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Should you stay friends with her? Absolutely not. Do not give her that satisfaction after she dumped you for some guy she met on the internet, come on now.

I definitely need to work towards a more moral lifestyle. My current god so to speak is sex, lust and pleasure. That's all I care about. I am not afraid to admit this as I feel being honest about...

Thanks. I am trying my hardest and hope to find my way soon. Science and religion fitting together is often very difficult..

I am weak in faith and have been an atheist or agnostic at best since I was 14 years old, I am 22 now. I am trying to find my way to Christ but my mind is plagued with doubt and confusion. Please...

That is quite a while to be together, nine years. Really if you have lasted that long, I think that marriage is not out of your reach.

There are many different things that you need to factor in...

I don't necessarily think you need therapy or help in a big way like others suggest. She is a beautiful girl. Girls that have model-like looks, go clubbing constantly, party all the time, and flirt...

I still don't understand why people wake up one day and all of a sudden say "Oh you are x religion and I am y religion, we can't date". Why do they even start a relationship with someone in the first...

Being the lone wolf and maverick that I am, I don't care what anyone says or thinks about who I am with if I am in love with them.

Furthermore, I think it's a real farce that she would just give...

Lol, if she is feeding you the "find myself" line and she is 45 frankly I think she is feeding you lines. I wouldn't stick around for this one. If she hasn't had enough time to find herself after 45...

I appologize for this, but this girl apparently has some mental issues. I didn't read everything because I didn't have to. This "I love you" one second and "We can't be together" the next minute is...

I've heard from a lot of people that this is more of an American/Canadian problem than in a lot of other parts of the world. Sadly this entitlement complex is here to stay, I personally believe this...

I appologize if it was a bit of a blanket statement, but yes, I agree that a lot of guys are the same way. Everyone needs to not put up with so much BS so we can all be smacked down to earth.

I support you on this. Women from their teens to late twenties seem to change their mind as much as an OCD man washes his hands a day. I do not trust women as far as I can throw them, and have not...

I really would forget her. I didn't read everything in this thread, but from what I did read by her wanting "no strings" and her room mate saying all she cares about it meeting guys, to me that...

People wonder why men and women alike hide their past and make up lies, because they get villified and crucified by their boyfriend and girlfriend for it. Case in point right here.

Edit: Ugh I...

I can see what you're saying there. Just in general that always seems to be what happens. But a lot of times, even having just a little bit of feelings for another person when you are in a...

To answer your question before emo, I didn't give her enough attention and wasn't there for her when I should have been. She got fed up and moved out and I never saw or heard from her again.

This isn't a big deal. I have done way more than that on day one and had long lasting relationships.

I know. This happens every so often someone digs up a topic that is like 3 years old, lol.

This all seems extremely eccentric and strange to me. What would her losing her virginity have to do with mental stability? And I wonder how you'd feel if this was your fiancé who was trying to be...

How do people find threads that are three years old and post on them?

Hmm. Being a sexual guy myself the number only starts to irk me if its above 10. I think this is just a deep rooted stigma that society has put in our heads that sex is bad. The more important thing...

I know my friend, its damn cruel and it sucks. I have been through so many women since the love of my life last July. And I have not found one that I have loved or felt for like I did with her.

I...

How old are you two?

If he isn't willing to talk to you, then there really is no hope. Communication is a must for an effective, long lasting relationship.

A lot of people are under the illusion that older men are much more mature than younger men, which I think is false. I have known 18 year olds who you'd think had the life experience and insight of a...

Being a woman, you should know better than anyone what you might consider the best and nicest thing to do for your partner isn't necessarily what pushes her buttons. AKA the nice guy finishing last...

There is so much going on here that I cannot even break it down.

He clearly has commitment problems and seems to always be looking for the next best thing. He cannot and will not settle down with...

It brings up a red flag to me that it's a competition to see who's the best, you or Ryan. So what happens if some other guy comes along again after you win her back and he is "better" than you? Do...

I am very adament when I'm in a relationship that if a man cannot respect the boundaries of our relationship then he cannot be your friend. He wants in her pants, not her friendship as much as she...

Emopunk, let me give this a try.

You made a few mistakes here but I don't think you are a lost hope for future relationships.

I myself do not trust women as far as I can throw them. As much as...

Sorry to hear that. After almost one year I broke contact myself and ran into the same issue. Except her wanabee hardcore boyfriend started threatening to fight me and kill me, etc. Which I told him...

I always find it so interesting when a woman says that she needs a break, yet there's *always* "this guy" she's been talking to for a few weeks or says she likes a little but still loves you.

Hmm.. I still have no resolution to these thoughts, I have a lot on my plate right now. I have a pregnant girlfriend that I'm not sure I love, so I am in a big mess.

I sit here and wish I wouldn't...

Here's another tip: Don't fall for or try and date a party girl. It's a recipe for a broken heart. I think I know one party girl out of the hundreds I've met that is actually a classy girl.

There is no going back to her, the girl hates me, its been pretty well established months ago.

For your information, she was on a very effective birth control with almost a 100% success rate, but an antibiotic messed with the medication and did not allow it to work.

The weirdest part about it, is that the images and memories become more appealing and beautiful by the day, even before I met this current girl that I am with. I guess I haven't forgiven myself for...

I don't understand why this is happening, I feel like a new comer here posting about how he misses his ex. Everyone else here got over it and moved on, but its been almost eight months and I still...

No, what happened was I neglected her and got too comfortable and used to her being around, and then she left, and I realized the mistake too late.

I think part of it is that I'm worried that I'm going to screw things up like I did with my ex, and that if I truly let her in my heart that she is going to tear it out. I read all of the posts here...

About the child support, she actually said since she didn't give me a choice in whether she was keeping the baby that I could walk away and she would not take me to court for child support.. I feel...

Well my friends, I'm back again. I've really done it good this time, I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl that I've been with since late November, she is pregnant and is keeping the baby,...

Let me throw in my two cents on this one, as I know exactly what the poster is talking about here. These kinds of women are a by product of our society, the degradation of men and their pride. They...

See how willing she is to change her cell phone number, that will be a good indicator as to whether she is serious or not.

Being liberal in my viewpoints, I don't see anything wrong with it as long as you are safe, and I don't think anyone here telling you not to do it is going to change your mind. Maybe take one extra...

In my general experience, men in their 30's who are single are single for a reason. I'd date around your own age.

I'm glad that you aren't one of those girls that just jumps to the next best thing, my comments weren't going to be so nice but I'm glad you are giving the guy a chance.

For the future, Don't put...

There is a girl that I met through a dating website months ago, she has always liked me and wanted me, I did not. She lied and told me she was 18, but really is 17. I did not do anything with her,...

That's good. There's nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex, even though I do think that they can cause trouble sometimes, but often times it's just more worth it to be secure and let...