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He would have had to showered or I would have known and no he did not use protection. :( I really don't think he gave me one thought.

So smoothy pretty much your saying if was you... you would...

Yes cheating is HUGE bump smoothy. I always value your opinions on my life lol.And the worst part of it ( I guess ) is he really don't remember any detail of it. His best friend set it up. It...

Well it did get much better then he cheated. But we are working it out... I think

And as I stated I did not mean to offend anyone. Its freedom of speech

Ty for you advice Enigma. It is well noted.

@Enigma it has been been two weeks into this. He has maybe heard 3 negative comments from me concerning this. In my opinion he got off lucky. You have got to be a man to have said that.

I have...

I guess I must sound pretty dumb. Crying over what he done to me but standing by him and defending him huh smoothy? Believe it or not I have a low opinion of most en. They have to prove to me they...

I have done wrong in our past. But I took my punishment for it for two years. With me honestly smoothy sex is just sex ( not love ). A few minutes of pleasure. Sins of the flesh. His act is not what...

I don't know smoothy. I'm just not doing good. I'm very lost on it all. He I think may be doing worse than me. Idk. But the "friend" he was with and pressured him into this crap he called and told...

A guy has to have his heart in it if you get my meaning...

No I don't lol call me dense but explain please smoothy

Well he didn't get caught ( not defending ) by any means. It was a dog thing to do. He told me right away... he stretched out the time a few days...

No honestly smoothy you have read all my things on here and helped with a couple and that isn't him... he said his brain just snapped he has been bad depressed before this for about a week real bad...

No this isn't the first. Every one of my bf's cheated on me. Just I thought... I don't know what the hell I thought. I'm confused, hurt, lost. I never wanted to feel this way with him! Not with him!!...

The story unfolded. He told me this morning we were just going to sleep and he got up and said it I can't no more. I did go all the way and it was 3some. :( I'm devastated. I want to just die.

I can't go into much detail as It happened very recently. But he went out Thursday night with a friend. A finally said yes please go have fun bowling etc. well Friday morning he told me that he...

I agree. If she has never been single let her go and see things from the other side. If she isn't happy let her go.

Sweetie I am in the same boat. My boyfriend was like that and it switched to me. He made me the center of his world in many ways and I always had my cell in my hand even when I slept. People told me...

Yea venting this helped me a lot. Because I really don't have anyone to talk to so I just go in bathroom and cry but it helped a lot to vent. Thank you for replying.

I have so much on my mind and I am just so tired. I'm mainly here to vent I guess. My life seems like it is never going to get better and I'm just in a bigger hole than what I was. I'm in a...

I agree with talaniman if he trusted you then you should him also. You can't hold grudges. It will not help.

Talk to him about it but try to keep it as a friendship from now on! In most cases I have learned it can ruin a friendship. I mean it really depends on the individuals but if you want him comfortably...

Most here know my story from my threads and things have been going great which is why I have not been posting. But tonight it all changed. My son is down from North Carolina where he lives with his...

Oh I'm not going to say anything. It's their marriage not mine. I was just raised to respect better. I did the sorting myself. To help both of them. Now both will be happy. :)

I know this lady that quit her job ( working with her husband ) in a seafood shop just a few days ago. Well it was a night job and lastnight they had 21'000 pounds of crab to do which means he won't...

But you said You don't want to be with her...

Amen! :)

I thought of that also being men don't have the breakage thing us women do so I went on to tell him or ask him who was the first person you had sexual intercourse with not sexual activities. So all...

Sounds like you done made your mind up about leaving her. So just do it. Like homegirl said Maybe you two just lost it along the way. It does happen.

Lmao... giggle

Totally agree with the above

LOL I agree. And he also believes we don't know what we are talking about or he just don't to admit he lost his virginity to a male.

Where I said I believe he lost it to the male. He can believe what he wants but oh well lol

Those were just my words with him not 20 minutes ago.

I'm just completely lost on it now. So many people are going to have different opinions. I believe he lost it to the male.

Again I said the same thing but he went on and on about you cannot cancel out one for the others. You cannot say the mouth is different from the vagina and turn around and say the anus is "same" as...

I said the same thing but he said if that's the case and a male sticks his penis in an orange he lost his virginity to an orange... Basically any kind of penetration on an object. He also said if...

Okay I have tried looking it up on the internet but honestly I'm not coming up with anything.

What or how does losing a lot of weight effect a persons health? I mean I know it isn't good and...

I believe in ghosts. Always have. Everything is possible in this strange, wonderful and beautiful life we live.

Okay me and a friend got into a small but funny disagreement earlier and now I am curious!

I may be wrong but I think I am right ( somewhat ) Okay here goes :)

Okay he went through a stage...

Thanks to Whisperwill, Smoothy and also Talaniman for all your help. Today a week later "We" are doing so much better. With much talking and I believe now understanding each other... Finally. Thank...

I know plenty ways of entertaining him. I have 3 kids. I was simply looking for scientific projects etc for him to do and with him. Not the basics etc. That's simple know how after raising 3 kids :)

Daily steps...

1. He wakes up ( says nothing )
2. Walks in living room turns on computer ( says nothing )
3. Paces for 10 minutes ( says nothing )
4. Sits down at computer slides earphones on...

0.o *Wow* this question went along a lot further than I thought. But thank you all for answering it for me :)

"Leave her alone so you both can heal. Read her letter, she read yours."

I agree with him and good luck

Girl I am way over sensitive too. I always have been. They gave good advice. Don't change yourself. It is who you are. Be proud but just realize things just as they said. Let people know from the get...

No I do not think it will impact my 11 year old son!! It is not any of your business but I am going to be staying with my oldest son while my youngest son is here thank you very much!!

Smoothy you know a little of everything huh? :) :) :)

But yep he is right! *nodding head in approval*

Yes by all means do not just walk out. You have to tell her why etc. so you made the right choice in that also.

Good luck

I agree with chuck too. You are an adult and make your own decisions. To not lie to her tell her you are getting it. No since in lying about it. All she can do is get mad. While I respect you for...

Simply put "Leave her"

I'm a female and have porn issues with my boyfriend but your wife is being "Ridiculous"! The porn issue I have is my issue and I am working on that where me and him can enjoy it as a couple. As you...