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Why we continue is because 90% of the relationship is good and 10% can be bad. Like all relationships ups and downs are inevitable that's why I come on here to talk about my 10%. I never come on here...

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Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years on and off. Off usually due to my own fear of commitment at times. I have taken 3 steps backs from...

I broke up with her purely for the fact I'm not ready to commit longterm. We've been dating a year and were in each other pockets all the time. She was the first girl I was with sexually as well so...

He feels bad every time he see's you on his Facebook. He probably did the same thing checking up on you. I can tell you this because I broke up with my girlfriend 2 weeks ago. I think the same...

This just shows your lack of maturity and lack of experience with girls. I know where you're coming from though I was the same 6 months ago. I came on here hoping to understand a little more about my...

Do not text her at all. If you text her with all these romantic notions when all she wants is space. How is that helping things? You are again showing you are there for her whatever she decides to do...

No not physically. Girls can be strongly attracted to men who don't seem that much to look at. What I'm saying is your most probably being to full on with her. You're obviously not showing her who's...

By getting on with things in your life. If you haven't got any hobbies get some. I'm planning on going to play tennis with some mates tomorrow to get my mind of my ex. Might play some golf later this...

If you be a man and do your own thing for a while. She may just come back to you. Who's to say where this road will take her. She has to do it for herself though which may sound harsh. Some people...

You need to back off completely. Pretend not to be phased by her backing off. Not caring either way is an attractive quality. Doing things that repel her would be phoning her and "trying to work it...

Hey thanks for the support there doesn't seem to be a lot coming my way. Maybe because I'm the "dumper" but yeah its much appreciated.

Right I've done it. Went over with her bridesmaid dress she left here months ago, her shoes and some other personal belongings. Just clarrified that it was finished. She was pretty stone faced she...

I'd suggest anytime you feel the need to question things talk to a personal friend, family member or come on here. Talking to her or anyone to do with her right now isn't an option. You're the one...

1. why can't she settle down?
2. will we always meet up annually for a short love affair? (this has been a pattern)
3. are the lovely things she says simply owed to the heat of the moment?
4. why...

Haha see I thought you might have meant it in an emotionally abusive way? I knew it wouldn't have been physical I have said nothing to make you think that.

Yeh I put them under my bottom drawer...

Sorry just in the last two comments you said "especially when one is being abused" and then another "some mistake abuse for love and attention" I thought you were being specific to my relationship....

You've said abuse twice now I hope your not thinking our relationship is an abusive one?

There's a part of me that feels I'm breaking up with the girl of my dreams but we're just not in a place to be with each other. She's young she's 17 struggling with family, depression and has a...

I think its easy for an outsider to say right this is what's happening and this is what you should do. Relationships aren't all as clear cut as people seem to make out on this site. If I'd did it...

Well I just phoned her after work let her know we need to talk Saturday so I'll go over to hers and do it. She's an amazing girl but I know I'm not going to Love her like she should be.

You make some good points. I know I have to end this its not going to be easy.

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Ive split up with her once before and got back together within a week at around the 7 month mark. Since then its been great but this past few weeks I've started...

Hmm well it sounds to me somewhere along the line you forgot the no contact rule. When a girl backs off you do the same because whatever you've done it can't be won over by persistence. That will...

If I found out my 11 year old sister was seeing a 16 year old guy... I'd be livid. Its beyond sick.

You should delete her from your friends and make your page private. She has no right to know what your doing with your life at all. For instance her commenting your nephew. She shouldn't be allowed...

No I don't think so somehow. You seem to be laying the blame on this guy rather than her? You have a point obsession is unhealthy. This guy however questions her motives and his relationship which...

First: All due respect you posted your problems on a forum so you're going to get discussions on all parts of what you said.

Second: If he's an addict like you say you can't trust an addict until...

Lol its funny how this situation gets a totally different response to my own problem. I was totally mauled for thinking my girlfriends overweight and I have a problem with it. Changing her wasn't an...

Well done I'm so pleased for you! Go on enjoy your life and know you deserve nothing but the best. Coming out on top after all that hurt and pain shows just what a great person you are.

Your hate for this could seriously damage all your future relationships. I mean 21st century young men grow up with porn. Its unlikely you'll find a guy anywhere who hasent been aroused by it unless...

This is probably the most simple reply I've ever made. Its so obvious this guy doesn't deserve a girl like you. You are clinging onto left over popcorn scattered on your floor? That's sadly how...

I'm not denying porn can become excessive and downright disrespectful if a man chooses to look at movies instead of being with his wife. Her issue doesn't seem to be this however. She's away and is...

I agree he should have just said "listen its something I do and always have done so you have to accept this" rather than telling her he'll stop and do it anyway. That hurts her more. I overlooked...

His intent is not to hurt her he is doing something natural to basically all men in the 21st century. For me when I'm not with my girlfriend I like to watch porn as a visual for sexual gratification....

It seems to me if you really don't like it then you have to find a man who doesn't do it. Either that or accept it. Its not his problem really its yours. This is who he is and this is what he does...

I think the fact he told Daisy how you felt about her when you told him to keep it to himself says it all. He's emotionally cheating on you with this woman which in some respects is worse than a...

Everything about this just screams "runaway" The only stretch of the imagination that gives this "relationship" some hope is she's made this guy up and is trying to keep you jealous and second...

Lets see the "NC" fanatics try and actually think a solution to this one lol

You have to be strong you've been through a lot with him over 10 years getting married and having kids. Realising you...

Your relationship has probably just got a little boring and unadventurous that's why you're looking elsewhere. You probably need to learn to be honest with your boyfriend talk more about things that...

Deep down she probably knows you're pining for her and waiting in the wings for her to snap her fingers and come running when she's ready. Which is just not very manly.

If she had strong feelings...

I'm 21 and she's 18 we've been together for a year and basically I've had the feelings for a while we talk on the phone everyday or had done until I broke up. We were basically living in each other...

I think I have to set a date to see her and talk about things.

I want to be with her now and forever so... WHY!. am I making this so difficult? Its like every time there's a slight tiff or...

It might not mean they are totally back... they are thinking about you and that's a great sign. You are winning the battle of their heart that's what it means. Its not time to lay down your sword and...

I broke up with my girl last night pretty much stole her boat crashed it into a couple of rocks and made it away on my own. I want to take time on my own be with other people without her which kills...

I broke up with my girl last night pretty much stole her boat crashed it into a couple of rocks and made it away on my own. I want to take time on my own be with other people without her which kills...

Hmm I would like to know how long has she known this guy for to be sharing all her feelings to. I don't understand why she would be sharing so much with this guy I mean that's what you're there for...

You have accepted her choice with little or no confrontation on the matter or so you've suggested. Again I stress she feels free to do what she wants. What do you want? Does she know what you want?...

Yeah good luck with the relationship KC is right your happyness is what matters here. Until now you seem to have agreed with everything advice wise and I think the only reason you're not agreeing now...

I'm sure a week isn't long enough to cause a lifetime trauma of neglect! She said she wants him to remember why he fell in love with her to begin with... which is why I say take time alone.

How...

You don't know she won't do it again and she more than likely will if you keep throwing it back in her face.

You are putting yourself down by saying "you will probably find someone else and leave...