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I know exactly how you feel.. it amazes me sometimes how cold people can be. I know its hard to do but TRY not to think about it. Set goals with things that can keep you busy!

I know you feel...

If you contact him it will ONLY get worst. Trust me. I felt exactly like you did, "how can someone you care so much for throw it all away..." I would even say that I was super desperate, BUT you HAVE...

Listen to everyone when they say NO CONTACT! It is hard at first when because you have all of these emotions and thoughts but it WILL get better!

From personal experience, I was going crazy when...

Wow.. the year has past so quickly.. for a mini update.

She tried to contact me a few months back but I ignored her and I have been NC since last year. It always gets hard around the holidays but...

You.. don't be a sucker like me.. I got the "out of the blue text" but I responded.. kind of, just let it go otherwise you will be in a spot like mine and wonder if you should text her or something...

I hope so too.. I think she got the hint after I didn't contact her for her birthday... for some reason, I'm a little sad she didn't respond back to me.. man I just need to stay away and really heal

OK so today I dropped off everything with her parents and I just texted her, told her that her stuff is with her parents.
... man I love her parents, they were still so nice to me still. Life...

Cool.. ill probably do that... don't know why, but I feel bad for not saying happy birthday to her even though she screwed me over and all..

So should I just trash the stuff? But man I miss my dog LOL

I'm not going to lie, it has been pretty rough and its still pretty rough... I just realized that its been quite awhile, it feels like when I quit smoking almost... its super hard but sometimes when...

update:

So I found out that she wasn't needing space but she was cheating on me for the second time.. She was jerking me around and everything. She used me to help her move and as a front for her...

Update: so I blocked her number and text and Facebook... NC and was going strong.. And out of nowhere, she calls the house... and my mom KNOWS I don't want to talk to her, and still tells her I'm at...

Yes.. I know.. just that somewhere inside, I was hoping that it would work... its like the feeling, if you don't try then you will never know kind of thing. The "hope" part of false hope, is...

Totally bs. via text
ME:"Have Fun tonight. I think it would be a good idea if you don;t call or text me unless it is important. dont worry if I go anywhere ill tell you like you told me about ur...

So I spoke to her again.. she told me that she wasn't ready for anything.. just wanted to make sure we weren't on bad terms.. . eff her.. I texted her back.. "dont call or text unless its important....

Returning her stuff to help her realize that won't work... it will only help her confirm that its really over. I know because that's what happened to me.. She said "If you are over me eff you too.." ...

Unfortunate? How so?

So she called around noon.. I didn't answer, so she texted me. "I can't make it and Ill call you later."

I felt bad so I called her back and just told her "I don't think its a good idea for you to...

Damn.. that sounds soooo much like my ex.. asking if I have been going out a lot and bs like that.. and "like you saw the movie? i guess i have to look for someone else to go with me now." wth is...

You.. I'm going to tell her tomorrow when she calls... "if you want to see me because you just want to hang out.... please don't come." then NC

Its like playing with fire and complain when you get burnt :(

You.. she is suppose to call me on Saturday.. I have no reason to explain myself to her... I don't like playing games with my emotions so, back to NC!! I was going 8 days. Reset. Lol

That's exactly what I want to say to her, don't contact me unless you want a relationship.

She asked me if I was ignoring her calls... I just told her I was busy and giving her the space she...

Thanks so much guys... I keep slipping... she wants to see me.. but I don't think it's a good idea... that will set me back more

Shoot shoot shoot shoot... I responded to her call... we talked for a few minutes... then I got of the phone... someone shoot me... I CAN'T BELIEVE I BROKE NC!! I was doing so well...

That's great!! I'm trying to get to that point

I'm in the same boat as you.. BUT I did not call her text her back. Read my thread for the advice one other member gave me, it might help...

Ahhhh... she left me a message said that I should have called her and that she just wants to see how I am doing, but she sounded very serious. She called me again this morning but I didn't see it. I...

I briefly read through some of the posts... I am copying what you did. I replaced my ex's number with "Don't Break NC" great idea! =)

I went to drop off something that belonged to her today at her parents' house. Apparently they still don't know because they asked me to stay for dinner. But I politely said that I had to pick up my...

I know... all of the advice you are giving me is what I need to do.. I'm trying to focus on myself but I keep thinking about her... sigh... I didn't return her text or anything, so I'm going to stick...

you.. but I think one of my pretty good friend is stepping with my ex.. =(

You... I started to go to church again after not going for a long time. I just can't believe that a person that you gave everything to can be so heartless. I know I am still in the relating to pop...

I don't plan on calling or txting her anymore.. it just hurts me too much... I know I need to focus on myself but it is just so hard to do.

She just txt me that she is back from her trip... I'm going to NC...

I know what you mean.. I say just don't respond... that's what I would do... it will be harder on you... I responded to my ex and helped her with all sorts of things.. then it was hard for me to part...

I know that you are so right.. I really want to learn how to be more self-focused. But somewhere I stiill have the idea that we will be OK again... *sigh*

It has been bugging me that she lied to...

If you know it can't work... just do him the flavor and DO NOT CONTACT HIM AT ALL... I wish I never broke NC rules with my ex, It makes it harder each time I see her or hear from her...

I try so hard to focus on myself, I wish I can be more selfish... I think that is why everyone takes advantage of that... It is just so hard, she is in my head every moment... I just want to forget...

I tried to propose because I really love her.. but I said it all wrong and she thinks that I only proposed to keep her. I am just so overwhelmed with emotions, and that she lied to me about the trip...

I'm in somewhat of the similar situation.. but on the receiving end of this... I can probably tell you that he is still really loves you and wants to do EVERYTHING and ANYTHING to keep you in his...

I don't know why I'm still so stuck on her.. lost my appetite again.. so stupid... I hooked up with another girl last night but all I kept thinking about was her... wth is wrong with me? Its bugging...

You.. I just can't understand how a person can throw a 6.5 year relationship out the window...

I was doing so well with NC. Then she calls me to help her move... the sucker I am.. I agreed, I wasted two weekends helping her and thought this would show her I care...

Bottomline, she wants to...

Thanks.. you I swept and cried about this relationship for the past 3 weeks.. and the past few days of NC really made me feel better.. Talking to her today made me want to get back with her.. but its...

We talked like we were just friends... nothing more nothing less.. its over...

Ahhh.. I was doing so well, almost two weeks of NC and today I gave in and text/ called her...

You.. I feel u... so told me we still had a chance to get back together... maybe in a month or two.. and she isn't looking for a relationship right now with anyone...

She moved out and I don't know where she lives anymore... and I don't think she told her family... and trying to forget her right now, its even harder because I am sick (flu that I got from her).....

Its been two weeks, she said the time and space thing and I broke almost all the rules in the first week and she told me its over.. so now.. I don't think its going to be anymore.. so pretty sad