who has a similar problem. Unlike...

    I have a friend who has a similar problem. Unlike what Choux said, I don't think it's the type of psychological problem where your partner is part of the cause. The reason I say this is because my...
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    As I've said before, probably not. You have to...

    As I've said before, probably not. You have to make the decision yourself, in the end.

    Personally, I'd still be worried about his chances of cheating (i.e. would he run to another girl after some...
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    Generally, any position where the girl is on top....

    Generally, any position where the girl is on top. I'm not too sure on how to further elaborate since I REALLY don't know the difference from a male perspective. Sorry.

    Up-down/pumping = moving...
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    It's normal to be annoyed by something like that....

    It's normal to be annoyed by something like that. This person is your BEST friend, right? Personally, I'd be more considerate of who I date and to whom I talk about my relationships. As friend4u178...
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    In a word, probably not. BOTH OF YOU have many...

    In a word, probably not.

    BOTH OF YOU have many things to clear up for yourselves.

    With him, it seems like he was being a bit too soft on you at the beginning and spoiling you. I'm going to be...
  32. From the looks of it, no. Take my word with a...

    From the looks of it, no. Take my word with a grain of salt though, because there are always exceptions.

    However, my guess is that you're asking this question because you want her back. Do you...
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    Seems like lack of lubrication is the most...

    Seems like lack of lubrication is the most probable cause, from what my friends told me. Thanks. From there, it should be easier to tell them about foreplay.

    Still, I'm waiting for an answer: What...
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    It's hard to tell. What colour and texture was...

    It's hard to tell. What colour and texture was the blood? In my own experience, it was thin and watery. If yours was like that, it would be less visible. There is no need to be embarrassed though....
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    Hahaha... tightness feels good to a certain...

    Hahaha... tightness feels good to a certain extent. No one wants something squeezing ANY part of their body too tightly. But about the penis-bending, uhh... how?

    That's why I was asking about the...
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    I don't think you're being selfish, but it seems...

    I don't think you're being selfish, but it seems that you're overthinking things a bit. You're not being selfish for thinking this way, but I wonder about your emotional security. Not saying that...
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    Questions for the guys: sex positions

    To start with something general, what's your favourite position and why?

    Would you prefer more grinding motions or an up-down motion? And what does each feel like to you?

    A couple of my less...
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    Two issues: 1. It doesn't seem that you're too...

    Two issues:

    1. It doesn't seem that you're too into your girlfriend. This doesn't really have to do with your girlfriend being bratty, but with your own attitude towards her. Under what...
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    It sounds like she's got you wrapped around her...

    It sounds like she's got you wrapped around her pinky. You're sacrificing so much for this girl who DEMANDED you to move out. It's your life. You don't need to report to her if you're seeing someone...
  40. Question: Very Confused

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    I think you should ask him about it. Try not to...

    I think you should ask him about it. Try not to sound condescending though.
  41. It's interesting to see a post like this here...

    It's interesting to see a post like this here since I had encountered a somewhat similar problem with my ex, although the specifics are a bit different.

    There will always be some difference no...
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    How far is this high school from your middle...

    How far is this high school from your middle school? If it's not too far, you could just do what justcurious55 said. Otherwise, there's always the option of MSN, AIM, etc.
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    There's no need to severely chastise yourself for...

    There's no need to severely chastise yourself for your actions. You know why you're doing them. You know it's not 100% your fault because of your past. You are already being responsible by making an...
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    It's too hard to say for sure. I would strongly...

    It's too hard to say for sure. I would strongly recommend seeing a doctor about your period since you've already taken a pregancy test, which has come out negative. Have you been stressed lately?...
  45. How regular are your periods and how long do they...

    How regular are your periods and how long do they usually last? Did you recently start/stop taking oral contraceptives? Any stress lately? Those things can affect how long your period lasts. If...
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    How closely do you know this guy at this moment?...

    How closely do you know this guy at this moment? And how much do you trust yourself to judge the actions of others? I know the second question may sound superficial to some, but it is important. The...
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    peggyhill, thanks so much for your concern. About...

    peggyhill, thanks so much for your concern. About your idea regarding martial arts, my friend has just started taking lessons this morning. It's wearing him down physically, which is to be expected,...
  48. There is a chance, but it's very low. If you want...

    There is a chance, but it's very low. If you want to be sure, check yourself in at a women's clinic and ask for a pregnancy test or buy one at the pharmacy.
  49. Take Plan B anyway. Also, when was your last...

    Take Plan B anyway.

    Also, when was your last period?

    Keep in mind that NOTHING is surefire, not even contraception, but there are ways to minimize possibility of getting pregnant.
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    I think the more important question here is...

    I think the more important question here is whether she felt any pain and if the pain was any different from having rough sex. It doesn't seem like a serious problem if there wasn't any abnormal...
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