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Jerseygirl wrote"...Now I know that if I left my husband, I wouldn't necessarily end up with my hs sweetheart, but I also know that I am willing to take that chance and would rather be alone (with my...

1 Corinthians 7 (New International Version)
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1 Corinthians 7 (New International Version)


1 Corinthians 7 - Marriage

1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.[a] 2But since...

He may feel captive just as I felt reading these post! Pushing him to get back with you, will not work. ONLY IF his heart is in the relationship will BOTH of you want to be together. Sounds as if he...

"Every post, even the worst ones,
tell you something about the person
who posts it."

I believe this postscript is a true statement since MOST people only talk about what they KNOW. I include...

Thanks for the insightful information!

All the best to you and yours"!

No. An open rant is the signature you chose.

My response was posted in the wrong area. Now... What, why and the how's of posting and responses DO NOT HAVE TO PLEASE ANY OF YOU. Civil? If you don't like it, don't read it. Treat it like cable...

Simple answer to simple question from Simple woman: No. What else do you need?

The nervousness is you 'higher self' saying: "Ah, I'm not ready for all this. How do I back out." It's far better to...

I agree with Pook!

How do you go about getting back on track when you are living together but are apart emotionally and physically?

Even at 52, don't you understand that this man is a looser AND a cheat? He will take all he can from you; pride, a caring heart, your time... When men look outside the relationship they are already...

Sounds as if your husband has a low sex drive, is depressed or perhaps is just no longer wanting to give you the part of him that HE KNOWS you no longer are interested in. If you already have a loaf...

"No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. Matthew 6:24

THE TWO MASTERS CAN ALSO BE UNDERSTOOD AS TWO...

Have you bumped your head or what? All that YOU 'know' is coming from THE WOMAN'S HUSBAND!! You have not had a conversation with this man's wife, right? How can YOU be so-o-o very, very stupid as to...

This is why premarital counseling is so important. It is also why before marriage every male and female should live ALONE FIRST. It is a time for adjustment from Mom & Dad's to your own household and...

Sand 32: Continue to kid yourself but don't drag the rest of us into the ditch with you. All the wonderful things you share & great times spent with ANOTHER WOMAN'S MAN ain't worth it. What's wrong...

Let her know you care about her & are there if she needs to talk. These things take time & tender understanding. Remain the champion you already are.

Wishing you both the best.

Read "The Power of Now' Eckhart Tolle.

If she has not registered there may be others from her class who know of her whereabouts. The class Register should have all the info you need.

Classmate.com site

I think it's all about the lack of boundaries. They were not raise with a sense of what belongs to them and what belongs to others. They want theirs', mine & yours' too! The Player also lacks...

Sounds as if something is happening right under your nose. I do not however suggest becoming a detective yourself; making a pair of weirdos under the same roof--twice as confusing to the child....

Great answers but...

I do not think it is fair to judge any one who has an emotional/mental illness DEFECT.

If you do not have first hand knowledge or case study experience what you advise may...

I thank you for mentioning this topic--I would have never gotten around to it. It is the most hurtful thing to feel undesirable by your mate. A man who is a coward holds in whatever he sees (or...

Please be willing to stick it out for your own sake. Sometimes when things get tough, we focus in on finding faults of others as a way to escape dealing with the MAIN ISSUES--our own junk.
Men play...

De Maria has wise advice. Listen & keep in touch.

I can only speak from my own (limited) experiences, here goes:

"Girlfriend, I'm tired of (this and that) !"

Reply: "If I were you, I would..."

DON'T TAKE THE BAIT from these folks!! If they...

Your quote: True or False, All is fair in Love and War??
My answer is yes. By any means.;) if the outcome is worth the battle. Go get 'em.:mad:

Not angry with you--that was from posting above. Congrats for being an honest man! I just did not understand your reply.

Mustard Seed--" If you have FAITH as tiny (even a small amount) as a...

Sorry--just having a little fun. David, just go have it checked & move on to something more important. Modern medicine has made leaps into quick fixes. I had several facial moles removed in a single...

It is still good advice, married or single. Good advice is also optional. We all do as we choose. Choose for yourself not to read or use. Still good advice. By the way--We are off the topic with...

Everyone should study these wise and fruitful words of truth. I don't know about the rest of you but copy/paste into MS Office, then print will do me just fine. It's going on my wall tonight! Many...

Talk about a happy ending! Be the man!! :D

I'm glad someone else posted it first. I think she's jerking you around. The clues are in her letters to you.

I also stopped read after a few lines. This line got my attention--in a bad way:

"A short time before our second anniversary I found in the computer, porn pictures but also pictures he had...

CD Brown, Sorry this has happened to you. Stay busy & things will work out for the best for each of you. The streets sometimes 'calls' us out. By that I mean that single people make it seem as if...

Listen: No one wants to 'play God'. It's just upsetting to be sitting here, living on the other side of the coin! If you are in a marriage, stay long enough to be sure that IT ISN'T YOU WHO NEEDS TO...

Jersey Girl, What's the real story here?

You wrote:

"I don't trust him as far as money is concerned, because WE ARE SERIOUSLY IN DEBT, but he continues to eat lunch out (when he could brown...

Write the letter & read it aloud to yourself. Does it sound needy? If you wanted space from him would you rather him honor your request? Respect his wishes. If he returns, demand a 50/50 partnership...

I'm in complete agreement with everything posted here. Michellet218 is really being helpful to you. All of us are asking the same basic question: Why do you NEED to marry this man?

For your in-law:

Jesus said: "Let him who is without sin, cast the first stone".

This bible story was concerning a female prostitute who was caught in "the very act" of adultery and...

Housewife, please try to understand that for some women, if they do not hand pick the woman for their sons they will forever flap their gums. I agree with "donf", do not allow her issues to become...

Men have NO idea what to complain about or what to call it. You do not have an intimate relationship with Mommy. Ridiculous!

Hate to put this out there in the universe but... My first husband used to pick fights over the dumbest things like who feed the dog last. He was going to hotel rooms after walking out--the same...

From what I understand... unless they are removed, they can all circulate, right? Is it upsetting you & why?

Please seek professional advice. The question sounds as if you think it's helpless (your marriage). Do you suffer from depression?

I faced a simuliar situation after the first 5 years. An affair was the first thing that came to mind. Long story short, he was stressed at work and confused as to how to prove himself to his...

Please, if you post a reply please use common English. We would really like to UNDERSTAND what you have to offer. Thanks.