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    Similar situation happened to me and my boy...

    Similar situation happened to me and my boy (friend) for 6 years. We went everywhere together, did the same things and suddenly this new girl comes along and we both wanted to be friends with her but...
  2. Question: I have my doubts

    by Secret_J
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    Please elaborate.

    Please elaborate.
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    Your partner doesn't seem to have an...

    Your partner doesn't seem to have an understanding of your feelings, or simply doesn't want to. He could be just “use” to you so in return takes you for granted for all the things that you do. As a...
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    Today was a much better day for me and I'm...

    Today was a much better day for me and I'm starting to get an appetite again. My smile is slowly coming back.

    My partner and I seem better since our long talk last night. He agreed with me in...
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    This may be a time in her life that she does want...

    This may be a time in her life that she does want to concentrate on herself right now. I'm guilty of doing the same thing to people in regards to not calling them back at the time I say I am going...
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    He cheated on you, a mistake the he made and now...

    He cheated on you, a mistake the he made and now he is in regret because he knows how much he screwed up. You know the saying "you never know how much someone means to you until you lose them." Well...
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    Trust is a BIG thing in a relationship, without...

    Trust is a BIG thing in a relationship, without it you simply can't have one.

    Have you given him any reason to think you are cheating on him? Have patterns changed in your daily routine that would...
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    I am not getting a full sense of what happened...

    I am not getting a full sense of what happened but I am assuming you both lived together, you guys got engaged, and then today he had a change of heart and left you only to say when he's ready, he...
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    It's harder said than done, and I know that all...

    It's harder said than done, and I know that all of you have had similar experiences when you knew you had to let someone go but you still tried to keep it going. I know the “smart” decision is to let...
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    Wouldn't that be selfish of me though? It's like...

    Wouldn't that be selfish of me though? It's like saying, "Either you choose me or choose your friend?"

    Isn't giving an ultimatum in a relationship considered wrong?
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    You were the rebound. Sorry to sound harsh, but...

    You were the rebound. Sorry to sound harsh, but it was true.

    Go out and meet other people, do activities, and avoid contact with that person. Eventually you will get over him, and then think back...
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    But if it were the other way, wouldn't he say as...

    But if it were the other way, wouldn't he say as a defense "don't let a girl come between your friendship?" and in return he would have sacrificed his long term relationship of his friend who he has...
  13. Question: Keeps calling.

    by Secret_J
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    I sense that she broke up with you correct? Maybe...

    I sense that she broke up with you correct? Maybe she regrets her decision and is telling you all this because she does want to get back with you. If this girl is really important to you, and WORTH...
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    I really do think that I love him more than he...

    I really do think that I love him more than he loves me. Even though he does say it is equal, the sacrifices I have made to maintain this relationship are far more than what he could have ever done....
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    What are the signs that he shows that he's not...

    What are the signs that he shows that he's not attracted to you anymore?

    Maybe you are just assuming things out of your own insecurities. If you want to change physcially do it for yourself and...
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    You need to find someone that you can talk to....

    You need to find someone that you can talk to. It's definitely not healthy keeping such high emotions inside without having a friend or relative to talk to. Sounds to me that you are VERY infatuated...
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    It's disappointing that you have not been upfront...

    It's disappointing that you have not been upfront about your feelings with her.

    Does she not have any family to lend her support or some other place she can stay, parents, siblings, other friends?
  18. Sometimes if you are angry and want to lash out...

    Sometimes if you are angry and want to lash out on someone, it's going to be the person closest to you. I know you can't stand for her being upset. I know it's really hard to see someone you love...
  19. Question: Is 18 too young

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    Love goes beyond just feelings, especially if you...

    Love goes beyond just feelings, especially if you are talking about marriage. It's not just the age factor but ask yourself, are you ready to commit to the emotional and financial responsibilities...
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    He's probably just wanting to take a step back to...

    He's probably just wanting to take a step back to know what he wants. I agree that he might be already dating or at least "talking" to this other girl already. But then again it could just be a true...
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    I suggest you wait it out to talk to her in...

    I suggest you wait it out to talk to her in person. That way you can see everything - her facial impressions, her eyes, how her body language is. You can find a lot about a person if they are lying...
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    Why don't you just talk to her? Your...

    Why don't you just talk to her?

    Your investigation of being another person is already proof that something is not right in your relationship and she might/still be lying to you. You will keep on...
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    Love Means Sacrifice?

    I truly believe that my existence is based on the morals and values of what I’ve obtained growing up until this day in my life. I’ve recently made a sacrifice for my relationship and it’s making me...
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    Is it OK to talk to ex-boyfriend?

    My current boyfriend “P” and I have been together for more than a year now. Everything is going great, minus the unexpected arguments that I am sure every couple goes through.

    My ex-bf "M" and I...
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    I really thought I was smart enough now...

    I really thought I was smart enough now especially to figure out one's character. I want to make it clear though that this “being taken advantage of” hasn't happened to me since high school. It was...
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    The friend & the Boyfriend

    Here’s the situation – and please tell me the honest truth of what you think. I need advice on a very difficult subject! And sorry if this is REALLY long.

    About a year ago I made friends with...
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