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Hello none12345. I just read your (long) post. I'll keep it short and to the point. People are hardly worth all the time and effort that we end up putting into them. As time passes by, you...

It could be a number of reasons. Yes, they might bring up old feelings, but keep in mind that they're not reality; they're just dreams and nothing more.

I wouldn't worry too much about it. :)

If my boyfriend forgot my birthday, I'd be pissed off, especially if he wasn't trying to make it up to me. Your reaction is understandable. Talk to him. In other words, make him work to get back...

So a relationship ended around 3 months ago. I was mostly hurt because I let someone manipulate and lie to me. I am mostly over it and him. I made amends with him. True, I had a few awkward and...

Just give it some more time. I remember when I started seeing someone, and someone called his cell, he told his friend he was "with a friend." Much later, he was introducing me and talking about me...

Never mind I already did. If he still wants to be friends. That's great. If he doesn't, that's okay, too. I'll just respect his wishes.

No problem! I'm glad that I can be of any help. I know how difficult it is to simultaneously juggle your desire to be with someone and the realization that they're not trying.

If it does end,...

Lol. :) Thanks, I actually wasn't talking about a specific boyfriend. I just wanted to point out a behavioral trend that I've noticed not only in some of my own relationships, but in friends' as...

Contrary to what the guys above said, I think the fact that he couldn't take two minutes out of his day to either text or call you, even just to say he is busy and will see you later, says a lot. ...

Hey imzz,

I have been in your place before. I know how frustrating this situation is. It hurts when the other person isn't putting in the time and effort into a relationship. And more...

It seems that I always meander back to this website after a so-called breakup. Having read this list from a previous breakup really helped me to act with as much composure, respect, and maturity as...

Oh man. I actually feel bad for her... a little. Are you going to do anything about it and/or respond, sneeze?

Hey Shadowburn,

I've been there, done that. I know where you're coming from. I agree. Sometimes, it's worse when you're the one who leaves, not because you stopped liking the person, but...

... I think you should stay single for a while. Take plenty of time to understand why you have to make someone else feel horrible in order to build yourself up, why you have to hurt the one you...

Actually, I'm pretty sure this is normal. Whenever I start dating someone new (and even more so when it gets intimate and serious), my thoughts always tend to be about the last boyfriend and...

Hey lawschool101,

I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. Unfortunately, this happens all the time. I've seen it happen way too many times. I doubt she wasn't in love with you or has stopped...

Respect her decision.

Awwww! Poor sneezy... NOT.

I'm sorry, but that's not good enough. I mean, who isn't scared?

p.s. I had oysters today. Yum!! :D *munch*

Hhhhssss. :mad: Women are NOT nuts. Those who are more assertive just know what they want and go for it.

In my opinion, it'd be nice if there were any guys left with some BALLS.

You have to find a way to stop. It only prolongs your hurt.

Can you have those sites in particular blocked or something?

:rolleyes:...

Don't be too hard on yourself. We've all been there, done that (with the exception of the "games addiction" I suppose... ).

That being said, stop reaching out to her. If you respect her and her...

Hahaha. You weirdo!

And oooh, another nickname to add to the list. ;)

Well, I'll probably hiss. I mean, that's pretty basic. As for biting, I believe that's what you do.

Nice. You all have come a long way. Proof: one of the posts on the forum (I don't remember which one) recently referred to sneezy as the "poster-child" for recovering from breakups or something...

Ask her to "hang out"... so basically ask her out on a date. See how she reacts. Take it from there.

Good. You have to learn to let go of the hate if you truly want to move on.

It can honestly mean nothing. They can be feeling lonely or miss you, not necessarily looking to get back together.

I would prefer it if you didn't proceed at all (unless you are over him/her). ...

Hmmm I sort of disagree. I've been the dumper both times and had a harder time getting through it than the dumpees, my exes. All three times. In one, I knew it wasn't going to work out long-term,...

I think that you should give her what she asked for: space.

If she seems content with her decision, you have to respect that and move on. She's the one that broke up with you. If she wants to get...

I think he's made it pretty clear that it's over between the two of you. :T

Regardless of whether he told his mother the truth or not, regardless of him not changing his number, it's time to...

It seems you already know what's best for you. It's hard to try to go the friends route when you're still in love with someone. No one said it was going to be easy.

Best of luck,
J

This is a good sign!! This means that at present (keyword: present), we don't need the forum and hopefully we're doing OK. :)



Eeek. hjpan, as much as it seems as though trashing her room would...

Ahem... I'm doing FINE. Let me just put that out there lol...

Hmmm. Oops. He just replied with thanks. Nevertheless, am staying in the room.

I don't want to go into what happened, but it suffices to say that I am hurt and feeling pissed off. Even though we complicated things a few weekends ago, I've put it aside and tried to be a friend....

:( Eeeek. Sorry, dude. Generally speaking, sleeping with the ex is a big no-no. (Don't I know it... ) Well, have you talked to her since?

Word. Freedom at its best. Best of all, it's mutually understood, if not expected. I'm going to reeeaaally miss that when I graduate next year.

It does. If not, the potency of the feelings associated with thoughts of him will diminish at the very least. Hang in there! You are doing great!:)

So I've let a day pass by, and I'm still weirded out after meeting up with the ex. I got in pretty late into the city and he came to a party where our mutual friends were. He was quite inebriated. ...

I met up with my ex this weekend. It was weird to say the least. I was excited to see him and see how he was doing, but something was off. I think it's the realization that we won't be anything...

Honestly, seeing that these are his "values," I don't see how you can change him.

It's the equivalent of trying to show a racist that racism is wrong. One of my exes had a tendency to be...

Hahaha! What can I say? That's how I roll.;)

I'm rolling my eyes... :rolleyes: lol.

Btw- nice new avatar, Sneeze. Really subtle. :p

Sorry I wasn't more articulate. I didn't mean to say that most people who carry STDs/STIs are men per se. My point was that women are not the only carriers. We all are or can be. Actually, a large...

hjpan and andrew916.? I resent this statement and am extremely disappointed! I'm not even going to go into how wrong this statement is on multiple levels. I'll start with one. First of all, it's...

Don't expect it. It'll just make it harder for her and for you.

Let go.

:confused:... Eh? I'm a bit confused. Did I say I was down recently? I looked through a few pages back and I don't think I said anything... Heh. But hey, as long as I helped. Lol ;)



Eeek. I...

I know where you're coming from. I, too, would call myself pretty new to the dating game. I've never been in a long-term, serious relationship (commitment freaks me out to be frank :eek:), but I do...

Do not ask for the gift back. It won't benefit you and it certainly won't make you feel better in the long run. No matter who dumped whom, just leave things (this includes gifts) in the past now...