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No problem. Figured you either 1) didn't know what SAHM meant or 2) maybe I had misspelled it. I never knew what it was until wife told me that's what it stood for.

I don't remember for sure how...

Refuse to see a doctor?

If that's what you are asking, she feels like she is OK and Im the only one with the problem, which I probably need to go too.

what are you talking about??

it was SAHM, not SHAM.

SAHM = stay at home mom.

:rolleyes:

edit - by the way, your answer echos how a lot of people (thats people) seem to approach this...

That's awesome advice, it really is. That was on of my biggest questions, HOW exactly can I get the kids. I can say with 99.9% assurity that if I were to show up there and say "Im taking the kids...

I understand what you are trying to say, but you aren't following what Im saying. First off, you are not only a SAHM you are a full time student too.

But you also, by your post, do those things...

What's going on in her head is pretty much a mystery at this point. If you want my honest opinion about it she needs therapy and some kind of medication. She's been on and off anti-depressants...

"I clean the house" - nope
"I do all the laundry" - nope
"I plan the meals" - nope
"shop" - nope
"cook" - nope
"clean up after meals" - nope
"pay bills, manage money" - nope

But our...

Can a mod delete this thread please?

Thanks

If you can insinuate from my comments that I "dont respect my wife" Id really like to know your thoughts on her respect for me if you were able to see inside our lives for a few days. :rolleyes:

Ok, I want to ask you a ? As a stay at home mom. Do you do the majority of the stuff around the house? Just your general cleaning and straightening and so forth? Or do you watch TV and sit on the...

You need to re-read my post. I said "she doesnt contribute FINANCIALLY" so you tell me, you think she has the right to tell me "we are moving here and you will get a job here to support us here"?
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Her parents have hated me since day 1. Why? IDK. I really don't. In 13yrs we've been together I bet her mom and I haven't spoken 50 words between us and not too many more than that to her dad. Every...

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That's basically the exact situation Im in. It was a GM parts supplier. They pulled all the work, sent it elsewhere, and closed us down.

I realize people lose their jobs all the time. Im not the...

Her parents hate my guts and wouldn't piss on me if I was on fire.

As far as the paid schooling goes, Im not 100% sure. I don't think I can just go anywhere I want to. They have programs set up...

Well that's where it gets complicated. I have NO problem moving somewhere, anywhere else.
However, I don't have a college degree, I have virtually no marketable skill set. I worked at an autoparts...

Look, I wasn't trying to jump down your throat. Its just complicated situation and its not as easy as "do this and its fixed" you know?

Thanks for the advice, I do appreciate it.

Thing is I Don't want to get divorced, and if I run to an attorney right off the bat like others suggest (not talking about you), what does that look...

Since you start uber-important topic like "potty training a ferrett" and "korn cds" and "comedy movies" Id rather take advice from someone else.

My only attitude is towards you and your "if you cared for you kids" comment jerk.

Of course I care for them. It's a complicated situation and your "quite being a wimp" answer is no solution.

Nice answer a-hole. Are you my wife?

Next please.

Ill try to keep this a short as possible.

7 months ago I came home from work to a note from my wife. Her dad and her had concocted a plan for him to drive here and take her and our kids to their...