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    So basically you do not want to end this...

    So basically you do not want to end this relationship.

    Then don't pretend that you do.

    You are having an affair with a married man.

    Who does not spend his vacactions with you.
    He is...
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    If I were you I would get serious training in...

    If I were you I would get serious training in becoming an event planner.
    Truthfully: you can offer your services for free, but do you really think that people would give such a big event to...
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    Your past is not ruining your present. The...

    Your past is not ruining your present.

    The person you married is ruining it.

    And by going to counseling you take a step in not allowing him to.

    Good luck.
  4. Question: Dinner Etiquette

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    Bring flowers. Bringing a dessert may be a...

    Bring flowers.

    Bringing a dessert may be a nice idea, however they may have already bought dessert, who knows ?

    A beautiful bouquet will make everybody smile.
    I am Dutch.
    Maybe it's a...
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    Excellent suggestion !

    Excellent suggestion !
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    You were not invited. So how could you now. ...

    You were not invited.
    So how could you now.
    End of story.
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    LOL You are so right... What kid of sick...

    LOL You are so right...
    What kid of sick boyfriend is it anyway to suggest something like that ?
    Gosh, what happened to "good old romance???"
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    Exactly!! You must be kidding: "I have a...

    Exactly!!

    You must be kidding: "I have a serious problem??? I need to lose five pounds?"

    Browse under "health problems" and get realistic.

    You have a wish to lose five pounds.
    That's...
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    Personal abuse is a definite NO. That would be...

    Personal abuse is a definite NO.
    That would be a reason for me to approve of divorce.

    All else is a matter of hard work.
    Communication is key.

    Marriage goes up and down.
    It's life.
    ...
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    Agree with Ruby PItbull. It is always...

    Agree with Ruby PItbull.

    It is always thoughtful and will be appreciated when you write a thank-you note.
    It's just very polite.
    Which is a good thing :)
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    No, why would you ? You contribute to the...

    No, why would you ?

    You contribute to the stroller which in itself is already a nice gesture.

    When other people want to do a bit more, that's their decision.

    Don't feel pressured.
    ...
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    Excellent!

    Excellent!
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    Patience seems the key here... It may come...

    Patience seems the key here...

    It may come from a past relationship or something that happened in her childhood, who knows... Insecurity can be caused by many things.

    As a woman myself I...
  14. Sorry.. I forgot to say. I have a feeling...

    Sorry.. I forgot to say.

    I have a feeling that this boyfriend is not really good.
    He has done a lot of things that I think are unacceptable and if I were you I would be out.

    But... you seem...
  15. Sometimes love is not enough... If you are as...

    Sometimes love is not enough...

    If you are as controlling and jealous as you describe here then I can imagine that at some point it would have been too much for your boyfriend.
    Jealousy is...
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    Irena... Your husband -the way you describe...

    Irena...

    Your husband -the way you describe him- seems to have ruled a lot in your marriage.
    However... I can only go at what I read, but by the sound of it you have allowed him to do so...
    ...
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    I am European... and there is definitely not a...

    I am European... and there is definitely not a different attitude towards open marriages.

    An open marriage so partners can get lovers ?
    Then why get married in the first place... that would...
  18. Question: Strip clubs

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    He's a guy. Guy's do "guys things..." Women...

    He's a guy.
    Guy's do "guys things..."
    Women talk and talk and talk after we break up or are in problems...
    Men tend to "do things"... that's how they bond.
    Can they not do something else...
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    I think that people write here because it's safe....

    I think that people write here because it's safe.
    They post under a fake name, they can vent and get things "out in the open".


    It's like meeting strangers at the airport...
    They tell you the...
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    Sorry to sound so blunt... you are fooling...

    Sorry to sound so blunt... you are fooling yourself.
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    I am sure you are not the only one who feels like...

    I am sure you are not the only one who feels like this...

    Wise not to get involved with somebody new before you have your own life back on track...

    Do what you promised yourself... live by...
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    Fr-Chuck... I could not agree more.

    Fr-Chuck... I could not agree more.
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    AW805 is right... there is a lot more going on...

    AW805 is right... there is a lot more going on than this.
    Nobody breaks jkust up because her boyfriend does not want to go to the mall and if that would truly the reason you should be happy...
    ...
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    Well... you don't know what you've got till it's...

    Well... you don't know what you've got till it's gone.

    This was your decision.
    And it turned out to be a bit different than what you envisioned.
    You write that your husband is a decent man......
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    I don't think it's about parents wanting to show...

    I don't think it's about parents wanting to show off their children...
    A wedding is for many people a happy celebration where family and friends are together to celebrate. Their children might be...
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    As for "it was not supposed to get this far but...

    As for "it was not supposed to get this far but hey it happened..."
    Such a bunch of nonsense.

    You made a choice.
    These thing don't "just happen"...

    You made the decision to have an...
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    Married to another woman = not committed to you. ...

    Married to another woman = not committed to you.

    Did the penny drop ?
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    It's quite fast to have moved into a new...

    It's quite fast to have moved into a new relationship of 3 years...
    Could it be that you are not yet healed from that one...

    By the sound of it you are carrying some old pain with you in this...
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    Your husband started a new job and has to study...

    Your husband started a new job and has to study at home...
    So he is also working hard to improve his family's life... right ?
    A marriage does not go bad because of the fact that you can't have...
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    Of course he will tell you that... Please...

    Of course he will tell you that...

    Please come one...
    Don't you think you deserve better than "being the other woman"

    It does not matter what the man says... ( married or living with...
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    You are being very wise. I wish you all the...

    You are being very wise.

    I wish you all the best and hope that -when the time is right and you are healed from this relationship- you will be with somebody who does respect and loves you the way...
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    You will find it under "Marriage". And...

    You will find it under "Marriage".

    And although your situation may sound similar...
    It boils down to the same thing.

    This is not your man.
    He is married.
    With another woman.
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    Read the thread of MsMe. You will find 24...

    Read the thread of MsMe.

    You will find 24 pages on this topic.



    Read the pages.
    And ask yourself... how would your daughter feel if her dad was going this to her and her mother.
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    There you go... Don't sabotage it... Read...

    There you go...
    Don't sabotage it...

    Read some of the questions on this board.
    Count your blessings.

    Don't even go there Mira559... enjoy your life.
    Nothing is perfect.
    Nothing.
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    Keep this in mind: by contacting him you will...

    Keep this in mind: by contacting him you will likely push him away.
    The man has COMMITMENT FEAR...

    So... if you want any chance to let him deal with his issue... give him time and space.

    If...
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    I would rather use my time to have a meeting with...

    I would rather use my time to have a meeting with a divorce lawyer.

    Sounds like a clear case to me...
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    OF COURSE you are feeling like that... It's not...

    OF COURSE you are feeling like that...
    It's not even a necessary question dear helpnow... you are sick to the stomach of this situation.

    Having said that... you have to wait and be patient for...
  38. Question: Just friends

    by gypsy456
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    Nowhat brings up an interesting and essential...

    Nowhat brings up an interesting and essential phrase... "forsaking all others"

    That does not only mean "physical".
    If this is reaching -and by the sound of is it already has- the point where...
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    I would have to agree with you. Speak to the...

    I would have to agree with you.

    Speak to the brother, but stay out of it.
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    Yep... hurtingalot is driving herself nuts.

    Yep... hurtingalot is driving herself nuts.
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    Does he know you are pregnant ?

    Does he know you are pregnant ?
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    Nobody deserves to be cheated on. For sure. ...

    Nobody deserves to be cheated on.
    For sure.

    Is it any of your business..
    How good is your relationship with your brother ?
    Do you get along well ?
    It is after all his decision to marry...
  43. Question: Just friends

    by gypsy456
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    Interesting situation. I have been through...

    Interesting situation.
    I have been through something that may or may not have been similar.

    When I met my -now husband- boyfriend he was still befriended with some ex girlfriends which was fine...
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    Go to counseling, either together or by yourself....

    Go to counseling, either together or by yourself.

    If together then it will hopefully help you marriage.

    If by yourself, then it will hopefully give you the insights to move on.
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    I agree with McKenzie: do not call nor contact...

    I agree with McKenzie: do not call nor contact him.
    Not at all.

    He broke off the relationship.
    Because he knows that at some point the M word will come back again.
    That's why he is seeking...
  46. Question: Am I growing?

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    Geez Startover22... that's a lot you are going...

    Geez Startover22... that's a lot you are going through.
    It's a lot to be a mother of 4, dealing with your hubbies health and the financial juggling. The house market is tough... we are looking to...
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    You will be fine. It just take time. Stop...

    You will be fine.

    It just take time.

    Stop the drama.

    You are driving yourself nuts.


    Take a deep breath and one day at the time...
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    Find the balance... You love him. You think...

    Find the balance...

    You love him.
    You think he likes you...

    Keep things light and breezy...
    Guys hate things to be heavy...
    And by the sound of it you are not girlfriend and boyfriend...
  49. Question: Am I growing?

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    Anything to support... that's after all what we...

    Anything to support... that's after all what we do give each other here on this Forum, right ?

    We grow...
    And be grateful you are not like "that" forever.
    Forever is a long time :)

    We...
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    Set boundaries. To me this one is worth a...

    Set boundaries.

    To me this one is worth a "good discussion" with your husband.

    He must be kidding...

    This is one of the cases where I think... "don't give in"


    Good luck !
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