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I apologize, it's been an extremely busy week so far at work and home. Well we ended up going to Joe's Crabshack that had just opened in our area a couple months ago instead of the other seafood...

This is kind of what I was starting to get out of this. If his accountant advised against giving you a loan maybe there's more to this than him being an "insensitive" boyfriend. Maybe he wants to...

Think of it this way, you two can study together. She can help you with your home work and you can help her. If you do truly like her, at the end of the day you two being in the same classes won't...

Sounds like a beautiful mix definitely an indoor dog. We had a Jack Russell for awhile. I really miss her but she had a serious dominance issue with Emmy and well, big dog doesn't like little dog...

I'm sorry to hear this. No one should ever be jealous of the attention of a pet and definitely not of a child which could very well become if he doesn't handle his insecurities.

I'd have to agree...

Emmy sleeps in the house as well. I have her trained that she'll lay her head on the bed looking at my wife and I until I/we tell her yes or no. Seriously, that pathetic sad face she gives, how can...

You definitely have changed my outlook on this issue with the added information. Thank you. I'd have to agree that if you or your child is primarily taking care of the dog/puppy and there are no...

Information is key, this makes more sense. Thank you for clearing this up. Oh my lord, $600 for a dog? What breed did you buy? :)

Then I apologize, I assumed based on a comment directed towards this thread. Most dogs are inherently out door animals. Certain dog breads are more emotionally attached to their owners than others...

I can agree completely, Smoothy. The guy my sister-inlaw met online portrayed himself as a car salesman. Come to find out (his words not mine) he sold porn in a hidden room in his basement. How...

Cruelty to animals? Because he would rather let the dog stay outside or he yells at the dog for what ever reason that the OP left out or claps at the dog? I didn't read where he neglected to feed,...

Your husband doesn't like dogs but "agreed" to getting one? He didn't want one in the first place and now you are upset that he wants it gone? Pets should be a mutual agreement between parents and...

No better answer than this.

Sounds like she fell for him hard, after that they met once and he's broken off contact. One person's Monet is another person's Picasso?

Yeah, I misread something there. Sorry, didn't realize this guy she met online was actually her true love. Nothing against online meetings, just have seen the results of it in the past with other...

I did mention that actually :S I can understand the need to protect younger children from an emotional attachment to a person you aren't sure that will be long term. I believe you need to get past...

Stop looking, that's my advise. Let it happen when it happens. How old are you by the way?

I agree Judy. I just find it interesting that it isn't socially or religiously acceptable for her to have a boyfriend but she's thinking of suicide which I would assume is worse than having a...

You want to kill yourself to hurt him and teach him a lesson? I'd say this goes beyond depression and sounds more like anger to me. You need professional counseling in my honest opinion.

At this...

Being stuck in a house with no AC and it's 100 degrees outside ;). Otherwise, an 11 year can be pretty and the OP can like her.

This day and age scares me to death. Things have changed so much...

I'm am so sorry to hear of your loss, I truly am. My heart goes out to you. As you have experienced, there are a lot of understanding and caring people on this site that are more than willing to...

Alty has a lot of wisdom in her responses and I'm happy that you are keeping the communication open. I can honestly tell you that what you are feeling and what Alty has described in the quoted piece...

Better yet, where did I come up with NY :s

EDIT: Sorry, been a very busy day. sbvandi you said that he hasn't met your children yet? Does he know about your children (sorry, without going back...

I haven't had a chance to read through every post but I did want to ask if you have considered state assistance for your situation? I believe I read NY is where you are currently located? Programs...

He won't change. If you have kids, take them to a friend's house, family member, or even a hotel. Report the abuse to the local authorities, get a restraining order.

My grandma was in the same...

You are obviously determined to pursue this affair so I'm only going to ask;

Are you willing to risk destroying not only your marriage and family but your husband's friend's as well? Are you OK...

Your husband needs help. It sounds like his world has turned upside down and he is pushing away the only things he has left in his life that bring him joy (i.e. You obviously, and his best friend). ...

Honestly, it sounds like to me that you would rather be single with the options of dating/sleeping with whom you wanted. As Judy states, this seems to be about you and your feelings. Billions...

Thank you, I truly appreciate it. You honestly brought a happy tear to my eye seeing this considering how rude I was to you before. Thank you Judy.

Cat, it's you and all the others on this sight...

Honestly my attitude at home has improved 10 fold since coming to this site. The insight that is offered in my thread and others that are similar to what I am experiencing has helped tremendously. ...

Thanks talaniman, the insight and advise is appreciated. I can definitely agree on the woods or fishing with friends. I could use some spin down time with friends. My alone time with friends is...

I apologized for what Judy was offended by and I did go back through and read through all of the responses and I agree I was being rude. Not going to make excuses for my responses, I was wrong.
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If I may, I would recommend turning off System Restore, reboot and install the AV application in normal mode, and then reboot in safe mode again and run the application.

System Restore - certain...

No, I don't use that language with my wife and children. I could really care less if you accept my sincere apology or not and really don't expect you to apologize for your rudeness but I can tell...

I do appologize that my abbreviation offended you, seriously but please realize the way you seem to have read between the lines offend me as well. I have no ill will towards you and do appreciate...

Thanks Maddy, what happened is when we talked about the plans a week earlier she had mentioned that she wanted to pick the kids up that night. I told her that we wouldn't get home until midnight...

Thank you Maddy, I seriously appreciate the encouragement.



That makes sense, sorry, I was trying to separate the two and just confused myself.



Thank you, I really appreciate the...

I'd have to agree with everyone else that has posted. Your new wife needs to realize that they are as much, if not more, a part of your life as she is.

I can’t agree. My other post has nothing to do with what I am talking about in this post. I have obviously struck a nerve because of my opinion in regards to my daughter because you were in a...

Let me start by saying that I am so grateful that this site exists. I stumbled upon it the other day searching for answers about my wife rather spending all her time and energy on the kids and...

First off, I'm a stepfather of a 15yr old so I've been there and done that. I've been in my daughter’s life since she was 3 years old. I'm the only dad she has known considering her father has been...